What has caused disappointment during playtime?
Mine was a play event, which was accompanied with other drama
- (some didn't pitch, the hosts backed out last minute, someone announced they were now divorced but still playing together!),
turned out that not only was the chap I ended up playing with, distracting, demanding and extremely intense
- (kept asking what I was thinking and trying to focus all my attention on his eyes, despite us being in the same room as our partners for the purpose of watching!)
he also was smaller than my husband and every time I found a decent angle/ position he would move me so that I was not only uncomfortable and not being pleasured, but now he was bruising me and hammering away and I was TOTALLY turned off and when I tried to tell him that the other position was better for me, told me "No, I know how to make i awesome" - he seemed to NEED to be on top of me!
- (So I lay there and wondered "For who?")
plus the condom kept slipping around which feels horrible inside!
I don't think my husband enjoyed himself either but I don't think he would ever say it, doesn't want to be rude or disrespectful.
So despite really liking them as people, I don't think we'll play with them again. I must be honest, I suspect his less than stellar skills might be the reason they also play alone without each other.....
I MUST be clear that it wasn't so much his lack of skill or girth that distressed me but his complete lack of willingness to learn what pleased ME!
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The nuts and bolts: What has caused disappointment during
Well as a cpl we always ask the people for pic of them self's. you know the kind where you check them out face body and tools. Not that we ourself have sport model bodies, but like they say a photo says way more than what words can say. Who ever came up with that saying must be shot, according to me! 
:lol:
Well after the meet great and okay lets set up a play date. Very thing goes well the foreplay right up to the time when the guy shows his tool and Joy turns and looks at me with that saying in her eyes, like in what the hell must I do with that small thing. It puts me clean off in going on any further with the guys lady. Because then Joy is not enjoying herself so how must i enjoy myself.
Now that is disappointment for me.
Rider
That dam photo :twisted: :lol:
:lol:
Well after the meet great and okay lets set up a play date. Very thing goes well the foreplay right up to the time when the guy shows his tool and Joy turns and looks at me with that saying in her eyes, like in what the hell must I do with that small thing. It puts me clean off in going on any further with the guys lady. Because then Joy is not enjoying herself so how must i enjoy myself.
Now that is disappointment for me.
Rider
That dam photo :twisted: :lol: 