We only added photos recently...
Maybe it was because we are a couple with a female, but within our first 24 hours on the site, we had received nearly 60 messages and winks! Some of which were appropriate, others not...
Then we added some details to our write up... that helped to narrow the kind of people we attracted, and still we had quite a few guys and couples who were outside of our specified interest areas who contacted us...
But as time has gone on, we have made quite a few chat friends, had a few coffee dates, and two successful playdates.
Our pics were only added after these events, and due to busy schedules etc.... we haven't met anyone since the pics went up! Lol.
Why didnt we put pics up earlier? No need to I guess, our write up is pretty explicit.
Maybe we got so much attention because the single guys on site seem to mail anyone who indicates that they might be interested in males... However, we have spoken to many couples, and that was way before the pics went up...
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C
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KC_
4 days ago
Pan White/Caucasian Non-binary, 37
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Cis Male, 39
0 km · Edenvale
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PIB, I was thinking a very similar thing this morning!
We 'chat' to so many of our friends using technology, that I dont remember the last time we sat down and chatted in real life with some of our friends! When you finally do see people at a party of sorts, there are so many people to greet that we are lucky to have one or two real conversations with our friends by the time we go home!
But with our lives as busy as they are, it is seldom that we spent time with only one friend or one couple at a time!
Just my input here...
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I vaguely remember seeing a silicone penis sheath with beads in it. Cant remember which sex shop it was at though.
I suppose the sheath would be a way to "try out" the implants without ant permanent *damage* for lack of a better word.
I agree with LeeEC about how wonderful it is to play with a natural penis which you have grown to love over the years... Dont get me wrong, I enjoy most cocks, but K's cock is my favourite! I wouldnt want to change it in any way!
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um.. I haven't seen the pic with the implants..
But I was always under the impression that ribbed and studded condoms were for *his* pleasure, as I feel very little difference compared to normal condoms.
Then, oneday K and I were talking about it, and it turns out these extras are supposed to be for my benefit...
One thing I do have with beads is my Rabbit toy. the beads move around at the entrance to my vagina in such an amazing way! THAT I definitely DO feel!
If his implants can provide sensations close to what my Rabbit can... then I might be keen to try it out...
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C
Quote by Gerrie2012
With all this kinky talk and being way off the subject of our favourite body part, I ......
went 'deeper' as usual to Mike_Pta's remark about the pin, and a
a picture jumped to mind about a photo I saw the other day with a pin being shoved ALL the way down the guy's penis!
I totally freeked out and it was with this that I wondered if there was maybe a 'deeper' meaning to his remark!
Lol, Gerrie, I saw those pin things at the KINKY stall at SEXPO last year.
They are slightly curved pins, and I think there were 4 or 5 progressively thicker ones for the penis, and then 4 or 5 progressively thicker ones for the anus.
The guy at the stall said the penis ones produce the most fantastic orgasm, but it needs to be done very carefully, preferably by someone who knows what they are doing (like PIB
)There is a mark on the pin, and you shoudln't insert the pin beyond that mark.
Frightened K_ a fair amount!
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Well, I am not as skilled as PIB in the deep throat department. It simply doesn't happen 
Which also means that I always taste when K comes in my mouth, which I let him... and then spit it back out almost immediately!
However, I really do enjoy giving BJs, with the limited set of skills which I do have
I love playing with penises and balls. I love touching and feeling and licking and sucking...
I usually do it for *my pleasure* more than his, I assume he is enjoying it, and if I hurt him, he will say something...
When playing with other guys, I find flavoured condoms are amazing! I find that the LIFESTYLE brand and CASANOVA flavours are great. They don't have the horrible condom flavour that other brands and nonflavoured condoms have.
They have lots of different flavours, like chocolate, mint, strawberry, vanilla, banana, blueberry... well, those are in the Lifestyle boxes I just opened now :)
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C
Which also means that I always taste when K comes in my mouth, which I let him... and then spit it back out almost immediately!
However, I really do enjoy giving BJs, with the limited set of skills which I do have
I love playing with penises and balls. I love touching and feeling and licking and sucking...
I usually do it for *my pleasure* more than his, I assume he is enjoying it, and if I hurt him, he will say something...
When playing with other guys, I find flavoured condoms are amazing! I find that the LIFESTYLE brand and CASANOVA flavours are great. They don't have the horrible condom flavour that other brands and nonflavoured condoms have.
They have lots of different flavours, like chocolate, mint, strawberry, vanilla, banana, blueberry... well, those are in the Lifestyle boxes I just opened now :)
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C Lol SDMR
No amount of convincing? I know many men who started waxing because they lost a bet, or were dared to do so...
They still wax years later, but won't admit it to anyone else ;)
The one started because his girlfriend at the time was a beautician. I am not sure if she did his "base, sack and crack" but i dont think it could be worse than chest and back!
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C
Mike_Pta I'm fairly certain that if K went to a professional for his waxing it would be less painful! However, I doubt the professional would give him the same rub down afterwards, which I can only hope makes the whole process worthwhile ;)
We also have a fun rule: if there are any hairs which the wax didn't remove... "if I pluck, then I must suck" another thing I doubt he would get at the salons... :twisted:
The main advantage of waxing is that the smoothness lasts SOOO much longer than shaving, and also hair grows back softer.. Now that I am doing the laser process, I can only shave in between sessions, and I can tell you that the regrowth from shaving is frustratingly quick in comparison... for example, on my underarms, after a wax I used to be hair free for up to 10 days! After shaving, the hair that grows back is visible within 2 days! There is less hair that comes back than before the laser, but the process is not finished yet, so I need to shave more than I want to...
I was very lucky to find this laser at a special price, and paid for all the sessions upfront in order to maintain that price, which was about 40% off the usual price!
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PIB, thanks for smiling
Now that the trauma of Sunday night's waxing is over... I have a wonderful smooth playground... which I was all over last night ;)
The laser is going along nicely :) I went for my third session last Monday.
At this rate, I should have a hair-free pussy by Sept/October, except for a strip I have decided to leave down the front...
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C
Now that the trauma of Sunday night's waxing is over... I have a wonderful smooth playground... which I was all over last night ;)
The laser is going along nicely :) I went for my third session last Monday.
At this rate, I should have a hair-free pussy by Sept/October, except for a strip I have decided to leave down the front...
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Last weekend - Sunday we were packed and ready to leave for Cape Town to see Bon Jovi. We made a 'week vacation' out of it and stayed with the CT-in laws. Off course it was a vanilla holiday and I made no move towards any kinky visits in CT!! I suggested that we try the waxing experience again as we both fell back into the shaving routine due to busy schedules and home renovations since my post last year ("genital hair"). My wife immediately responded that I was to be first and we got everything prepared. The wax we used was the one KC_ spoke about where you had to pull the wax slightly to get a handle.
O boy! It really wasn't what I expected - you only get one chance to remove the hair because the second layer of wax on the same area is not recommended! After the fifth wax strip on only three areas (lol) I told my wife that I wanted to rest and wax only her pubic area. With the previous experience still 'fresh' in the memory she only allowed me to apply the wax, so that she can do the rest herself. In no time her skin area was all too sensitive as well. The wax temperature and the hair length was right for waxing but it really hurt - we both were not impressed!
My wife got her waxing kit - the one she's very used to - with the material strips and water soluble wax. This was the same kit we tried the waxing exercise last year. The reason we used the Bees wax because we thought it would be a much better option based on the last experience!
What a relief! In no time she waxed me clean - to use KC_'s words - Base, sack and crack!!! The areas was not sensitive at all, while the area of the first waxing effort was red and very sensitive! She also showed me first hand how to work the strips. My wife got more confidence and allowed me to take control of her waxing. The nice thing about the material strips was if the first directional pull did not remove all the hair you reapplied the strip and pulled in the opposite direction! Voila! clean pussy! O yes, sometimes you get small pieces of the wax that stick to the skin, when that happens you use baby powder to just dry the skin before you apply the next wad of wax. Guys I got so handy with the waxing - not to mention my hard on being in the way all the time - you can really get me to give you a painless waxing!!
Yes, the more you practise the luckier you get!
PS! The Cape Town trip with our waxed pubic areas made our late night action much more memorable!
Now I've shaved my moustache for a more slippier experience!!
So after reading Gerrie's story about the water soluble wax, I bought some for K's waxing session last night.
To put it gently, K was biting on a pillow trying not to swear at me for the pain I was causing him...
He said that every strip felt like he was being lashed!
Needless to say, we quickly reverted to the hot wax which needs a "handle"
He says that after experiencing both, the handle is painless in comparison to the water soluble wax...
Also, it seems like the water soluble wax breaks more hairs at the skin, rather than pull them out - root and all.
They both took off plenty of hair, but the *used* hot wax strips seemed to have more roots attached than the material strips did.
Thank goodness for after-wax soothing oil :twisted:
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Role play is there for the fantasy element.
For example, I would never want to be a nurse in real life, the blood and germs and needles.... not for me..However, I think I would make a very sexy nurse in outfit. And the amateur domme in me likes to dress up as a nurse and give K instructions of how to lie down for his *treatment*
Now that I think about it... that is what happens when I wax him, minus the nurse outfit :twisted:
Back on the topic of school girl role play, why not. We were all once teenagers in high school, and like Gerrie said, it is nice to remember what it was like, and pretending that we still have the energy of youngsters without energy drinks for assistance!
Nowdays, we down an energy drink before a hectic play session, just to make it to the end!
I like to pretend Im a teacher :twisted:
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hehe, PIB I wore white undies under my towel... and a white bra. The straps were visible, but I guess people didn't see the straps because they were not expecting to...?
My friend put some fake blood on my arms and in my cleavage...
I didn't think of getting a *wet look*
There is always a next time... :twisted:
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C
We didnt think to take anything with us to the club, but have come up with a small list for next time ;)
When we went to our play date, we took along some flavoured condoms (chocolate ) and some lube.
We thought we did well for our first play date 
PIB your list has made us think of all the things that we could/should take along with us.
BTW, does anyone know where we can get dams in JHB? Condoms are easily, but dams are hard to find! I know you can even get flavoured dams, but no idea where!
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) and some lube.
We thought we did well for our first play date
PIB your list has made us think of all the things that we could/should take along with us.
BTW, does anyone know where we can get dams in JHB? Condoms are easily, but dams are hard to find! I know you can even get flavoured dams, but no idea where!
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C We chatted to some very sexy people, danced with some sexy people and checked out the different rooms.
Two very sexy ladies showed us how to use the sex-swing, I think they enjoyed putting me in it more than K_ did ;)
We had sex in the voyeurs room twice, the first time a threesome came and had sex next to us, which was great!
The second time we had a cute guy watching us ;)
When we were done in the voyeur room, there were loads of people chilling in the pool, a few looked like they were getting very cosy. By then, we decided that we had ventured enough for our first time, and went home.
I regret being so shy with the sexy ladies who put me in the swing, hopefully next time I will have the guts to ask one of them to play
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C We went to a club for the first time this weekend. It was Pharaohs, the one in midrand where the fee includes a meal and hot drinks, and alcohol is bought at the cash bar.
Despite the "high fee" for single males, there were still quite a few there. We think that if it wasn't such a high fee, the place would be a sausage fest, with very few females, even when considering the couples who go. There were quite a few single females, who seemed to be loving life.
As cards said, everyone goes for different reasons, and I think for women, it is a safe environment to have a party, dance to music and not be harassed, as the rule there is the women have to approach, and no means no.
We were greeted by a quite a few friendly people who went out of their way to say hello, as they could see we felt like fish out of water. Despite feeling out of place, we did not feel as if we didn't "fit in with the cliques". It was mainly our comfort levels, not the attitude of the regulars there. We were "checked on" to see if we were having a good time. I appreciated that!
Anyway, my 2c
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I agree with LeeEC on the gspot-squirting thing.
Until we discovered where that lovely area on the frontal wall of my vagina, sex was great.
Since discovering that little area, sex is phenomenal!
I have to agree that the g-spot isn't a definite shape. It sometimes feels like the entire front section is spongy...
I can only squirt when I am fully aroused, and being stimulated correctly, and the gspot is receiving a fair amount of that stimulation. Once the squirting starts in a session... it doesn't stop ;)
I can get a very similar feeling of release during oral sex, when my clit and vulva are receiving the stimulation, but no squirting actually happens...
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We are not the gym bunny types despite our visits to the gym...
We do try to take care of ourselves, even if it doesn't look like it.
So we understand how difficult it is to 'look good'
As PIB and Softiskitty have said, the connection is most important.
For all the people that we have considered meeting and more; there has been a connection of sort.
When people make contact with us, it is almost always me (Mrs C) who is on the other side of the computer. Those who talk to me as a person and not as a warm-penis-holder, have much more chance of a meet ever happening. I generally stop conversing with people who treat me as a warm-penis-holder... No matter how good they look in their pictures!
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I disagree.
Its about knowing how to use YOUR tool, regardless of size.
And just as Softiskitty is saying, I expect more than just your penis to pleasure me. Everyone has mouths, tongues and fingers, which can provide a completely different type of pleasure. I expect my playmates to use all their tools to pleasure me, as I use all of mine on them!
I once had a friend who was very well hung, and I can honestly say one of the worst lovers I have ever had! Never even gave him a second chance!
I really do not think it is the size that matters. More the person's skill and ability. I am not saying this to make the "smaller" guys feel better. I am saying it because this is my experience. What do the other ladies think?
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I really do believe it is how you use it that matters.
We had an mmf with a guy that's penis is HUGE! Like, nearly double the length of K_!
The thing is, because it is bigger than what I am used to, we had to figure out how best to use it ;)
The things he did with me would not have worked with K_, and the things K does with me would not work with him.
Luckily for me, he knew how to use it!
It did not take anything away from the way K pleasures me. K knows exactly how to use his penis to get me moaning!
What I am trying to say is, like Softiskitty said, it is nice to be filled, but there is a lot more to good sex than just filling me up!
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C
So I just came back from my second laser session.
So far she is impressed at how my hair has reacted already, as there is a visible line on bikini where she stopped with the laser last time.
Once again the highlight of the session was lying on the table with no panties while a sexy lady shaved my pussy area in preparation for the laser :twisted:
I got loads of messages after the last post asking if the place I went to offered their services to men.
For all the guys who were asking about laser options, I asked her if she does laser on men's genitals.
Sadly you boys will have to find a different laser therapist, as she only does body hair removal (legs, arm, chest, back etc) on men, but no genital hair removal.
Does anyone know which laser clinics do offer genital hair removal for men?
One of our friends mentioned that there is a waxing place in Emmerentia, JHB that waxes men ;)
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