Now let me be VERY clear! I am not attacking or commmenting on anyone who has up to this date EVER ventured onto the forums (he couldn't possibly have ever been here since if he had he would never have attempted this)
I just got the WIERDEST response to a turn down.... apparently I just graduated on the site. Well WE graduated coz the response was obviously on our couple profile not this one...
I've just been the victim of BlueBall Rage... (like road rage; but caused by consistent failure to charm women into shagging you, losing it and your chances when you don't get what you want)
... otherwise closely related to Catastrophic Failure of Male Ego Valve.
Please note: Not every man suffers from this
The mail I recieved was gobsmacking to say the least...
The conversation began with him telling us he was handsome and had a huge cock and was clean, had lots of girlfriends and asking for contact info and an immediate meeting, I replied, "no contact info til we are sure, we use the site for safety", and that pictures would be swopped before we met to see if we liked what we saw/vice versa. Normally we chat with people a while get to know them, share some info, but this is not his style, it seems. He repeated his request for contact info to send pictures - I repeated that I would not give my contact info - to use the site albums like everyone else, please.
He loaded an album and sent an invite, the pics were ok, but didn't do anything for me at all.. He looks like my uncle - I bit of a turn off - but really no one's fault.
I turned him down polietly saying I wasn't attracted to him, but in fair trade I would open my private (explicit) album which doesn't contain faces I don't think - or not very clear ones if there are.
The response I received was jaw dropping, I was so incensed by the thing I deleted everything from the guy in question so that I wouldn't be tempted to destroy the man (It was tempting - I have mod tools!)
He accused me of being a guy trawling for pics (which is idiotic because if I was I wouldn't be looking at his - a single guy - and all his public pics were of his dick!)using pictures of a woman (me)who I could only dream was my wife (bizarrely I got a bit of a kick out of that part!) and then calling me (he assumed he was talking to Matt or I suppose this imaginary sad leacherous old perv in a dank basement) a F@#$kwit and a perv and then told me off for thinking that swinging involved friendship or attraction - no apparently to him it is simple a puzzle building exercise.... Insert Tab A into Slot B.
Good thing there isn't a "pharaohs" type club in the EC - he'd be RIGHT there causing kak with all the married women.
Seems with my commentary earlier on the forums about choices of people for playmates... I was asking for it.
He sells himself as "handsome with a huge cock" which in my estimation is about average sized if a bit on the thick side, and he simply isn't my cup of tea - he looks a lot older than he says he is and I really don't find him attractive at all - I'm not even sure I'd say he was good looking - but THAT is a VERY opinion based statement - as we all know - I don't find every guy good looking - but someone out there will... But more importantly I was very irritated by his constant requests for personal contact info, so I held back - often I don't - I trust my gut... Apparently it was right on the money once again..
Sadly I wasn't thinking when I hit delete... Matt didn't see the message before I deleted it.... Probably a good thing - he would NOT have been impressed.
But then I might have some 'splaining to do...
:lol: :lol: Welcome to our world LeeEC ! Would you still like to compare profiles???
It is actually frightening how many people blindly join sites like SH and bombastically proceed to make complete asses of themselves without the slightest clue as to what the lifestyle, swinging or the site is all about.
On the up side: they don't stick around too long as they never quite seem to find the "dial-a-free-prostitute-on-tap " they are so desperate to find.
PS: Just to put Ash's (and other decent single guys') minds to rest....This phenomenon is not unique to single guys....we've had similar rude, crude type encounters with couples and single women playing without consent. Watch this space for Chap 1 of our book: Memoirs of a Unicorn :twisted: