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Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race
Male, 46
0 km · Gauteng
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Sexpert
in an attempt to create a safe environment for doggers ( couples and ladies alike ) one or two guys have agreed to meet at a parking lot around 8 on saturday this to start something similar to what the feather club your car side mirrors or door with a piece of colourful tape .we can all meet chat and if couples show up and feel comfortable we can move to a secluded area nearby to watch anyone is keen pm me to find out which it will be.
Sexpert
i also think parking and waiting at a secluded spot is dangerous. my suggestion is this ...a group of people be it guys or guys and girls meet on a regular bases at a public area say a road house or a micky dees .it is a lot safer to meet there and its inconspicuous .then when sufficient folks ie ladies show up we move to a dogging venue.i pitched this to one or two people who were looking for dogging but got no its a bad idea?
Sexpert
the great thing about cyber space is that it breaks down boundaries ie distance race class religion and we can inter act as people .it allows us to find kindred spirits (nawti and not so nawti ) in places we would not normally find our selves by doing so we grow.i chat regularly (and on the odd occasion play) with people that are so different from me yet so the can live far apart sometimes , don't listen to the same music don't support the same sports teams but we value honesty and integrity and are able to chat or to drink and laugh and have a great time .thats why i inter act in the chatroom and forums, to meet all types not to restrict myself to any type .i know this topic was about the term up market people so let me say this , to me (in terms of the lifestyle) i would say an up market person has respect for everyone , especially when that person is different from them,, has discretion and is honest .this is not the stock market or the housing market nor is it the job lifestyle market has its own currency and thats what i hope people will realise. Sexpert
As much as i enjoy chatting in the forum , i also chat in the pool the forum its hard get to really know someone, or in my case being a single guy for someone to get to know great thing about the forum is we all don't have to be on line to have a the pool you kinda have to have a bit of luck with who is in there
Sexpert
just when you think us single guys have evolved an ass like this has to do something so monumentally stupid that it makes me want to hide my head in shame as a single guy on this site.i often try and defend a single guys rights to be here but i have begun to wonder if we as single guys (ie the collective) have enough respect for woman and their partners to be part of this website?.yes there are good guys out there as one of the forums for naming the good guys suggests ,however , does the needs of the many not out number the needs of the few ?
Sexpert
i cannot disagree with what was said by everyone , however ,we must remember the original post was not placed by a single post was made by the male of the couple who,, i assume is looking for a single by singles not completing the profile they are not attracting couples as well. i hear what you guys are saying about the vetting system but it does exist...its called word of below everyone's profile is a general notice board of sorts where messages can be left about the profile. i often see comments like "nice pics" or "lets hook up" . i have never seen posts like "this is a fake profile" or" what a great time we had lets do it again..." , which people can regards to removing dormant accounts i think you guys are barking up the wrong site owners need to market this site to advertisers or prospective new members which means registered user numbers need to be once they reach a critical mass we probably will have to start paying for membership as they do in other new members are more likely to pay if numbers are up.
i think in this fast paced express living instant oats eating world we forget that some things turn out best if they are not rushed . i watch enough of those gold mining reality shows to know that you gotta move a lot of dirt to find a few ounces of gold.
Sexpert
i like women, they turn me their heads right down to their toes . i love the feel taste and touch of a women's body and as anyone who has met me knows ...i love boobies .so the sight of two ladies is double the don't turn me on so i wouldn't go out looking to find two thought doesn't freak me out , its just not my bag.
.so the sight of two ladies is double the don't turn me on so i wouldn't go out looking to find two thought doesn't freak me out , its just not my bag. 