Same to you Zaenia

Just wanted to wish those who do read in the forums and all members a prosperous and fun filled new year.

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I'm amused at the need that those who are sexually progressive feel to label their progressiveness......
I re-iterate.....no one is forcing you to engage with anyone.....single....married.....or in a polyamourous relationship. If someone does not meet the exact standard of your purist understanding of swinging or whatever you wish to call it....then you have the joy of using the blocking function. 

 
There should have been a "like " button here. 

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There are many different ways to engage with swinging. Often single people are easier to meet and click with than couples are. 

Depends on the kinds of sex you are looking for.

Since we are a couple who has mainly had threesomes, are we not swingers because of the lack of another couple present? 

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Do you really want to involve yourself with people who would judge you and for whom you have to perform a song and dance and provide a cv as to your moral character? 
Live and let live......if you don't want to play with a married person then move along.....no one is forcing you to engage. 

 
Agree with you. 100%

it is an awesome experience.

Agree with you freshman. However even when you are upfront with your status on your profile, most people get turned away. 

It would be interesting to know. These days swinging occurs frequently as I am sure it did in the past. 

Nowadays mobile devices computers and websites such as this site make it very accessible for swingers to chat and meet.

It would be very interesting to know how it used to happen before we had access to such technology.

I do agree it is cheating. However there may be many reasons why this happens. Maybe the man in the marriage is interested in swinging whereas the woman is not. Maybe they do not have sex as often as they want. Each partners sex drive may be different. For me. I have always had fantasies of my own which my partner will not engage in. I do love my partner and will never change my relationship. But all that said: do I give up on my fantasies? Is there an alternative? Does this make me a bad person?

I am alone. Looking for some company from either ladies or couples. I am a straight 40 year old indian man. I have a place.

Hi all. I would also like to be informed of events. Want to go where I am comfortable. Sofistikitty.  May I add you as a friend?

@sofistikitty.  Showering together really is a turn on.

try "Space Shrimping" and "B@@$hole shrimping"

Lots of weird and funny stuff as well:

having a woman in sexy lingerie working as an auditor would be nice.  we can get up to all sorts of fun.

Also, imagine working in IT, completely naked. Just looking at a lady behind the computer would bring about a really good hard on. and then we work the PC together. It can be lots of fun.

Maybe we can make the career sexy in some way?