. because if I had asked this question some people would have nailed me again against across. Cannot wait to hear the answer to your question.
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Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 53
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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Joyrider
JoyriderIf every genuine member took the time to image and member verify think how much better this place would be, all you'd need to do then is look at a profile and check that they show the following at the top of their profile to be more confident that they're not fake;
(Image verified)
(Member verified)
Well here is the sad thing even if you are Image verified and Member verified the other couple dont go for you. So in that case I think those that burn their fingers with the fakes, deserve it.
Joyrider
Thank you to SDMR for getting people back no track.
the reason i asked the question is i went and looked on the net. I typed in Where do you like your man to ejaculate. And found the following result.
Vagina 33%
Mouth 17%
Breasts 10%
could not care less 10%
Face 8%
Anal 7%
Stomach/body 6%
Not no me 4%
Hand 0%
Questions was asked to 10046 people over seas. so I just wanted to know where most of us fall.
So again where do you fall in as man or lady?
Joyrider
Well read this add sometime ago and did not answer it. But now i am going to answer.
When a cpl like joy and my self do want to do dogging. We go throw the adds then once we see what we like then we contact the person. We ask if the person would like to join us and the answer is yes O yes. Then we arrange a date and time. And what happens no one pitch's up. Leave joy and myself to play with one another. Even now we have contacted 2 guys which was very keen but now when a person wants to make final arrangments now they don't answer back.
So my answer is yes dogging still does take place but some men are like women all keen to talk about it but when push came's, they run 
Joyrider
Joyrider I agree with what you say, but one word I think that must be changed is "Ethnic origin" or keep the word but, where you pick what ethnic background you come from, then change the word "caucasian" to White. As it seems many people in South Africa does not know what that means. Many of the profiles lately, people do not answer that question. I think some people do not know the meaning of the word.
Joyrider
Just another idea
Hi there,
I just have one problem with what you are saying. We have been on this site for sometime now and have only meet 3 cpls as the other people always pull out at last minute for some or other reason. Then in our case we will never reach the quota you are suggesting. :sad:
I would say a member must be on the site for sometime and them, their self must be verified, before they can verify a new member. I think this will cut down the people that join the site and get member verified with in 7days in the meantime they are just testing the water to see if the life style is for them or not.
Joyrider
Just an idea
JoyriderHi all,
Well once Joy and myself have met someone in real life even if it was not for play reasons, we always go back to the persons profile and verify that person. We do it so that the rest of the members then know that person is real and not a fake. Well we all know how to catch a person out if they are fake and if we do find that the profile is fake then we mark it so that we do not waste our time ever again on that profile.
The only reason we do this is to try and weed out the bad apples so to say. And to help other members.
Joyrider
Trying to weed the garden
: :lol: I have the same problem. The condom only fit half way and when you force it all the way then half way during the fun the condom breaks. No matter what make I use :sad: What I now do is put one on top of another this way it does not break, but the I do not enjoy the fun at all!
Joyrider
Now I dont bath with cloths :twisted: okay next question is how is it possible that the admin team can send a person a mail but when a person wants to ask a question by clicking on reply then type your question and once a person hits send it dont go throw. i ask this question here as i do not know who to ask the question to.
joyrider
When we joined this site last year. We were impressed because it took less than a day and our profile pic was authorised but from then it has taken longer and longer before it is done these days. At one stage it took nearly 3 days to authorise the profile pic. I think this part of the system must be jack up again please.
Now before I get put in front of the firing squad again. I know the people that do the authorising is doing it on a volunteer bases, but still we need to still keep the standard of work up. Or make another plan people.
Joyrider
