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Vee1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Other Male, 50
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Quote by NawtyCatdear Nawty
My view is that birds- of a- feather- flock- together and I would prefer NOT going to where I am not welcome!
In fact, if places such as resorts etc could be MORE discriminating we would ALL have a MUCH better time!!! Just imagine for example a resort advertising that it caters for blond, playboy bunnies between the ages of 25 and 35 that are nymphos? This may be just "your kinda folk", whose company you will almost certainly enjoy....what a blast!!!!
Also, maybe the places WERE being honest??? Be sure of your facts before you slander....in the author's fishing example perhaps it was a swingers camping site and the guard didn't know how to pay membership or join. If the guard had been requested to call one of the members, maybe they would have explained.....Imagine the author's horror if the swingers camping site guard had just let them in and as they drive round an outdoor orgy is in full swing. The author would be writing a VERY different type of story lol
If you perceive it, it is real for you...... but what you perceive might not be a fact
Food for thought, maybe?
I have checked my facts before I even put this post on. I assure you that this place is a or menat to be a public place. It is well spoken about by many residents around. When I spoke to my friends who suggested going there, they were shocked and they apologised for not knowing and have said they would not support such a place ever again. The person I spoke to at that place was not a security guard. Probably just an employee there. He was quite knowledgeable about the place.
I have highlighted these places further and it is being investigated.
Quote by LeeEC
Vee on your question, Admin from the site is based in the UK , think they wil have a problem to join in here. But can assure you the mods are part and parcel of the site
Oh we mods definitely "partake".... I have plans to do just that tomorrow :twisted:right on dear lady. Is this the regular or a newbie? Good luck if its a newbie.
Quote by SDMRwish our area would open up in a big way. People are too traditional in thought. Especially if you got the local newspaper naming and shaming websites.
The more I look, the more it seems (I am not saying it is fact, I am suggesting that it appears that way) that the majority of people with the "Swinger Mindset" live in Cape Town, followed closely by KZN and GP. . . . . . . anybody know of a good Estate Agent in these areas?
Considering moving away to better areas.
I used to be all the girls best friend in school. They liked being friends with me, but never thought of being in a relationship with me.
Whatever relationships I had in school were few but well cherished.
The guys in my school that were popular in schools, you should see now. They not hunks anymore. Balding, overweight, and very different attitude.
I am still myself to this day. Still got hair on my head. People love me. I have always appreciated beauty. Not only in looks, but in everything else.
Young girls don't really appeal to me. They still have a lot to learn about the world..
Beauty is within and shines radiant in every person.
This picture comes more clearer as you get older and I am thankful for seeing that.
So ladies. I will admire you always. Every woman is sexy in many ways.
Dude. You need to understand the site properly.
It does not necessarily mean that people must meet. And the forum is a place to voice yourself.
I do not like facebook and never will. I don't want to know about every minute of a persons life.
The forum here contains real comments, issues, stories, etc. This is far more mind grabbing.
If you think this site is only supposed to be about meeting and dating then you are so wrong.
I pop in almost every day.
Quote by Jack_Jill469hi. Check in some adult shops. I also think cardies has some board games.
Hi
I've been reading the forum now for a while and I love the topix and comments. I still have alot to go through but wish to put up one myself.
Is there any games out there for couples, one with a sexual twist? Almost a soft swinger game? I am looking for - how can I say - a swinger game for non swingers. Something that is not too wild, but will tease none swingers and maybe if they are adventurous enough let it uhm... go with the flow. :twisted: It must be something you can play with your normal drinking buddies whithout being too straight forward that you want to play a sexgame or something. A game that will just shake their interest...
Quote by Thumperyou are so right. These places must either reform or close down. Can't believe that some people would want to maintain their ways. They support places like I mentioned. I suppose that is what they teach their children too.
name & shame them Vee, name & shame
No place for this in 2013
I have named and shamed already. Only I don't think its acceptable to mention on this site. Unless it is?
Any views or opinions on this topic? Let's hear it.
"Rate me" tab would assist where all users will be able to write their experiences with that persons profile. Be it positive or negative.
When browsing each user, you can formulate your own view of the user from reading the ratings and then decide if you want to contact or not.
The discipline will follow from there.
Quote by daddy3866daddy. Is it 29th feb or march? There is no 29th in feb.
my girl and i will be there on the 29th , wont really be a dogging thing , no guys will fuck her , but she will be strippen naked and guys can look and wank if they want , inbox me for time and details
was in Jan matesorry. The response came up as a new response. Did not check the date. Otherwise, hope you had a good time and experience?
Quote by daddy3866daddy. Is it 29th feb or march? There is no 29th in feb.
my girl and i will be there on the 29th , wont really be a dogging thing , no guys will fuck her , but she will be strippen naked and guys can look and wank if they want , inbox me for time and details
was in Jan matesorry. The response came up as a new response. Did not check the date. Otherwise, hope you had a good time and experience?
Quote by Pussinboots1I have reported this publicly.
I do hate this type of discrimination.I am always shocked to read it still exists.
I have found that you get really sad/bad/drunks/drugs/*gagga* people in all stands in life,not just in the ethnic group you are NOT part of.
From the very Rich and Cultured to the Uneducated and very Poor is not always skin color.
From a sad me today.
Sad to know that there are still people who are hypocrites living among us.
As for me. I would never support these places, and I will always take it up further.
Just wanted to bring these type of places to your attention.
Rather than having a name and shame, which goes against privacy of the user, rather have a "Rate me" tab. You can rate a user profile whether good or bad. That could work. Plus it would give each user a sense of discipline to maintain. Have a look at site Bidorbuy. Rate the seller and rate the buyer. The same principle can be applied.
I would welcome some criticism from other profiles. This would assist in improving myself and my profile.
Quote by anal_manI am still searching. My chances are very slim. And the response to my mails are either slow or non existent. Maybe some people need to relax on their rules and boundaries a bit. Not saying that there should be no rules. Just be a bit flexible. It might help in expanding your options and maybe the right meetings can take place.
I must say I do agree with you ladies/gents. It honestly has started becoming a waste of time, you message someone and they dont even reply or worse you get a reply and its like "read our profile no single males" and it doesnt say that anywhere or worse it does say it but in the "what are you looking for" column they have single males??? On top of all of this I am yet to meet even 1 person from this site, honestly feeling like I should just give up....
Quote by ashI will report these places somehow. It just sucks and find it shocking that these places still exist. Just that I did not like the idea of subjecting my boy to this. Imagine having to explain to your child why we cannot go to some places.
If you feel discriminated against report them , hello Peter , consumer watch contact any social media until that place is in the public eye and reforms or shuts of admission my ass thats prejudice .
I took my little boy fishing this weekend and I was told recently about this place. It was a dam, where you could go fishing and there is a few chalets there. From what I heard, the fishing is good there and the place is available to anyone to go there to fish. No fees required.
So I took my boy and went. We got to this place and immediately at the entrance, I was stopped. I was told that I can't go through. Only club members are allowed. I thought this was weird, as there were many people there and many of them were from out of town on a getaway with their caravans and tents and the chalets.
So naturally I asked how does the club membership work?I was willing to pay. and I was told that I would have to pay a deposit and a monthly fee. So I asked where do I do this? The guy who explained to me that he does not know and could not explain to me where I could find out.
I was quite disgusted, as this place seemed to be a nice place, yet I could not go. It was disappointing.
I have heard of these type of places, but never knew I would be subject to this at this day and age.
Also reminds me of a certain nature resort, I wanted to go to. I phoned there and wanted to book. Wanted to experience the wild animals there. Researched this place and found it to be a beautiful place. When I phoned they told me they fully booked for the next 3 months. I thought it strange.
So I got a friend of mine to phone there. They had bookings available immediately for the entire month. Go figure.
Really frustrating that there is certain places like that.
Wish that there was something that can be done about it.
Quote by ashI agree with ash. In most killings such as this the prime suspect is either the boyfriend or husband. And in most cases it turns out to be true.
what is truly tragic is that this sort of killing is a weekly affair in SA.i know of 4 cases where this sort of killing or boyfriends loosing control and in all cases the evidence was there that these people will do serious harm..as far as the jokes go,, that is part and parcel of being a celeb its the good with the bad unfortunately
Jokes will always be there as long as you are a fallen celeb. What about OJ Simpson? The jokes about him was all over. And in those days there was no twitter of facebook or any social media.
And then there Lance Armstrong, Tiger Woods. There will always be jokes. It is human nature. If a celeb has done wrong, the people will tear them apart in any way possible. Even a joke or a mockery is a way to tear a celeb apart.
I sadly feel the loss of such a beautiful woman at the hands of someone who is supposed to be a role model.
Quote by nawtyjakeI really wonder if Oscar was taking performance enhancing drugs? Those things can drive you over the edge.
whatever the courts findings..........his life is destroyed. if he's guilty of murder, he'll get what he deserves in jail. if he's innocent, he'll live with guilt and regret for the rest of his life. the sporting world is vicious, i know! so his career is over, all it takes from a fellow competitor is to mention this to him on the track before the race, and he's done for. again, i know what i'm talking about, i used to be a provincial athlete.
Reeva was such a beautiful, kind woman, it's really sad that her life and all she worked for was so abruptly ended. one person's minute of madness can destroy so many people. my prayers and sympathy goes out respective families, both sides will suffer. oscar lost his mother at the age of 15, so clearly there's issues there as well.
The new story was that Reeva was in the bathroom and Oscar fired at her through the door. Apparently cops were at his place 2hrs before. There was a call made by neighbors for domestic issues.
You must read all the jokes going around on BBM about Oscar
The story as I hear, was that Reeva was going to surprise Oscar for valentines. He thought she was a bruglar and he shot her. Apparently he has a 9mm pistol and a machine gun in his house.
Question is: why fire 4 shots? Does not make sense. Why did he not fire any warning shots if there was a burglar. Legally you have to fire warning shots. He lives in such a posh estate. Looks like security is quite beefed up. So how can there be a burglar?
There has been stories of his infidelity and some cases of domestic violence at his home. Police frequented his house often.
Ever since last year in the paralympic games, when he complained about the other runners having longer blades than him, my perspective of him changed.
Well hopefully for his sake he is telling the truth. As it looks, the evidence looks if he committed murder.
