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Women and Dogging

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Why is it that so few women as (opposed to men) are into the dogging scene / experience? I know very little about Dogging, but it seems that it is a common thing that the men say "will there be any women there?" I asked once before in the forums if there was actually any Dogging that goes on, and now I'm wondering again. The Dogging section in the forum is fairly busy (probably second busiest of all forums) so why is it that almost nothing seems to happen.
The dogging forums may seem the busiest...but if you read carefully you would see it is mostly people who is eager to start a *dogging* situation or wants to join a dogging experience..OR the most post is about WHERE it can happen and when it can happen. The only threads I have read that REALLY is of subsidence Is Thailand`s Feather club that seems to me IS non existent anymore. Or Redbruce giving feed back on some *Dogging* that happened. Daddy who is also active in that department .. Oh and lets not forget the glory holes.... For a single woman to go to a dogging event is dangerous,and from what I heard afterwards from one such lady who subsequently left the site...the MEN became RUDE and obnoxious and to call them *pigs* is to good an animal to describe them. So to answer the above question,I will not ever join such an event without a gent I can trust at my side.
PIB1 you can always have me as a body guard when you want to go to a dogging. Joyrider
i also think parking and waiting at a secluded spot is dangerous. my suggestion is this ...a group of people be it guys or guys and girls meet on a regular bases at a public area say a road house or a micky dees .it is a lot safer to meet there and its inconspicuous .then when sufficient folks ie ladies show up we move to a dogging venue.i pitched this to one or two people who were looking for dogging but got no its a bad idea?
@PIB i feel flatted that i was mentioned by you wink yes there always seems to be more guy that want to do it , we are going to check out Roodeplat Dam on Fri , just to see "the lay of the land" , not really to do anything but will see what happens yes i think some guys could get a bit "pushy" and for me the safety of my girl is 101% first and foremost , but the two guys we have met in the past were Gentlemen threw and threw and will not have a problem inviting then to an "event" , both times it was an arranged thing and yes it does take away the spontaneity of the situation but again safety is always first and i think thats why you will not find many or any single girls going to a meet
Single girls should not even consider going to an event such as Dogging by themselves (this is my opinion) from what I understand, Dogging is about watching people have sex (couple) now in it's 'original form" Dogging may have been about a random meeting (couple) who then proceeded to have sex and others watched, but it seems to be more a case of a couple decided they wanted to be watched. We live in a place called "the world" and as PIB said, the male of the species is more often than not, a pig. He will go out of his way to find such an activity, even moan about not finding anything or actually arranging something, but then proceed to say immature and derogatory things . . . . The frequent comment of "will there be any woman there" or "come on girls" . . . . think about it fellow males, WOMEN hold almost all the cards in the game of sex, they can (and do) arrange for just about anything they desire in the sexual department, males are the reason they keep the kind of things males are all looking for, for only a select few to enjoy
well said... I thought it was obvious but perhaps it did have to be said...
Daddy's right some men are too pushy. Even when theres a group session, even at clubs. Some men scare me big time. I cant imagine letting bunch of strangers touch, shove penises, fingers etc near my face and other parts. Thats why im two minded bout having a mmf experience. Some men also get the idea that if a female is there for dogging or willing, shes a "slut" and should be treated like one. Some people have that mentality. But hey some women up for it Im just giving my opinion. Also Ash is spot on bout the safety thing and dont the popo come and bother people?
Well we got to Roodeplat Dam quite late and couldnt find the entrance :sad: how ever we did find a quite little spot on a sand road and some fun did take place between the 2 of us , a few cars did drive past but i think they were just people what lived in the area , but yes we did have a some fun together
Having experience REAL dogging in the UK a few times, what peole above are suggesting just is not dogging. Pre-arranging things, prior arrangements, etc, is not dogging in the true sense of the word. Sadly because of violent crime in SA, true dogging, in the pure sense of the word is unlikely to ever happen here. I hope I'm wrong, but that's my worth.
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Having experience REAL dogging in the UK a few times, what peole above are suggesting just is not dogging. Pre-arranging things, prior arrangements, etc, is not dogging in the true sense of the word. Sadly because of violent crime in SA, true dogging, in the pure sense of the word is unlikely to ever happen here. I hope I'm wrong, but that's my worth.

Hi Graham,
Unfortunately, what you say is just so true - conditions here are just not conducive to allow "real dogging" (a la UK) to really make any inroads. Hence the move towards "arranged dogging", where there can hopefully be an increased level of personal safety (and also likelihood of anything happening).
But as the topic infers, and as pointed out by the lady members here, female participation and interest in dogging here in RSA, whether arranged or not, is very low. As PiB says, most of the Dogging Forum posts are male "wish I could" statements. The ladies really need to have "big balls" (!!) to be prepared to "go dogging". And yet there ARE a few willing to do so!...
We just need to make sure that the conditions for a dogging event are always as safe as possible, and that when an event takes place, the women in particular are able to feel comfortable with what's going on, and are not in any way threatened or inappropriately accosted. So arranging to "meet before meeting", as Ash has suggested, or else having a platonic "meet for a drink" just to get to know the other folks beforehand, makes a lot of sense. I wouldn't want to expose my partner to just any old "tell me where and I will be there" arsehole! Daddy's careful approach of vetting potential partners for his young lady is a very appropriate way to go.
It's maybe not "proper dogging", arranging to meet, but it's about as close as we will likely get to it in this country.