So I was reading an article about role play in the bedroom . . . . the article mentioned various types of role play etc etc. One thing that got my attention while reading this article was the "School Girl" type of role play . . . . . . . I found myself wondering how healthy this actually is. What I mean is, why would a grown Adult man be fantasizing about a school girl. . . . . yes, I know most people would say that it's only a fantasy . . . BUT how many people make their sexual fantasies a reality ? . . . .
The (huge) challenge is to get 'that great feeling' of years ago, back into the front part of your active brain.
When she was this wonderful young & viby chick!!!! ..... and you (that was definitely me) were constantly randy, horny and everything rhino(ish)!
RolePlay is about the only way to get back to that feeling ......
BUT when we're referring to a fantasy - Ermmm! It can be because the 'oldie' have a 'lost youth'-syndrome. Very dangerous playground for the 'oldie'
All I can say is that the neighbourhood's school girls but be on the alert for a perv!!!
For me it's more that I never had that high school romance. I went to an all-boys school and didn't get out much.
So for me it's trying to get a taste of what I didn't have before
I once did some Rope-work on a Lady and she was as naked as a jay....she was all natural down *under*.
Me who is always nosy and inquisitive, asked her why she did not at least trim or shaved or waxed. I offered a free wax, but she refused.
REASON being *she is a GROWN WOMAN and not a school girl* and she liked showing she is an adult.
Now those words holds true if you think about Pedophiles/Child molesters whom like their kiddies young with NO hair I respect her view on the *hair issue*as I never though of it in the same way she did.
WE sometimes forget that NOT only men is the offensive here, we do get women Pedophiles /Child molesters as well!!!
Life shows us that JUST as many boys as girls get molested daily by Pedophiles/Child molesters.
I put both Pedophiles and Child molesters here cause there is a misconception that all child molesters are pedophiles and conversely all pedophiles are child molesters. This is simply not the case.(but to really have a debate about this ,in this forum will over ride and high jack SDMR`s forum completely.
Role play is healthy in the bedroom....it is the pervs who is the culprits here.
On the pervs who go to far, they are everywhere and at any place, even here.
All that any parent can do is t try and keep their Kids safe, by teaching them about the danger signals of an OLDER person touching or doing things yeah sometimes to listen and believe their child...as the MOTHER or the FATHER is the guilty party!
Sometimes just to take note on sudden changes a child undergoes, and then to research the reason why.
Role play is there for the fantasy element.
For example, I would never want to be a nurse in real life, the blood and germs and needles.... not for me..However, I think I would make a very sexy nurse in outfit. And the amateur domme in me likes to dress up as a nurse and give K instructions of how to lie down for his *treatment*
Now that I think about it... that is what happens when I wax him, minus the nurse outfit :twisted:
Back on the topic of school girl role play, why not. We were all once teenagers in high school, and like Gerrie said, it is nice to remember what it was like, and pretending that we still have the energy of youngsters without energy drinks for assistance!
Nowdays, we down an energy drink before a hectic play session, just to make it to the end!
I like to pretend Im a teacher :twisted:
;)
C
I think the only context in which role play may be dangerous, is in the context where one partner uses the other partners sexual "weaknesses" or addictions/interests in such a way as to manipulate or control the other.
Plus the person for whom it might be truly dangerous, would be fully and completely aware that they are playing with fire, so much so, I'm certain that the other party involved would pick up on their strange behavior and back out of the deal.
It would be extremely unlikely that role play would trigger something which seeing ordinary children on the beach/street/mall/park would not already have made the potential perfectly well aware of his or her personal tastes/interests.
Role play in this context may in fact be a very healthy way to deal with said interest over which they would have very little to no control in terms of it's existence.
So as far as I'm concerned role play is a very excellent healthy choice of mechanism to explore all your fantasies in a controlled, balanced and appropriate way.
