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Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race Male, 46
0 km · Gauteng

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i dont have an issue if such messages are ignored, however , if someone posts an add saying yes we interested in single males or couples or whatever and i answer that add i would appreciate a thank you but no thank you. i would even appreciate a rude reply as appossed to silence .
I know this was posted on the 9th but this member no longer exists
i hope u guys help us change the rep of single guys here
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I think none of them lol
They all to conservative..
I really do not know where i fit in hahahahahaha....
Yoga
i have a place for you to fit in anytime you need it yogi :lol:
It's great reading one of pibs epic posts that I'm sure will cause a lot of "dialog".now as a child of the old days i hate being put into a box and classified but i see pibs logic.i wouldn't say she is entirely wrong in her assessment but i think people tend to lean towards one of the "types" i for example would be 70% nice guy 30% pervert 0%cock. I'm a nice pervert lol although you make the nice guy out to be some sort of the nice guy that morphs into a sex hound be a pervert in disguise .and what about the guy pretending to be a couple.i cant confirm that they are on this site but i strongly suspect there are a I'm wondering where others think i fit in
i would say go to any of the casinos...not sure if im allowed to mention names but the one close to the of bars and security and hotels/accomidation in the area.
i hear what you saying stamina but my interpretation of success was in terms of ones expectations of what they came here looking expectations could range from dogging to could also be just to learn about the my understanding of mz cats question.
kinky is a very relative term like hot and cold and short and long .one persons kink is another persons weird
the great thing about this site is one does not have to do anything one is not comfortable doing, so , if a legitimate person or couple simply wants to chat or lurk then i say welcome and live out your must never forget that people are at varying levels of the lifestyle, and some may take a while to reach your there are a lot of fake profiles, single guys pretending to be couples or people who post fake pics, this makes meeting impossible so look out for those .with regards to people who cancel before hand , i guess we must live with that because the only thing that is constant is saying that though what is very disrespectful is those who just leave you hanging, no reply or excuse what so ever.
I had no expectations when I joined this site I'm just enjoying the journey.i have met great people had tons of fun and lived out fantasies ...and developed new ones.
lol my friends and i have one like that .my brother in law is the newest member
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Such wise words.... and true since I've never been one of those 'sexy skinny' girls guys usually noticed first....I've always bee the 'other friend'.
Have observed how as we age the once important things now seem fruitless and even silly sometimes as we learn with age to apreciate the inside beauty of all things not just people....
its true they say youth is waisted on the young....but i always laugh when i hear ladies say they where not the type guys noticed first.i promise there where guys that noticed you first, they drooled over you and not your so called sexy friends but it probably was not the guy you where drooling over so you didnt notice.
True - but I was being arrested at the time not a fun way to use them
You know that game when u pass the tennis ball from under your chin to the next persons chin....that's the only one i can think did play a modified snakes and ladders u go up a snake u get to ask someone to pick a "task "out of a hat and when you go down a snack the person closest to you makes u pick a 'task' .the tasks can be as vanilla or spicy as u want and they change the more u drink lol
Please inbox me the name of this "fine" establishment I will gladely let all my friends know who to will soon learn the power of social media.
That is scary but a hazard in this lifestyle .i often see who has verified the member then if I know that person go out and do a bit of homework but many people want discretion .who they play with is their business and they might not want to rate others.i chat in the chatroom often and get a few friends telling me to be cautious of some members so i think that is still the best a group of trusted people .lets meet chat and look out for each don't have to meet to play.
If you feel discriminated against report them , hello Peter , consumer watch contact any social media until that place is in the public eye and reforms or shuts of admission my ass thats prejudice .
what is truly tragic is that this sort of killing is a weekly affair in SA.i know of 4 cases where this sort of killing or boyfriends loosing control and in all cases the evidence was there that these people will do serious harm..as far as the jokes go,, that is part and parcel of being a celeb its the good with the bad unfortunately
Interacting with people from all corners of our country in an open and (and sometimes brutally ) honest manor has made me see things in a new exposed me to knew ideas and new ways of approaching example ,before SH I would never had thought I would be attracted to older ladies but since actually meeting and chatting to a few really sexy ,confident ladies who are more than ten years my senior things have changed.i have come to love their no non sense no bullshit anyone else had a similar experience?
I would go with pib on this to the club and meet people ,make the connection .you don't have to play at the club but its a great way to meet people get to know you then you have a better chance of being invited into someone's home.
[quote="Pussinboots1"]@ Ash...OMW you going to pay me!! I love presents and you are offering me a present... Thank YOU I accept... Could you upload a nice avatar to your profile that will show up when You comment in forums? Big hug and thank you.... Ok so it's taken me a while to find an avatar but its done.i hope u like it
what i have to say is based on these beliefs 1 men are stupid when we think with our penis 2 the Chinese proverb , be careful what u wish for ...is accurate 3 men get a thrill out of accomplishing things i agree with most of what cam fun has to say but my evolutionary path differs the caveman was a hunter but for it came to women he beat her on her head with a club and dragged her to the cave to satisfy his primal urges (well if u believe what the tv says).like modern man i think the cave man was also a adrenaline junkie (which he discovered while trying not to become food while hunting for food) so yes we race, jump out of planes and do all sorts of stupid things for the sense of accomplishment or the adrenaline for the caveman life was good until they started forming communities(safety in numbers).these communities developed norms and no longer could the cave man break out the old club,so he improvised .he become the protector and the provider ,the alpha male .this was cool because that's who he was and winning a ladies heart (by taking care of her needs) was as time moved on so we evolved further .women could now protect and provide for themselves and her needs evolved. man had to adapt in order to satisfy his needs for sex and became what we needed to become to win the jumped through hoops ,said all the right things, watched movies that we hated the whole lot , well because hey this is the girl we think is the one, or we seek the Adrenalin rush of notching another one its at this stage that we actually start to think with our remember the Chinese proverb...its only at this point that we start to asses if what we wanted and chased after is actually what we needed to make us happy,stupid i know but refer to item 1 at this stage we either start to change ...back to our true selves or we learn and enjoy being this new person, and we truly evolve .so having said all that the solution is him of why he is lucky to be with you ,how exactly that is done is not so simple. your second item ...the recipe we know the recipe given works but we also know it was written as a result of the work done by previous cooks in your kitchen so see item 3 above. we just want to add our own herbs and spices to the mix . scenario 3 see item 1 above