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RockstarLemming
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious South Asian Male, 45
0 km · Gauteng

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A bit late to the party but here's mine...
The first is a phrase that I've long held as my life's ambition and motto, and at the time I was considering getting a tattoo kept on popping up in various places and ways. "Je ne regrette rien" (from the Edith Piaf song) meaning 'I regret nothing', tattoo'd on my chest.
My second is a design that I've always liked and is an almost tribal (in a way) version of a yin-yang symbol. The version I have comes from the game Fable 2 and I've got it in black and white on my upper arm.
My third is on my shoulder and is a tribute to my favourite author (Edgar Allan Poe) and is the word 'Nevermore' (from the poem The Raven) where the letters make up the shape of a raven. This is again a kind of affirmation for me - and it looks totally wicked too!
I'm itching to get my fourth one done, but I'm taking my time in getting the right design together - I'm very much an ink junkie - there's something almost mystical about feeling that fleeting pain leave something permanent on you smile
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Quote by Sofistikitty
I wonder if men go through this to?

Yeah we do! Still not completely over my ex and we broke up 3 months ago.
Like PIB (I think) said, each one is different. I'm just keeping busy and hanging out with my friends (especially when I'm feeling depressed about it). It slowly gets better smile
Sorry this happened to you
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Quote by botazz
I once had a secretary who used to sit on the photo copier and make a copy which she then left on my desk.

Hope she got a good raise from you ;)
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Well said PIB! We all have our limits on what we feel is acceptable or erotic. While I will never engage in scat acts, I'm not going to label or deny others the right to do so out of my sight. Accept your limits and let others have theirs. I had a girlfriend who wouldn't let me go down on her because that was gross to her (normal to me) but had no problem biting me hard enough to leave bruises all over my body! I'm game to try most things but my definite hard limits are young, scat, animals, extreme pain, blood and needles.
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Quote by Stamina
You have a pen ready? And many sheets of paper - the list is long...

Can I also get a copy of that list?
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Happy V-Day everyone, Hope you all have a lovely day with your partners and aren't too lonely if you don't have a partner. The best part of today is...it's FRIDAY! So happy weekend too!
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Labelling people is always a tough sell. There are so many grey areas and exceptions that it's hard to get it right all the time.
In my perspective...(and I agree with LeeEC here) it's about who you are SEXUALLY attracted to. I know that I'm about to follow up with might seem contradictory but it makes sense to me. I am not sexually attracted to men, I don't see an actor on TV or a guy walking down the street and think "Hey, he's hot and turns me on, I wanna shag him". So in that respect, I do not in any way consider myself gay/homosexual (I am not exclusively attracted to men). But I have no problem in engaging in sexual acts with other men - to me that's all about pleasure (and different ways of experiencing and enjoying that pleasure) and not about showing/having gay tendencies.
Quote by Stamina
After all, a man giving another man a blow job is performing a homosexual act.

While your statement is empirically true...a man giving another man a blow job, is just a SEXUAL act of a man giving another man a blow job. Being bisexual (to me) is more about getting/giving/appreciating pleasure from both men and woman.
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Quote by KC_
Well, some silver rings oxidise to black depending on how your body reacts to it... So, if anyone looks at you strangely, you can say it IS a silver ring... but has oxidised... lol
;)
C

This comment reminds me of those people who wear those copper bracelets and insist that the green oxidation stains are proof that it works! :shudder: Was just proof they didn't shower properly :lol:
That being said, I've got a silver ring with 'windows' cut out all along it and a black band underneath. Maybe it'll work?
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Hopefully the bathroom will get redone this year LeeEC! Though I have found the pool works just fine ;)
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as a big guy, I haven't yet found a bath that will take both of us and not have all the water spill out when we get going. We also had the same height problems in the shower as the others mentioned Gonna keep trying though smile
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I must admit I would be sorely tempted as well. I'm the go-to guy at work for help with editing reports smile
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I figure I have nothing to hide. When you do meet someone they going to see you as you are. I also tend to be more critical when describing myself. @Stamina: yes people do see shapes differently. And I don't have a problem if it's a little bit off (note...a little!). I also think it's misrepresentation if someone says athletic and they're a big couch potato.
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I have perhaps a few too many hobbies/interests that keep me spread quite thin sometimes :blush: I sing, can play rhythm guitar and a bit of bass. I was in a few bands back in my varsity days, but now its more sing-a-longs by the braai with the rest of the family. I read a lot - mainly fantasy and science fiction as my work is chemistry related and I need a way to escape the numbers and complex names smile - I have a huge library of real books, and an almost as large collection on my Kindle (best purchase ever!). I'm a gamer geek (PC, X-Box, tabletop roleplaying games, boardgames). I also write for a webcomic that I started with a friend of mine. As a new homeowner I'm getting into the whole DIY business, quite proud of my small yet growing tool collection. And my next project/hobby is to get involved in archery. I've always been fascinated with medieval weaponry (back at varsity I was on the KZN Sabre team for fencing) and now want to learn a new weapon.
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That's very sad to hear. I would have thought it would be easier for couples (as open and detailed as you are in your profile) to find legit people. Guess not. I will miss you, enjoy your posts here. Hope you find what you're looking for
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Great post PIB with great advice (as always). Something everyone can learn from and improve smile
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Quote by SDMR
Dude, firstly welcome back . . . .
secondly, if you are going to allow other people to use your technological devices, you better learn pretty damn quick how to delete browsing history on them . . . . . . (fixes the link suggestion issue)

Yeah I hear you...the downside of getting and showing off a new phone lol
I have made the necessary changes now though smile
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Oh yes PIB - I certainly need to be punished!!! And you're pretty much the main reason I came back to this site wink
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Hi all, Just to let you know I am back. I (foolishly) deleted my account - instead of just deactivating it - when a girl I was seeing stumbled onto the link while using my phone. Yes I know that was incredibly silly of me (she just saw the link and didn't go to the site) - and damn Google for bringing up link suggestions when only a few letters are entered! If you really want to know...we're not at a point where I am willing to share my CD/bi curious side with her and I overreacted (just a little bit silly) I did miss you all very much and I'm glad to be back - being more careful as to my browser settings - lesson learnt! *Mods* If this is in the wrong forum I'll move it. Just that most of the people I interacted with were from here smile