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Where to cum?
Where do you ladies like the men to cum
Sex God
So, assuming Joyrider was referring to the act of cuming in a situation where Condoms were not actually necessary,
I (being a male) don't find cuming inside a woman as pleasurable as pulling out and cuming on back / belly.
cuming in a mouth is (as far as I am concerned) so one sided, and mostly overrated . . ..
Why are we all here?
We want variety I think. So as for us any favourite does not stay that for too long.
Then later, old favourites come around again.
As for playing with a non spouse without Condoms, think long and hard before you consider that, regardless of what their tests say.
Please read my well researched comments under: "Forum - Anything Goes! - Scary?? - Safe in the knowledge"
The risk of STD transfer, other than HIV, is relatively high with oral sex of any kind, without a Dental Dam or Glad Wrap.
As long as you don't have any noticeable lesions of any kind in your mouth, the risk of oral HIV transfer is extremely low, even if you get a mouth full.
Sex God
So, assuming that any person "playing" in this lifestyle (and specifically those on this site who are contributing or reading the forums) are aware of the various risks associated with the lifestyle, and that they take the obvious precautions one with knowledge would take when playing with spouse, girl/boy friend, regular play partner or even a random exciting hook-up, let me repeat what Joy Rider asked:
Where do ladies like men to cum ?
Where do men like to cum ?
This topic actually has a huge potential to give people a number of various ideas for use in the bedroom.
In general, cuming on a woman's (or man's) face, is something that happens in the movies, but some people would not really know that the majority of ladies do not even have an inkling of a desire to let their partners do this . . . . Let's not kill this topic because we want to talk about disease.
OOOOOOkay so not to think of diseases ............then as a person playing with men, while I am in a Gay relationship....
My feet and shoes are somewhere some Men loves to wanna *cum* but they also know THAT privilege comes with a prize!!!!
They have to clean it up themselves.
I allow boob cums,hand cums, and floor and wall cums and a specialist is a *mirror* cum, but then the men has to also clean this up accordingly to my wishes!!!!
The best is for me NATURALLY IS WHERE I catch the cum in a little shot glass !!! 
Then demand the gent drinks it himself!!!!
Now before you frown and say Ewwwwww , remember who is commenting here , KINKY old me.
I used to have a NSA LONG TERM friend and when he and his lovey retired and Moved nearer to their kids a few years ago,THAT was when I rejoined all these naughty sites to come searching for what I had......Sadly I never found one though...and now I am not looking anymore!!
My NSA Friend and I,We were partners for many, many years, so he was allowed anything.....bedroom play had no limits.
But he used to love squirting all over me...tummy, back,boobs and loved when I swallowed.
Then demand the gent drinks it himself!!!!
Now before you frown and say Ewwwwww , remember who is commenting here , KINKY old me.
I used to have a NSA LONG TERM friend and when he and his lovey retired and Moved nearer to their kids a few years ago,THAT was when I rejoined all these naughty sites to come searching for what I had......Sadly I never found one though...and now I am not looking anymore!!
My NSA Friend and I,We were partners for many, many years, so he was allowed anything.....bedroom play had no limits.
But he used to love squirting all over me...tummy, back,boobs and loved when I swallowed. Sex God
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Here is a question.
Where do you ladies like the men to cum, inside you, over your belly, over your tits on your face. where?
And guys where do you like to cum?
Joyrider
I like inside
For most men on this site - on their own bellies.. Bwa haaaa!!
And now we all know that Stamina lies down when he Masturbates . . ..
Quote by SDMR
Here is a question.
Where do you ladies like the men to cum, inside you, over your belly, over your tits on your face. where?
And guys where do you like to cum?
Joyrider
I like inside
For most men on this site - on their own bellies.. Bwa haaaa!!
And now we all know that Stamina lies down when he Masturbates . . ..
Or sits in a slightly reclined position...
Quote by SDMR
... In general, cuming on a woman's (or man's) face, is something that happens in the movies, but some people would not really know that the majority of ladies do not even have an inkling of a desire to let their partners do this . . . .
Sometimes your desire is to fulfil someone else's, it has a reward of it's own.
Also you're unusual requests are then more likely to be met.
Nimfie hates getting it in her hair though.
Thank you to SDMR for getting people back no track.
the reason i asked the question is i went and looked on the net. I typed in Where do you like your man to ejaculate. And found the following result.
Vagina 33%
Mouth 17%
Breasts 10%
could not care less 10%
Face 8%
Anal 7%
Stomach/body 6%
Not no me 4%
Hand 0%
Questions was asked to 10046 people over seas. so I just wanted to know where most of us fall.
So again where do you fall in as man or lady?
Joyrider
Orgasminator
Breast is my choice with the consent of the women
Still don't want it on me.... he pulls out = then he's done = I don't come.
No fun for me, mediocre sex AND now I have to clean up the freakin mess too.....
NICE..... just what every woman wants - more to clean. :dry:
NO - Although I'll happily admit I have a REALLY MAJOR PROBLEM with any activity that degrades, disrespects or treats women like a fuck toy. That's just me though.... I have a serious issue with most sex acts that are modeled on pornography...
90% of thesesexual behaviours relegate women to "sperm catcher" status and usually it comes with a program of events where "her pleasure" doesn't feature at all. It's my biggest problem with hypothetical MMF scenarios too... I just will not agree to one until the two parties can be trusted not to treat me like a toy for their pleasure, mine not considered. (OK so you can tell I've been there and been treated like a "sperm catcher" :haha: )
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
No fun for me, mediocre sex AND now I have to clean up the freakin mess too.....
NICE..... just what every woman wants - more to clean. :dry:
NO - Although I'll happily admit I have a REALLY MAJOR PROBLEM with any activity that degrades, disrespects or treats women like a fuck toy. That's just me though.... I have a serious issue with most sex acts that are modeled on pornography...
90% of thesesexual behaviours relegate women to "sperm catcher" status and usually it comes with a program of events where "her pleasure" doesn't feature at all. It's my biggest problem with hypothetical MMF scenarios too... I just will not agree to one until the two parties can be trusted not to treat me like a toy for their pleasure, mine not considered. (OK so you can tell I've been there and been treated like a "sperm catcher" :haha: )
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
So, how did the above statements work out for you so far?
Been bombarded by Quote: "Stupid Little Boys" Unquote promising to be different? . . . . .
I would like to suggest to all stupid little boys, read the forums, and pay some attention, a lot of what the ladies say here is gold, and can make your life so much more "easy" . . . .
Quote by LeeEC
Still don't want it on me.... he pulls out = then he's done = I don't come.
No fun for me, mediocre sex AND now I have to clean up the freakin mess too.....
Hopefully you would have had a few before he pulls out.
Or is there a direct correlation for you?
We ask this with genuine interest as we once played with a girl that was "trained" by her ex to only do so on his command. It took a few hours to get her to let go freely but once she did, she left a mess that made her say: "This has never happened to me before"
We also have a huge issue with people that have an utter disrespect, of any kind, for others.
However once you have earned and proven respect, it opens the way to more creative interactions, that may appear like disrespect. Under these conditions it is however not the case, but just another way of adding excitement and allows for more imagination. And is that not why we are here?
Or is it just about more of the same with different people? How does a guy distinguish himself? Just by going harder and longer or being bigger. So what do you do if you've had your fill and your throbbing pussy can't handle anymore but he is still going strong? Isn't that the time to find another way for the grand finale?
When pornography started it was a case of art imitating life, but yes, now it has mostly turned around.
Unfortunately few of these performances are worthy of an Oscar, but in spite of little interest in professional porn we have found a few gems where the action and reactions are genuine and mind blowing. We know this from the girls reaction in the interviews before and after the shoot.
From our experience we have found our level of enjoyment surprising on the occasions that our actions imitated art.
Finding people with whom you can share without reserve or fear, is however the challenge.
Sex God
Quote by joyrider
Shame now we know why the forum is dieing a slow death :sad:
Joyrider
yip, have had that feeling on occasion myself.
Quote by LeeEC
Still don't want it on me.... he pulls out = then he's done = I don't come.
No fun for me, mediocre sex AND now I have to clean up the freakin mess too.....
NICE..... just what every woman wants - more to clean. :dry:
NO - Although I'll happily admit I have a REALLY MAJOR PROBLEM with any activity that degrades, disrespects or treats women like a fuck toy. That's just me though.... I have a serious issue with most sex acts that are modeled on pornography...
90% of these sexual behaviours relegate women to "sperm catcher" status and usually it comes with a program of events where "her pleasure" doesn't feature at all. It's my biggest problem with hypothetical MMF scenarios too... I just will not agree to one until the two parties can be trusted not to treat me like a toy for their pleasure, mine not considered. (OK so you can tell I've been there and been treated like a "sperm catcher" :haha: )
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
Could not agree more. I empathize with females on this one. A ladies pleasure is what it is all about! How can a man enjoy a session without knowing that the lady is overcome with pleasure? May as well be a necrophiliac then! Nothing is better than a girl squirming and wriggling from ecstasy. Makes a man feel like a man! Ladies first!!!
Quote by Stamina
Still don't want it on me.... he pulls out = then he's done = I don't come.
No fun for me, mediocre sex AND now I have to clean up the freakin mess too.....
NICE..... just what every woman wants - more to clean. :dry:
NO - Although I'll happily admit I have a REALLY MAJOR PROBLEM with any activity that degrades, disrespects or treats women like a fuck toy. That's just me though.... I have a serious issue with most sex acts that are modeled on pornography...
90% of these sexual behaviours relegate women to "sperm catcher" status and usually it comes with a program of events where "her pleasure" doesn't feature at all. It's my biggest problem with hypothetical MMF scenarios too... I just will not agree to one until the two parties can be trusted not to treat me like a toy for their pleasure, mine not considered. (OK so you can tell I've been there and been treated like a "sperm catcher" :haha: )
And my husband doesn't understand why I can't just "pick up" a guy.... Well no dear - I'm too old, and too wise now...
Gosh - I do sound like I have had WAY too much interaction with stupid little boys who think that this (SH) is where you get a free fuck and have licence to treat all women, who like sex, like cheap street corner hookers.
Some one give me an orgasm quick!!
Could not agree more. I empathize with females on this one. A ladies pleasure is what it is all about! How can a man enjoy a session without knowing that the lady is overcome with pleasure? May as well be a necrophiliac then! Nothing is better than a girl squirming and wriggling from ecstasy. Makes a man feel like a man! Ladies first!!! As with just about anything in life, a sense of achievement is a massive high, what can beat that feeling when the fun is over and the girl is lying there dripping with sweat and eyes on a fixed point on the ceiling, a smile... And the words " that was amazing!". That alone is what it is all about!!
