I originally come from the east rand and to be honest the people there are very conservative. Not much in the way of swinging. Since I started with this current job I have decided not to keep quiet about my lifestyle and to speak about it openly. To my surprise a lot of people get intrigued by my experiences. I have even registered to couples on SH. One lady loved my stories that I posted on here and even asked me to write a story for her about her fantasy. I think it depends where you stay that makes the difference.
Well, firstly there are quite a few people I would like to meet, people like PIB, LeeEC, SDMR and a few more. I have been fortunate to meet a few but one person that stands out is redbruce. He is a true dogger in every sense.
I have been in the swinging scene since 2003. Although in the beginning I would only meet people within a certain age I have found that it takes more than just a number to have a good time with them. Not just physically but also mentally. I have met couples over 40 and yet they so immature that my 16 year old neice would be more mature. Then I have met a couple in their early twentys that have a solid head on their shoulders and know what they want from life. I have learnt to give the benefit of the doubt and meet first.
Hi canarie. At some point in time I'm sure all of us have had set up meets and then ended up with no shows. Unfortunately that is the way us humans are. It has also happened to me. I can understand your frustration especially that you went out of your way to make sure that the invitees were comfortable. On the other hand I'm sure that on other meets that the people actually did come as agreed. For me its a number game. you will never have a 100% success rate.
Hello all again. It is a shock to see that so many regulars are getting fed up with the nonsense that goes with forums like these. I too was a victim a while ago and decided to rather keep to myself. Now that I peep in to see what everyone is up to I see crap like this. WOW. It makes a person wonder if it really is worth while.........
True Adonis, that is why I don't read forums that often.
Never mind commenting.
I prefer shaven and neatly trimmed. I myself prefer to be shaven.
Hello here is the meaning I found on Wikipedia
Dogging is a British English slang term for engaging in sexual acts in a public or semi-public place or watching others doing so. There may be more than two participants; both group sexand gang banging can be included. As observation is encouraged, voyeurism and exhibitionismare closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet up beforehand over the Internet.
My hobbies and interests vary quite al lot. I LOVE cricket. I play club cricket as well as provincial indoor cricket. I do gardening and really take pride in it. I enjoy cooking and even baking. (being single you have to). I enjoy watching crime series as well as sci-fi. I do fishing, fresh water and deep sea. I ride horses and do cross country and dressage. I love taking my children for walks when I can. 2 huskies and a boerbull.
I am a bit of an adrenaline freak and go bungy jumping and white water rafting. I would still love to go skydiving. Not tandem jumping. I love socialising and entertaining.
I play a bit of piano and play the trumpet. I used to be in the cadets orchestra. I love singing and karaoke. Singstar rocks and my family doesn't want to play it with me. Brain teazer games are fun like Buzz.
To be honest and this is not defending the ones that clearly cannot read but in some cases I have eeen myself where I look at the adverts where a couple is looking for a single male to play with his wife. Then when you look at their profile it clearly states no single males! So what do you do now?
I understand and do read every profile when I want to respond to an advert but shouldn't they either change their advert or update their profile?
