Quote by SDMR
Road trip to Sydney, who's keen?
The only problem with Australia is Australians
GP number plate, we can do what we want.
NO, you cannot, you just THINK you can . . .
I do think GP number plates are better than MP ones lol
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Quote by playcouple
I think that when most people join this site their expectations is to find a quick fuck. Sorry for putting it blunt but for me as well as a lot of other people I'm sure are getting tired of the shit we have to put up with rude, obnoxious, arrogant, self absorbed, self centered, only thinking about themselves people joining this site. I for one mainly joined to learn and to find like minded people to have a good conversation with, share each other's experiences and if there is more then that's good. Not once have I EVER and WILL EVER send a rude mail saying "want to have a quick fuck?" Those mails I get I block those people.
Longjohn, You should rather delete your profile and join some other sleazy site that offer only sex. This is a site where communities HAVE THE OPTION to have sex. It is not a sex site only.
Irony is that this is a good place to find a quick fuck, just a bit of effort is required when you join, after a few months of building a 'little black book' (for want of a better description) you''ll basically have a quick fuck whenever you feel for it, almost. Keep in mind most couples work and many have kids that need to be planned around.
Playcouple, you are right that you can find a quick fuck and yes effort is required. It's these other people joining today and thinking they have unlimited supply of sex buddies available immediately that irritates me.
Casanova
Quote by K_and_S1
i think its the story of most peoples lives , RedBruce and i were talking this morning and we both seemed to have the same view on this , most people on her will talk the talk but when it comes time to walk the walk its another story
sorry it didnt work out for you guys
So true. RedBruce and I have also spoken about this and it does seem to be the norm. So sad that people get themselves ready and make an effort to set up something and then no one pitches up. If I say I am there then I will do my damndest to make sure I honor my commitments. If for some reason I cannot then the decent thing is to at least let the other people know.
Casanova
I think that when most people join this site their expectations is to find a quick fuck. Sorry for putting it blunt but for me as well as a lot of other people I'm sure are getting tired of the shit we have to put up with rude, obnoxious, arrogant, self absorbed, self centered, only thinking about themselves people joining this site. I for one mainly joined to learn and to find like minded people to have a good conversation with, share each other's experiences and if there is more then that's good. Not once have I EVER and WILL EVER send a rude mail saying "want to have a quick fuck?" Those mails I get I block those people.
Longjohn, You should rather delete your profile and join some other sleazy site that offer only sex. This is a site where communities HAVE THE OPTION to have sex. It is not a sex site only.
Casanova
Quote by Erotic_Nauty
@Mike - agreed on the pyramid!
And thank goodness for me what people find attractive differs.....else some of us non Barbie doll ladies would have no fun at all!
Yes there certainly has to be some sort of attraction. For me mainly it is about some physical attraction, intellectual attraction. Size and physique does not matter as long as they are clean and well behaved. Couldn't feel that there could be attraction if one of them had pimples all over their face.
Casanova
I agree. Why people think that when you want to chat with other couples and singles they automatically think it will lead to sex. Sometimes you are just not compatible. That is why some of us prefer to meet first and see if there are some sort of chemistry. Sending naked pics does not influence the chemistry alone.
Casanova
Hello all. As some of you I used to be a regular forumite. After an incident I decided to give commenting a skip for a while. It has been way too long for me. I still kept on reading but reserved comment for myself. I feel that I am ready to start contributing to the forums again. Sometimes I feel that we are going in circles over the same things. It is just the headings that changes. I understand that there are a few newcomers that are commenting or want to find out more about certain things.
So you will all see me on here again. To PIB, I love you! The impact you have made in my life over the past year has been monumental. Your insight and the caring nature you have shown really shows that there are good people out and about. I say have a good rest and I am sure you will be back again. Your personal messages really shows that you care about the person and not just the lifestyle.
We will all wait in anticipation for you to return. 
:rotflmao::rotflmao: Casanova
Quote by SDMR
My best is when the picture is of some guy's erect penis . . . . . wearing a lacy g-string and a profile that says "Straight Male" . . . .
I am very clear about being Bi, and I assure you I have never considered wearing woman's undies . . . they look so much better on the female body
I have to agree with you on that one. Ladies clothing on me wont fit either, size 13 feet.
Casanova
Quote by Pussinboots1
LMAO @ SDMR now If I was in JHB I would have asked for the address , as I am an old woman and do not *get* many playmates anymore.
Just imagine............. me sitting there fat ,wobbly,TEETH OUT, and sucking the daylights outa all cocks thrust through that hole.
Maybe there is one or 2 adventurous ladies out there!!!
LOL PIB I would he first in line for you any day.
Casanova
Quote by Erotic_Nauty
As for the topic...yes I luuurve looking at sexy men and woman.....but then what maybe *sexy* to me is *gross* to another.
Hygiene is a must, but further a connection yes. Also a bit of self-respect goes a long way since if you don't respect yourself and your own body, even if it *wobbles* a bit, how can you respect others?
I fully agree. I have been with skinny, well built and the bbw type. It is all about a connection between each other.
Casanova
PIB 1. It really is all f*cked up. Did you hear about the child that was flushed down the toilet and got stuck. After two hours they got the baby out and he/she survived. I so wish I could have a child of my own. Some people would give anything to give a child a loving home and yet the ones that do have children don't care what happens to them and even considers abortion. What a sick world we live in.
Casanova
Quote by Pussinboots1
I WANT a Rich man!!!!!! anything for a man with a open wallet!!!!! then I will not mind any size penis!!! I drive a small affordable car.......and I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove money.
I often hear ...*Why do you NOT charge men * for what you do to them.....(as in kinky) man..... I might just start doing that when I have my own dungeon.......yeeee haw!
I will be your first customer.
Casanova
Quote by SDMR. Who are the two people that did this? I hope I am not one of them.
The funeral service for the late Swinging Heaven South Africa forum, will be held . . . . . .
WOW
A whole bunch of people tried to make the forum a good place to interact and learn, it only took two people and their efforts to practically destroy the entire forum .. . . .
Sad Indeed
Casanova
@ Lee. You are totally right. Yes men do think that because they are smaller they might not be able to satisfy a woman than a man with a bigger tool. Those men have not grown up enough or matured enough to understand that its not all about size. Those with big ones generally lie back and expect the woman to everyting because they are blessed with a big oe. Come on and get real. I bet anyone that I can give the same amount of pleasure to a woman without even having to use my own. Like someone else said, you have hands, tongue, feet etc.
Casanova
Ok here I go. When I was young, about 7 or so I used my hands. When I went to boarding school ( boys only ) the thing was to cut a hole in the sponge matress and stimulate yourself like that. I have used jacuzzis where the bubbles rub against your balls and shaft and gives a very stimulating feeling. I have also used the shower stream where you take the shower head off and while you mastrubating you let the stream of water hit your head. As I am uncut the water fills between the head and foreskin. Awesome feeling.
