I could be the daddy type , can I make my little call big Pappa ? Or the Latin version Papie ?

I'm definitely gynosexual

Please show me where I have accussed anyone in here of being racist?.........."The initial use of the Nature vs. Nurture Theory was credited to psychologist Sir Francis Galton in 1869 (Bynum, 2002). However, it is unclear who initially described the impact of genes and biology versus environmental influences. Scientists, doctors, researchers, psychologists, behaviorists, and many others have debated these theories since Hippocrates was -Jacques Rousseau and John Locke independently thought that people are born as blank slates (i.e. "tabula rasa"), and that their eventual individual differences develop solely due to the result of environmental influences (Psychology Encyclopedia, 2017; Duschinsky, 2012; Nesterak, 2015). Twentieth century behavioral psychologist John Watson shared a similar perspective, believing that the events that take place during early childhood have far more influence on what kind of adults we become compared to the effects of our genes (Haggbloom et al, 2002)."......this debate is not new 

Why are we afraid someone is trying to break in 🤔

It would be interesting to hear from the LBGT community if they feel their sexual orientation is a choice .

The one thing I learnt  from to kill a mocking bird and Atticus Finch was never judge a man until you walk a mile in their shoes. We all know where we came from as a nation, but what we seldom realise is that we are all victims of the then  governments policies. Yes even those people who "choose" not to socialise with people who are different than them. I place choose in inverted comma's because that choice is based on how they where raised, and we all know where we come from as a nation. For many people ( it may sound strange ) SH is the first time they have interacted on a meaningful level with people of  other cultures or sexual preference.  I have played with people who have had the race line issue on their profile and when I asked about it they said it was put there when they joined the site and over time they realised  there where more important things like respect , discretion and  hygiene and that the colour of someones  skin is no guarantee that someone will be compatible. It helped that they met someone of a different culture that had the same sense of humour and or hobbies etc. It gives you something to talk about over a braai or bottle of tequila. I read on a profile once " we are not ready to try interracial play" and I was impressed these guys are as the kids say "woke". So in saying this there are profiles that offend me by how they state their preferences but I just give those a skip. And to those that have become woke yes they should update their profiles, celebrate your wokeness. And to the rest your choice will always be respected and if my choice to attempt to chat or engage offends you please feel free to block me , no offence will be taken.

Bow Chica wow wow 😂

I am following an interesting thread about whether couples prefer to play with married guys or single guys and a theme emerged that married guys are more discreet. I am wondering if there is any imperical information on this or is this just another stereotype, and is it inherent to single males or is it a character flaw of that individual person? Surely if someone is indiscreet as a single guy he will be indiscreet as a married guy. I have chatted to a few couples who have named and shamed just as many married couples as they have single guys for indiscretions. It would be informative to know what your actual experiences have been.   

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A few times yes. There's a few people you may even recognize from your TV screens on here 😁

 You might recognise me from my Porno Movies....

I'm the bad camera man that can't keep still and takes allot of blurry out of focus shots! Lol

 Followed many of your Twitter links to your site vids. Very Sexy.

 Thank you! Glad you enjoy watching our vids because we enjoy making them. 

I'm not sure if you noticed in the Videos that i do all My Own Money Shots! Lol 

 We did  ;)

 It's not just the film content but the soundtracks are awesome aswell 

Yip I have received a few slaps to the back of the head for touching in the wrong spot 😂

Pours Kimwild2 a tequila....cheers 🍻

I agree the effort is 💯 percent worth the reward ,and your profile is clear on the winks , so why not set the auto reply which will do two things , stop all winks from entering your mailbox and send a reply saying you don't like winks ....thus leaving you guys with more time to read our finely crafted works of horny pros....like Hi 😂😂 

It exists , under your mailbox , go to wink settings 

Don't get me wrong I'm a supporter of everyone's right to complain and manage their profile in anyway they choose but there are more effective ways to achieve their ultimate objectives of not receiving winks, but I also have another question , what is the verdict of a customised wink ? Is it also seen as impersonal ? 

So I have read many profiles stating that they will not respond to generic messages and I understand they are rather impersonal but as a guy who has taken the time to write so many unique sometimes witty some times charming messages ( most of which to profiles whos criteria I meet , and some that I didn't,....         ...I leave this space for your admonishment  ) it's rather disheartening to get no reply .This makes taking the time to tailor a message so much more difficult. Is it unreasonable to expect a reply ( obviously if I am taking a chance by messaging you when I dont meet your criteria then yes I do understand not only do I expect no reply but I normally get blocked ), and I'm not asking for a unique reply, winks can be customised. Why not customise a wink that says thanks but no thanks , or better luck next time  buddy, or the subscriber you have dialled is not available, I don't know something. To those that are not fans of the wink did you know (now I sound like a chappies) you can set your replies to a wink, so if someone winks at you the system doesn't send it to your mailbox but slaps them with a " you lazy bastard type a proper message reply" ok that's not entirely true they do phrase it more diplomatically. We can get into the philosophical question of should someone who detests winks use the automated reply for another topic but my point.....   Wait what is my point .....o yeah my point is there are now ways to auto respond or with the touch of the wink button say thanks but no thanks and surely that's the polite thing to do ?

There was a time , a long time ago when there was a regular forum community, posts where regular and engaging .....one day again perhaps 

The initial feeling of seeing you are blocked sucks but i do understand why it has been done , it a message from the couple/lady that they choose not to interact with me and if thats how they feel then i welcome it. This saves me writing a message introducing myself and then being if dark and sweet is not how you like your tea, feel free to block me 

i feel your pain mr wbs and this is not a new topic , the reality is we single guys are in over supply , and we get treated like those window washers at the traffic lights most of the time and i will admit some guys bring this on themselves .I have made the suggestion that the ladies modify their winks to say thank you but no thank you then all they would have to do is send a wink but as mz tanners says the rude ones dont read the forum .In saying this it still gets to me when you read  a profile and they ask that you write something original and not send them a generic wink message , and so one spends time thinking of what to say and composses a brief intro message and then bam ....no response .So we go on respecting each persons choice to talk , play chat or respond to whom they feel they want to and we gain knowledge of who they are by the choices they make .