i agree that we all have prefered types but that should not mean excluding any other someone says they are open minded then they should not restrict themselves (if they find themselves attracted to someone that is not normally their type).so i would say go for it kitty if you want couples obviously are attracted to you and want to explore this new found attraction.
no more or less than any other porn
how does one add an avitaar?
You guys are open minded and willing to explore and you should stay that time you will meet the right couples, so just allow it to happen.
Ok so since this thread started I have noticed a spike in participation and since you initiated it pib what can i do as payment to you for your creativity
there are many ladies here that that i find myself drawn to, our lovely forum queens (you know who you are) are but a few. if i had to choose just one and by some miracle that lady would appear before me all hot and ready to go it would be yoga.
I joined this lifestyle as a couple and was also surprised at the number of couples we found that didn't cross the race assumption (and yes probably a mistake to make one) was that swingers would be open to exploring ,pushing boundaries in search of pleasure and enjoyment but,as i have learned we all have limits.i for one am straight , i am not attracted to men , and the odd guy that drops me a message i tell them politely thanks but no for those who are not attracted to people of other races i must respect your limit.....having said all that i would like to welcome the kinky's to the forums and say anyone who doesn't want to play with you guys would be crazy.
i knock on the door of the hotel room, the lady who i have never met answer's it, naked and blind folded.i lead her over to the bed..touching her as we saying a word.i lay her down .kissing her naked body as i begin to run my hands all over she is totally relaxed i spread her legs .running my tongue from her knees up her thighs all the way to the orgasms over and over again and when she lays there on the bed , body limp eyes covered , i give her one long kiss and leave.
that's my weird sure how weird anyone thinks it is.1 to 10 on the weird-o-meter?
I like the way you think mz pib, and I support this cause , however, I doubt there is much leverage that a single guy has on this site.
if it is him then its truly a dr jekyl and mr hyde or is it hide
When I first arrived on the site I read joe's posts and it has really educated me,it's good to see you up the good work
i think most dogging locations are simply suggestions .horwood farm has potential but something would have to be arranged at a specific date and reading all the posts it doesnt seem like there is a specified dogging place in the east rand
I have lost many chat buddies to the mods ...in that they become very busy doing SH work that they hardly chat ...don't leave us lee
I think that it's a combonation of what is said and more importantly when it is "line" has the potential for success if used at the correct key is knowing when that time is.
do you know you can catch a bus at an airport and you can buy food at a chemist vice versa one can buy medication at a evolve .the site might be called swinging heaven but we can all agree they cater to all types here including the much detested single male (like myself).i stand correted but swinging started with military men who would be gone for months at a time and they asked their mates to look after their partner while they are away, so if we are not in the miltary then are we swingers?i have a question , why is this attack not directed at the single ladies on this site as well?and lets not kid anyone this "wondering" is nothing more than an attack.
I say this not in defence of the guy that chatted to kc , but I think that the response " oh it's because of my race ..." is more of a defence mechanism .its easier to think that someone has race issues rather than to face the fact that they are just not into that way we dont have to deal with the fact that we may be problem..
The fact is people choose not play with others of a different race and we must respect that because respect is the foundation of this lifestyle. I don't take offence when I read this in people's profiles I just wish they would declare this at the beginning of their profile description then I wouldn't waist time reading it .i do wish people would stop saying they are open minded and in the same breath say we dont cross racial lines ,also using the phrase " prefer not to cross..." as its ambiguous.i prefer ribs but if im hungry i'll eat chicken.
in closing i would just like to thank the owners of this site because ,amongst other things , it allowes us to inter act with people of different cultures ages and races and hopefully in doing so our perceptions and paradigm's change.
if i am permitted to add an option.i would love to see naked ladies in one of those grape crushing drums/vats , you know the ones used in making wine.
Hahahaha...I know a guy who placed his neighbours house on the market....and it sold:grin::grin:
There is strength in unity , all for one an one for all etc, so ladies and couples might I suggest this. Form a group , or network and if one person receives an un welcomed message from someone then spread the word to your network via a private message or whisper in people in your network can choose to let others in their network know etc folks who are informed can be proactive and block the offending user, or as suggested inform him ( i doubt it would be a her) that he is on the naughty list and has been his mailbox is flooded with messages from people who have blocked him he will soon shape up and change his behaviour . before I get reprimanded for straying off the topic let me say that swinging does involve sex so in my opinion yes it is a sex site ( to a small degree ) but sex is only one dimension of what swinging is are all here for varying reasons and as we proceed down this road our fantasies change and I think we just need to find people who are looking for the same things we are.
I hope they report them to interpol
Is poor spelling really a sign of lack of intelligence, if so then I am a retard, I can't spell and my grammar sucks but that's because we have has sure many moons ago scholars who only spoke Latin where all offended by this "English" to be honest one could argue that im i am typing the word you , i can express myself with far less effort by simply typing u .i do judge people by the content of their responses/comments though as oppossed to their grammer or spelling as english is not everyones first saying that english is my first language and mr reddy( high school english teacher) would cringe if he read how i butcher the queens english these days, but , i i want to say is my poor spelling is more a sign of my evolution/apathy/laziness rather than my intellegence .in conclusion thanks for the heads up i will start making an attempt to correct my grammer and spelling if thats how one can attract ladies like lee( as soon as i learn how to use this darn spell check what what :doh: )
All I know is a pool is high maintainence.
