frauds

26 Feb 2014

what's the chances in staring a forum to expose the fraudsters and bull shitters. the guys posing as couples but when push comes to show only wants to plays alone. or the ones you meet that does not even closely resemble the picks on the site. and the people that's here just to collect pics. If we all know who they are we can save ourselves lots of time just not chatting to them. Maybe I'm just having a bad Monday

26 Feb 2014

The "name and shame" idea has been discussed and will unfortunately not happen. People will burn others if they had a bad experience. The system will be abused. I think that it should be the opposite. Rather a page to acknowledge the good ones and possibly a rating system. I feel your pain though... There are alot of fakers and scammers here.

26 Feb 2014

We all have sympathy in some or other form due to our own experiences, but really guys, the name and shame thing is just so SA Government, and look what that has achieved . . . . . Do we really want to introduce a system that has little to no effect?

26 Feb 2014

@ stoutgatte. Seems you having a BLUE and bad Monday on this very nice Wednesday.

26 Feb 2014

Quote by stoutgatte2013
what's the chances in staring a forum to expose the fraudsters and bull shitters. the guys posing as couples but when push comes to show only wants to plays alone.
or the ones you meet that does not even closely resemble the picks on the site.
and the people that's here just to collect pics.
If we all know who they are we can save ourselves lots of time just not chatting to them.
Maybe I'm just having a bad Monday

If every genuine member took the time to image and member verify think how much better this place would be, all you'd need to do then is look at a profile and check that they show the following at the top of their profile to be more confident that they're not fake;
(Image verified)
(Member verified)
This on the other hand, may lead you to dig deeper to check that they are what they claim to be;
(NOT image verified)
(NOT member verified)
There are fakes out there and when we catch them we deal with them, name and shaming isn't acceptable though, if you have reason to believe that someone is fake, report them, but ensure that you provide information to back up your claim, I have dealt with my fair share of complaints about 'fake females' that turned out to be false accusations in the past, usually they get reported as fake after refusing to meet someone, that is not a good reason to accuse someone of being fake, you would be surprised how often this happens though.

27 Feb 2014

Thanx for your guys response:

2 Mar 2014

I think we should rather call it name and praise. Use it positively to describe the good time you had with a person or persons. The fakes will soon get the message. It does not pay to fake.

3 Mar 2014

If every genuine member took the time to image and member verify think how much better this place would be, all you'd need to do then is look at a profile and check that they show the following at the top of their profile to be more confident that they're not fake; (Image verified) (Member verified) Well here is the sad thing even if you are Image verified and Member verified the other couple dont go for you. So in that case I think those that burn their fingers with the fakes, deserve it. Joyrider kiss

3 Mar 2014

Quote by meohmy
I think we should rather call it name and praise. Use it positively to describe the good time you had with a person or persons. The fakes will soon get the message. It does not pay to fake.

Nice idea - but it also might be considered "breaking confidences" to name people you've played with.... so a fine line smile

Don't worry guys - the techs are working on a system to help us! It's just a REALLY big job to restyle the whole site framework. so it's taking some time.
@stoutegatte - make friends here - and get references in private, from friends you trust!!

3 Mar 2014

Quote by joyrider
If every genuine member took the time to image and member verify think how much better this place would be, all you'd need to do then is look at a profile and check that they show the following at the top of their profile to be more confident that they're not fake;
(Image verified)
(Member verified)
Well here is the sad thing even if you are Image verified and Member verified the other couple dont go for you. So in that case I think those that burn their fingers with the fakes, deserve it.
Joyrider

Rider - Image verified, and member verified doesn't equal good match & people we connect with well - or people who meet our requirements.
Besides - I'm not even verified and I'm a mod! Ha ha....
Maybe I should do something about that - it's just SUCH a pain for me where I live with such a crappy connection my cam won't work to stream (and I CAN'T do it from work! I'd get busted and canned in a heartbeat!)