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KC_
3 weeks ago
Pan White/Caucasian Non-binary, 37
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Cis Male, 39
0 km · Edenvale
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Maybe this approach has value for you.
What tends to happen with me, and with quite a lot of the couples I chat to, is that these profiles get ignored.
Then, possibly get remembered as people NOT to play with when/if the time comes that they are now looking for single males...
Our sex life is not a business, we do not need constant excitement to survive, unlike a business which needs constant business to survive.
Many of us couples have very fulfilling sex lives on our own, and the play time with other people is an extra, not a necessity.
When profiles have read our profile, or believe that they can provide something we ARE looking for, they have a much higher chance of success.. compared to profiles that think they can convince us to sample their goods.
Just my 2c
Ok, Mods, if this is inappropriate, please feel free to remove the post.
I am trying to compile a list of Sex-positive medical professionals, especially gynecologists and urologists.
Many of my clients have been asking for referrals to good professionals, and honestly, I personally only know one good gyne, and she is VERY busy (2 month waiting list).
Also, I think it may be beneficial for us as a community to share
our good doctors!
So, if you have a really good gyne, urologist or any other medical doctor who is sex-positive, makes you feel comfortable in their consulting rooms, and asks relevantsex-related questions without judgement, can you please send me their details?
Thanks
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I am trying to compile a list of Sex-positive medical professionals, especially gynecologists and urologists.
Many of my clients have been asking for referrals to good professionals, and honestly, I personally only know one good gyne, and she is VERY busy (2 month waiting list).
Also, I think it may be beneficial for us as a community to share
our good doctors!So, if you have a really good gyne, urologist or any other medical doctor who is sex-positive, makes you feel comfortable in their consulting rooms, and asks relevantsex-related questions without judgement, can you please send me their details?
Thanks
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Lol, yes!
I let it loose when I am on my back, but tie it up as soon as I move into a different position... I can't stand having hair in my face... also, I like to see what is happening without the curtain of hair...
I don't think I look prim when we are done, But I like to think the messy hair adds to the afterglow effect of good sex ;)
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One-night stands hold excitement, but that doesn't always translate into good sex, sadly more often than not, it leads to frustration and disappointment...
K and I have been together for 9 years, and in that time we have learnt each others' bodies. K can get me coming all over the place in just over a minute... and then I don't stop coming... This has yet to happen as quickly from other lovers...
That is the beauty of swinging. Once you find playmates where you all work well together, you get to learn how to please each other, and discover different techniques....
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My thoughts all depend on what has been happening in my life at that point...
It is often about K, and the messes he makes me make...
Or the things I read about in stories, or see in chick-flick romantic movies...
Or watching myself play on cam, as well as watching the other people/person in the room..
Or thinking about what our upcoming playdates are going to be like....
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When I read his comment last night, I got very upset. My first thought was 'how rude!' followed by how can you *see* 10 kg? Everybody'd body looks different! and some people carry more weight without looking 10kg 'over' something, and others are well within BMI limits, but may still appear 'over'...
PIB! I love your body positive attitude, and LOVE your pics! I wish I had the courage to post the kinds of pics you do!
At least we are all secure in our sense that this person will not get any action from any woman/couple who reads the forum!
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I am a dancing person.
I have been dancing for 11 years, although changed disciplines this year.
I may not be the best dancer, but it is the best way to lose yourself for a few hours, and feel great at the end of it!
K is into cycling. He did the 94.7 cycle challenge this past weekend.
Together we enjoy camping and general nature, oh, and we are snake collectors...
K is a walking bird book, which is awesome! We go to game parks, and spend our time looking in the trees for reptiles or birds, and he can correctly identify almost all of them! 
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C PIB! I always love the way you express these things!
Mrs E! My very first bi experience was very similar to what you have written here! I felt completely weirded out!
My second experience was much more pleasurable for me as the *giver*, but she was not the most vocal of ladies... and I can only assume I was doing ok, because of the moaning.... But she never commented, nor did she return the favour - But it was not expected, as she was there to enjoy K more than me.... ;)
Although I am very much attracted to other woman, I have not had the pleasure of having many W/W reciprocal experiences... yet! I am sure that the more I practice... and the more we communicate... the better lover I will become :twisted:
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Quote by Stamina
I just feel that women should be treated with respect and never be expected to just "give it up". Believe or not, there are still some "nice guys" left on planet Earth. What I said above does not mean that a relationship must develop, the sex at the end of the courtship can also just be a once off, but the courtship must happen, the man must put effort into getting the lady to give up the forbidden fruit. My point is that women are not "prey"...
I get that you are trying to be respectful to women, and that is appreciated.
But I also get the impression that you think that women shouldn't "give it up". Did it ever occur to you that maybe she WANTS to? That is why she is on this site? To decide who she wants to give it up to? With or without forming a meaningful relationship.
Women have sexual needs just as men do. You may be the prey.
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I think athletic describes a body "look" as has been discussed here.
I lead an active lifestyle, work out more than most people I know, and yet I still only have an average body on a tiny (short) lady... I can do some awesome things with some of my muscles though.... does that make me muscular ;)
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Porn can be great for some couples. Note *couples*
If watched together, for the sake of seeing what is out there, and finding out what turns each other on, it can be a great catalyst for self- and partner-discovery.
That is not what Rain seems to be going through.
From what I am reading, the hard part for Rain, is the sense of rejection that she is not good enough. That he gets off on looking at "hairy mature" and not at her - a beautiful real lady!
And knowing that he prefers the screen to real life is a painful thing for woman to experience!
There is no easy fix here, as there could be a variety of reasons why this is happening...
Good Luck Rain! Let us know how the Desktop thing works for you.
Hopefully, if nothing else, it will start the conversation about your pain.
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PIB!!!!!!
The KINKS stall was awesome! When I saw it, I immediately thought of you!
They had a roped off area, where they were demonstrating loads of different things - all relatively vanilla, but still a shock for many people I'm sure!
The only issue I had with it, was whenever we walked passed, the doms were all men, and the subs/receivers were all women!
I am sure that Mistress Paige did a fair amount of the dom stuff, but we never saw her, or any other female domms.
Other than that, we both thoroughly enjoyed the KINKS stall
I always love Sexpo. There is so much to enjoy, and we usually stock up on our year's supply of condoms at the discounted prices!
As with anything, I think Sexpo is all about expectations. I personally think you need a good few hours to get the full experience, as there are stage shows, informative workshops and plenty of stalls to look at!
As always... the male strippers got my motor running! I wanted to give K head on the way home while he was driving, but we had a friend in the car, who would not have appreciated the show! (Actually, I think he would have, but social expectations and all that...)
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I always love Sexpo. There is so much to enjoy, and we usually stock up on our year's supply of condoms at the discounted prices!
As with anything, I think Sexpo is all about expectations. I personally think you need a good few hours to get the full experience, as there are stage shows, informative workshops and plenty of stalls to look at!
As always... the male strippers got my motor running! I wanted to give K head on the way home while he was driving, but we had a friend in the car, who would not have appreciated the show! (Actually, I think he would have, but social expectations and all that...)
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@Voyer, you should try being a DJ at an R&B and hip hop club. DJ's get all the pussy. On one occasion, after eye-banging this girl and her female friend for the whole night, we celebrated with some of Bob Marley's herb at my place afterwards. The highlight of the night was when female friend asked me to cum in her friend, pull out slowly and feed her my cock. I believe her exact words were "I want to taste the two of you at the same time". Lots of whiskey + weed = absolutely irresponsible by banging two strange chicks bareback the same night I met them.
Awesome story dude
However, you have shown us, as you have admitted, that you are not likely to be responsible when sexual opportunities arise.
Each to their own, but you have no idea what those ladies may have had in terms of STIs, and the same goes for you.
I hope that you got yourself tested for EVERYTHING after that, just for your own peace of mind.
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Quote by redbruce
KC, great that you had a sympathetic uncle you could count on! Wonderful that you trusted him enough to call him to assist, and then that he kept your secret for you. The naughty old man in me is imagining the thoughts going through his head (and yours!) every time you came to collect the dogs for their walk!!.......
Haha Redbruce!
I was very lucky to have him as an uncle!
The thoughts going through my head when I picked the dogs up... in the beginning were embarrassment, then it was just me walking his dogs for him.
My gynae recommended a product called Gynaguard, vaginal capsules.
Basically it is a vaginal probiotic, which helps get the pH down to where it should be.
She recommended it because I have a naturally high level of candida bacteria, without symptoms..
But, I find that for some reason, when I wear pantyliners, I start to feel the beginnings of candida symptoms...
When that happens, I just pop in a Gynaguard capsule, and in an hour or so the symptoms have gone away!
(I think pantyliners and such do not allow any airflow onto the vuvla, which makes the bacteria very happy)
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Quote by SDMR
Hi Peter,
So what did Security actually do to them? Lock them up, evict them from the park, or just hang around making sure they did not play any more? I'm curious - just how serious an offense is it if caught?
I can only imagine it would fall under public indecency, which would carry different severity based on different things. BUT, a security guard can do little more than call the real police unless you are breaking a specific venue written rule / regulation / law.
When I was a teenager, my bf and I decided to try the hidden in public sex thing...
Security found us, and cuffed us for public indecency.
I called my uncle, pretending it was my dad, who came and spoke to the security guys. I had to walk his dogs for months, but it was never spoken of again. I have no idea if security was being serious about taking us to the police station, or if they were just trying to scare some horny teens...
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