To those I promised to write this story thanks for your encouragement and while it would not be possible to write only one chapter in conclusion of this story Ithought I would write the current story rather and leave you to draw your own conclusions. I will also supplement the story with pics and vids for fun. What I cant write in words well its 21 century and a picture says a lot. Hope you enjoy the story and the pics..t...

Epilogue: A True Story: Chapter 1 Almost 10 years ago, I finished writing, My Story, I did not write it for a general audience, or anyone in particular, but the story did not end there, and in fact became more interesting . I would not today be sitting down to continue to write this story, but for the encouragement I received from total strangers and a good friend who shall remain nameless, without whom none of these stor...

Preface The story which follows over 10 chapters is only part of my life, but may give readers some pleasure, I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did writing it. I am sure parallels can be drawn to many of your own experiences and I apologize in advance if it offends anyone. I don’t know if I can ever say thank you to all the woman in my life the relationships, and friendship. This book is about honesty, telling the...

Chapter 10 OFFICE ROMANCE I don’t know why I have left this chapter for last it certainly was not written last. However it does bring it full circle, where did this all start and where does it end. As an “A” species male, our primary purpose on earth is to procreate. I can say with some certainty that I only have one child. That could easily have been different, but that is the subject of a different story. I suppose no s...

Dear reader, I submit this chapter again , to now place it in the correct order, but if you have read it before I do apologize, but enjoy anyway. Chapter 9 Fantasies and Masturbation I have probably fantasized or masturbated, every day or so for the past 35 years. Masturbation, wanking, pulling, jerking off, self-gratification, call it what you want. Under my personal circumstances, masturbation saved me many thousands of...

Chapter 8 The Journey Difficult to know where to start, I suppose 740km from Johannesburg, in the middle of the Karoo is as good a place as any. I never realized how beautiful a Karoo sunset could be. Dark rain in the distance, the smell of water on the air. Everything quiet, before the storm. Well the storm hit not only in the Karoo, but in my personal life as well. The past few months had been a roller coaster, I had so...

Chapter 7 Falling of the Rails During my dating months I had always remained in contact with my ex wife. We had a good relationship and would often meet and talk. Her life had also not been a bed of roses. Divorce is hard on us all. Years previously I had made application to emigrate it was during this period that I needed to make a trip overseas to formalize my application. My family were to travel with me. How circumsta...

Chapter 6 The Dating Dating in this new century as a middle aged, educated, financially stable and divorced male is not a breeze. While the thought of having to approach a straight woman for a date may have terrified me twenty years ago. I was once referred to as a player, but this was after many years of dating dozens of eligible single or divorced woman. All of them very different and yet very special to me, I came clos...

Chapter 4 An Alternative lifestyle During long periods between relationships, before and after I got divorced I had no shortage of lovers. I suppose I could accurately say I have been a swinger for ten years. While married or at least towards the end of the marriage and thereafter in between numerous relationships. I have been divorced for many years and have had lots of time in solitude, alone or not dating. I have also...

Chapter 5 The Stories My first experience at a couples only swingers club was quite amazing, suddenly I was with like-minded, attractive and open-minded adults. My wife and I had always been open-minded and adventurous, our sex life was very satisfying and often erotic. When I first suggested a swingers club, while initially shocked, she did agree to go and be open minded however we would stay together and only participat...

Chapter 3 Living Life to the Full After my first real relationship after my divorce I dated a number of single woman and divorcees. I was in the prime of my life, single, financially okay and the world was my oyster. I was also often lonely and adjusting to being divorced and always longing for my ex. It did not stop me from dating a string of very eligible and beautiful woman. My sex life did not suffer, but I spent a lo...

Chapter 2 The Time In Between. The first 6 months of being separated, or single if you like, we had moved apart, she had a new man in my life and there was so much anger and frustration between us that we could barely talk. She had finally taken the plunge, bought her own place and despite the fact that we were still legally married we were to all intents and purposes living a separate and single life. She had first moved...

Chapter 1 Marriage We met while still at school I was in matric and she was only 16, young beautiful, petite and innocent. I had seen her at the movies and we were young and free an innocent. Our first date was a friend's wedding. One can only say it was love at first sight, but it was more than that. She was intelligent, seductive, sexy and so very shy. The date had been set up weeks in advance and it was not for at leas...

Chapter 9 Fantasies and Masturbation I have probably fantasized or masturbated, every day or so for the past 35 years. Masturbation, wanking, pulling, jerking off, self-gratification, call it what you want. Under my personal circumstances, masturbation saved me many thousands of rands, which I would have spent on woman, in the hope of getting laid. So we wank, and all the other silly names given to the most natural act on...

Chapter 2 Captivated……. It was quite strange, she seemed so sure of herself as she approached and that smile, was captivating. It is not often one feels such chemistry and I sure as hell was. What was it, had we met before I did not think so but there was something about this woman talking to me that had my pulse racing. I could not resist touching her arm and the movement happened before I knew it. I had not meant to be...