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Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race
Male, 46
0 km · Gauteng
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Sexpert
Its really nice to know and it just goes to show how different people are.i have never met anyone (until now) that finds the word pussy last gf referred to her parts as her cake or cakey ( which I thought was adorable because I love eating cake 
) and i dont know of anyone named pussy but one of my favourite bond girls was pussy galour...played by the lovely Honour Blackman .
) and i dont know of anyone named pussy but one of my favourite bond girls was pussy galour...played by the lovely Honour Blackman . Sexpert
the rating system sounds great for assessing if people are not time waisters and bullshitters, however it opens up a public forum for people to abuse ie if someone is rejected as a playmate then they can start giving bad ratings to also makes public that which some people might prefer to keep private....i was never a fan of kissing and telling.i think S H is a great i am stood up by someone i let my friends know who they are or if , as sometimes is the case , i suspect that a guy is posing as a girl i let them know as i suggest the "friends " be devided into a friends i have met and a friends i chat with .in that way if you are planning to meet then you can be proactive and make enquiries with the appropriate people.....i need a catch phrase to end my forum posts with, any suggestions?
Sexpert
the assumption is that we are thinking...i say that in jest but just like when one drives a car the whole clutch accelerator gear change process is sub-contious ,so to are those i see a beautiful women that takes my breath away my first thought is a reminder to self that somewhere in the world is a person who is tired of shagging her , talking to her , seeing her and there is definatley someone avoiding her calls ...now its in that moment that all thought stops for me , and i focus and pray that an oppertunity arrises to somehow bring her into my 'sphere of influence', because if you dont start a conversation she will always be just a fantasy and if that oppertunity doesnt come the best thing to do is just walk away or else you come across as a at that time when im waliking away that the x rated thoughts begin.
...now its in that moment that all thought stops for me , and i focus and pray that an oppertunity arrises to somehow bring her into my 'sphere of influence', because if you dont start a conversation she will always be just a fantasy and if that oppertunity doesnt come the best thing to do is just walk away or else you come across as a at that time when im waliking away that the x rated thoughts begin. Sexpert
ok im not sure if this counts but many moons ago i was frtesh out of high school and on a road trip wth my sister and a friend of hers from work .needles to say she was gorgeous and teased the hell out of her friends younger it was dusk and we where 30 min out from our destination on a long dark road when the beers she was drinking started to kick in i pulled over and my sister ran into the bushes but kim waltzed into the headlights slowly pulled off her jeans ,then slipped out of her g string bent over looked at me through her legs smiled and with her snatch screaming my name squatted and opened the shower taps .i watched her wipe with her gstring walk over to me and slip it in my top pocket.i wouldnt say i would like to be showered on but hell i will never forget that till i die
Sexpert
I hope pib doesn't leave because of a handfull of members .we really enjoy your posts and pics for paying for sex im sure there so so many avenues to openly advertise these days that doing it under cover on a swing site in my mind is just poor if a man has a pimp fantasy and wants to fullfill it or a lady wants to be Julia Roberts for the night I can accept that as a legitimate fantasy, however I have read a few ads where it's obvious that the money is the objective and have reported them to mods to deal with.
Sexpert
the two captains are often neglected when the general is invited over for dinner and i am glad you have addressed this takes guts for a man to trust a lady with the family jewels so ladies please be gentle, always start soft and build up the licking that strip between sack and starfish is awesome especially if you pull the sack (i say again the sack) tight licking all the way up
Sexpert
i think erotics way of dealing with it is great and anyone who does not respect a "thank you but no thank you" should not be on this site.i know we have a few bad apples but like my cricket coach always said we dont set our field for bad thanks to these bad apples a whisper saying hi how u doing (with no permission) will get me drop kicked.i dont think we need the rule ,it makes more work for the mods when they could be chatting , and all it takes is for one to select the offenders name hit the x ,a message will pop up "do u want to block this person from whispering to u" you hit yes and bobs your uncle problem not saying dont report the person please do people should be dealt pool is just getting to be like a primary school play ground must all just grow up
Sexpert
this is a rule that i dont agree with.i do understand why it is there but i think it is as usefull as reducing the speed limit for taxis to 100km/hr when they where not obeying the 120km/hr speed some guys can be pricks and annoying and the programmers of this great site have catered for this by allowing you to block a user from block of often dont chat in the pool and a whisper to say hi breaks the ice .is that so wrong?
Sexpert
i would think that a specialised lodge like that would be hard to a swingers friendly lodge with a secluded unit self contained 1o sleeper , own pool etc .this would allow normal use and when swingers want to book they can be catered for .what i have noticed is swinders are scattered acroos the country so location would be an im sure if you arrange collection at major cities i think it could work.i hope my 2 cents helps
