This area of the site is on trial for commercial events, these guidelines are a working document that may change and evolve until we have a set of guidance notes suited to the new commercial section of swinging heaven It should be noted: 

- Swinging Heaven has no involvement in any events or club events. 

- Swinging Heaven takes no share of any profit made from an event, and the service is provided free for the use of registered site members only. 

- Members should make up their own mind whether an event offers good value for money. 

- Swinging Heaven makes no representation regarding the quality of the event or venue.

- Members should make their own enquiries if the venue they may be attending, holds the relevant commercial insurance, fire, electrical, food hygiene and other such certificates. Swinging Heaven makes no representation regarding this matter. 

No external links or emails, the only exception being those clubs that link back to us from their home page (highlighted in the clubs section). 

No Phone Numbers

If you are listing an Event / Club event, from which you are going to make a profit for yourself or business, then this is the section for you. 

No club should list more than the next 3 forthcoming events.

We have some plans to improve groups

question of protection

Do's and dont's of Swinging

Are your approach and manner affecting your chances?

Single Men And Swinging

Swinger friendly: Daytime and hourly venues

Dick pics: You are missing your target market

Swinger friendly BnB's and accomodation (incl Nudist venues)

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Quote by davew
I like it. The only bug so far is that if you click on a sent message (as yet unread) it picks up on your newsfeed as having been read by the recipient. Hence I have messages saying my message has just been read by someone that hasn't been online for 4 days... That gets confusing as hell.

That one should be fixed in the next update

Well you did say " we have to read through all the unwanted crap to finally get to what we were looking for" when you don't actually have to read any of the "crap", all you have to do is click on one of the links to get what you looking for, the last couple of members that viewed your profile are still there plus everything else.

You know feedback isn't a bad thing for us, but constructive feedback is always better as some of the posts and the way they're written just indicate a reluctance to accept change and help make improvements, the feed is still under development and will be changing as time moves on to make it better, suggestions such as filters are good, it would also be good to hear ideas about what you'd like to see that isn't there.

At the end of the day the homepage is a starting point for everyone to get where they want to go on the site, our aim is to make it as useful as we can for both new members and existing ones, even with the old one I doubt anyone would log in and spend all of their time here staring at it rather than exploring the site and doing what they like to do here.

Those that joined us some time back have both premium membership and Extras free whilst they're members on the site, those that set up new accounts now get Premium membership free but not extras regardless of account type, premium membership gives you access to all areas of the site, on our other sites new members have greater restrictions when they join and have to pay for Premium membership, as for who has paid, its everyone that has joined since the change that added Extras.

As for "You won't get a cent from me..." 

Quote by Stoutgatte_xxx
You say just click on the menu area of choice but what if our menu area of choice was the home page ?
Now we have to read through all the unwanted crap to finally get to what we were looking for that was there on the home page and easy to access all along 
 

Tell me one thing that was on the old home page that can't be found by the links on the top right of the new page

My bad Ashlee, might I suggest you not follow the following link.

Absolutely hilarious pmsl 

Quote by Adonis
Good laugh, but under no circumstances, before we met and knew you better, would we give our cell phone to anyone. That's the reason why adm so strict on putting mail or phone numbers in your profile description or any message

Quote by mikespike09
I agree that single males are not on top of the food chain here and that couples and ladies have the right to lay down the rules and laws. But please hear us out, if every profile says no single males, where should we go? I though that this site caters for everybody. Agreed that there are a few bad apples and they should be dealt with. There should be some sort of report card that other couples and ladies can go back to once some people have met said single male and can give future possible prospects more information and peace of mind before meeting a single.. frustrated male.
Thank you
Mike

Quote by playcouple
Its a sheep thing, many many years back some smart arse added it to their profile on a distant site and as people saw it they copied it.
Its a total waste of time and I don't know why people feel the need to use it.

well as long as they don't start using the blue ink the cost should be ok

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ FunwithaFYou have just said it like it is...
Being behind a computer screen, you can become who ever you want to be, and the moment you have to meet your little bubble of fantasies burst like a soap bubble does....and you will be exposed to who you really are.
That is why the really SERIOUS players will have validations and verification's from other profiles, on their profile.
Now I also know it is VERY easy to get verified by numerous people here on SH by just going on the webcam in chat and many people verify you.
That ALSO does not make you the real deal in my eyes, as I can go behind my lover/spouse/friends back while he or she is not home and talk to various people via webcam and thus get verified!
But now the person who makes contact with you can the opportunity to mail the profiles who verified you to ask about you, and there and then you can decide who is the real deal and who not, because I myself ONLY verify anyone who I have met in person in real life face to face.
I might NOT have played with them but met face to face. And I expect the people who verify me to do the same, to have met me in person.
When this happens, I always tell the person who enquirers about someone, that I have met the person and that he or she is the real deal...Nothing more, you now have to go meet them yourself to see if there is any chemistry or way you also ensures the other persons privacy!!! It also means that because I like someone that you will also like someone. We all have to see if we like the other person when we meet.
That is the really only way to know whom you are talking to and whom you are to meet.
Now also know not everyone you meet verify you and you do not verify everyone you meet,but it is a nice system if it is used correctly.

Quote by SDMR
Ok, so now Ashlee has me wondering. What actually happens when you click the Ignore button on a message?

Quote by stoutgatte2013
what's the chances in staring a forum to expose the fraudsters and bull shitters. the guys posing as couples but when push comes to show only wants to plays alone.
or the ones you meet that does not even closely resemble the picks on the site.
and the people that's here just to collect pics.
If we all know who they are we can save ourselves lots of time just not chatting to them.
Maybe I'm just having a bad Monday