Ok so been on this "search" for couples or unicorn(single female) for just over month. We have been disappointed, shocked and teased. We throwing in the towel. We sick and tired. This was meant to be exciting and pleasurable, but turning out to be energy draining.
We have put ads up got view responses from different ppl. There are single women that are just sorry to say "naaaasty", no offence to anyone just not our cuppa tea. People that are into drugs, people that haven't been tested recently. Some are skeptical and say that our pics are fake. Some complain cos we don't do pornographic pics. Even some that say we too goodlooking - (seriously WTF). There are couples that will send pics of their insides showing all, but refuse to send face pics. Folks that send pics and we reply then move to email/chat and realise we are not white. Couples that tell us we over fussy cause we would like to meet up for drinks or coffee first. And don't even get me started on fake pics why why why???
There's been chicks that have only wanted to chat and be with Mr K and males that ask me if I play alone and would I cheat after I say no. Weird responses and questions(can I shit on u), people that are against safe sex and just being safe in general( no drugs/ safe venue). Women that have been too forward regarding Mr K and my relationship.
I can go on and on but sure u get the picture sure...so calling it quits, have more fun/pleasure alone anyway without all this drama.
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Quote by kawaicouple
Ok so been on this "search" for couples or unicorn(single female) for just over month. We have been disappointed, shocked and teased. We throwing in the towel. We sick and tired. This was meant to be exciting and pleasurable, but turning out to be energy draining.
We have put ads up got view responses from different ppl. There are single women that are just sorry to say "naaaasty", no offence to anyone just not our cuppa tea. People that are into drugs, people that haven't been tested recently. Some are skeptical and say that our pics are fake. Some complain cos we don't do pornographic pics. Even some that say we too goodlooking - (seriously WTF). There are couples that will send pics of their insides showing all, but refuse to send face pics. Folks that send pics and we reply then move to email/chat and realise we are not white. Couples that tell us we over fussy cause we would like to meet up for drinks or coffee first. And don't even get me started on fake pics why why why???
There's been chicks that have only wanted to chat and be with Mr K and males that ask me if I play alone and would I cheat after I say no. Weird responses and questions(can I shit on u), people that are against safe sex and just being safe in general( no drugs/ safe venue). Women that have been too forward regarding Mr K and my relationship.
I can go on and on but sure u get the picture sure...so calling it quits, have more fun/pleasure alone anyway without all this drama.
Hi guys, sorry to hear that you have not had any success yet.
It can be frustrating, esp when people don't bother reading your profile, as for the singles that want to play with one half of the couple, well what can you say.
Hope you have better luck next time round.
P.s. worth sticking around a bit and maybe just checking in every week or two.
Anyway, wishing you the best and a merry x-mas, will also be missing your comments on the forum
Warming the Bed
That's very sad to hear. I would have thought it would be easier for couples (as open and detailed as you are in your profile) to find legit people. Guess not.
I will miss you, enjoy your posts here. Hope you find what you're looking for
We fully agree with you. We have also experienced some fake people. Jeez I mean why do you contact people if you know you won't be interested. Here in the George - area its such a huge problem just to get to meet good decent people. Don't worry I've also been asked to join single men and cheat on hubby. How we wish to just meet a few good people who accept us as we are (lumps and bumps that's mostly mine ).
And no we not just here to get in bed but to create long lasting friendships but I guess people are here for things other than fun.
You will be missed I always enjoyed your posts on the forum. Hope that you get to have all your hearts fantasies.
This game is very perplexing, way more so that regular couple hook-ups. It is hard to figure out how to have success.
Normally couples with a lady that has a hot slender body can have their pick of hook-ups, although it is not our first preference.
Your lady's pics do look good and in shape. (The angle could be misleading)
Your profile however states that she is large.
That may let the viewers feel that something is amiss and fake like so many others.
Our preference is for medium to curvy ladies but anyone looking for large ladies will be disappointed when they see your pics with a slender lady.
This site is predominantly white and many will discount you on account of race but others will favour you for that.
A profile that sais you're "Easy" also gets lots of attention but rules turn people off.
The wording in your profile also shows frustration and aggression. This turns lots of easy going people off. I recommend that your profile reflects more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
When the idiots bug you, just click the Delete button on their ass. It actually takes less time than fighting them.
After all that, it still takes most of us a long time to get what we're looking for.
Normally couples with a lady that has a hot slender body can have their pick of hook-ups, although it is not our first preference.
Your lady's pics do look good and in shape. (The angle could be misleading)
Your profile however states that she is large.
That may let the viewers feel that something is amiss and fake like so many others.
Our preference is for medium to curvy ladies but anyone looking for large ladies will be disappointed when they see your pics with a slender lady.
This site is predominantly white and many will discount you on account of race but others will favour you for that.
A profile that sais you're "Easy" also gets lots of attention but rules turn people off.
The wording in your profile also shows frustration and aggression. This turns lots of easy going people off. I recommend that your profile reflects more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
When the idiots bug you, just click the Delete button on their ass. It actually takes less time than fighting them.
After all that, it still takes most of us a long time to get what we're looking for.
Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
This game is very perplexing, way more so that regular couple hook-ups. It is hard to figure out how to have success.
Normally couples with a lady that has a hot slender body can have their pick of hook-ups, although it is not our first preference.
Your lady's pics do look good and in shape. (The angle could be misleading)
Your profile however states that she is large.
That may let the viewers feel that something is amiss and fake like so many others.
Our preference is for medium to curvy ladies but anyone looking for large ladies will be disappointed when they see your pics with a slender lady.
This site is predominantly white and many will discount you on account of race but others will favour you for that.
A profile that sais you're "Easy" also gets lots of attention but rules turn people off.
The wording in your profile also shows frustration and aggression. This turns lots of easy going people off. I recommend that your profile reflects more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
When the idiots bug you, just click the Delete button on their ass. It actually takes less time than fighting them.
After all that, it still takes most of us a long time to get what we're looking for.
Thank for your response, must admit I feel a bit offended or maybe I am misreading your post. Unless you have misunderstood my post and misread our are entitled to your opinion though. But in response firstly I think our orofile is to the point and alright. If we come across as aggressive then people are not reading it properly. We are who we are, we are not desperate. We are a handsome couple and would prefer people we are attracted to. We don't want to sleep with just anybody. We are a strong, unstoppable coloured couple and if someone has an issue with that its their issue.
We did not say we do not get any responses. We meant we get weird ones and ones that we are not willing to accept (eg. Drugs, appearance, approach). As for the female pics. I am a full figured woman. Large does not need to mean huge or what ever was meant. We are honest and straight forward in our profile. And doubt we will be adjusting it - thank s again.
