What is this whole extras nonesense

So I am a part of a couple. Don't really indulge in play much anymore. So I created a seperate profile from the Mrs as I only wish to chat. Since creating a new profile, I have been bombarded by constant messages all over the place to upgrade to extras. On our couples profile we have never in our entire lives paid to do anything on the site. So my question is, 1. Who has paid and 2. Is this only happening to single male contacts. Oh by the way. You won't get a cent from me...

i can't say I've seen any of that. However I'm guessing saying you won't pay up won't help the cause.

Those that joined us some time back have both premium membership and Extras free whilst they're members on the site, those that set up new accounts now get Premium membership free but not extras regardless of account type, premium membership gives you access to all areas of the site, on our other sites new members have greater restrictions when they join and have to pay for Premium membership, as for who has paid, its everyone that has joined since the change that added Extras.

As for "You won't get a cent from me..." 

It's become a paysite?

yup. It happened just after the change over to the new site framework i think