I think, for me anyway, one of the biggest benefits of now being circumcised is the feeling I get from my penis during sex now that it has been properly circumcised.
Prior to being circumcised, when I was with a girl, as soon as she had taken my penis out or undressed me, I was usually erect or semi-erect by then and because I normally wore my foreskin fully retracted the head was fully exposed. So when I now pushed my hard erection into her, the head slides against her vaginal walls directly. However after just a few thrusts, the foreskin starts to slide up and come between her walls and the head. Now you have the situation where the head is covered by the foreskin whilst inside her and is now actually sliding in and out of itself instead of rubbing against her vaginal wall in direct contact.
My ex's vagina on the inside had a texture a bit like a smooth but freshly plucked chicken skin, so it was wonderfully stimulating to the head of my penis! But when we were thrusting, I didn't feel that much of the contact on the head . so, either she or I had to reach down and hold the foreskin back with our fingers. She immediately would comment on how much better that felt because she could now feel the outline of my head which was a turn-on for her.
I have always loved "doggy" the most as my favourite sex position which was always the easiest position for me to come with.
Once the foreskin had been circumcised, the head was now permanently and fully exposed, and stayed that way whilst thrusting during sex. I was now able to come much quicker. (I suffer from "delayed orgasm" due to too much masturbation as a child whilst practicing to not come for as long as possible, according to the sex manuals at the time, for the benefit or the woman...)
I love the sight of a beautifully circumcised penis, especially in the mouth of a woman, or rubbing against her face or boobs. I think the foreskin is something that should be circumcised for aesthetic reasons alone if nothing else. I know a lot of women who believe this and there are plenty more women who feel the same but just "can't" say so because their lovers are not circumcised.
I would love to hear from other guys (and especially their female lovers) who were circumcised as adults or once sexually active. I am also keen to receive mail from any and all women who are turned on or intruiged by the circumcised penis.
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Straight White/Caucasian Male, 64
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I have an average to very slightly above average size penis. I have a nicely proportioned penis, straight, although a definite upward curve is most desirable.
If I was a woman, I would in all honesty probably be a size queen. I think an 8" penis is the perfect length. Long enough to stretch you in most positions, but not so long as to hurt you. Girth however should be a lot...... That feeling of pushing into a well lubricated women the first time is just soooo exquisite.
However, as a man, my personal favorite sex thing is, to have a woman suck my penis. I can forego normal pussy sex for oral any day, but....... It only works if I am convinced that the woman loves sucking my penis! I suppose the mind thing is more than we admit. It is the idea that she desires to suck my penis that turns me on.
However, if my length is too long,not a problem, provided you don't pull on the lady's head to go deeper. (Stupid!) But, girth I imagine could quickly become a problem, especially for extended sucking which I love so much. my one lover loved to suck my penis, but it hurt her jaw after a short time. Catch 22, she loved my large head but couldn't suck it for very long.
More women's views/opinions/preferences please???
One mor thing, actually two.....
!) Ladies, how many of you allow your guy to come in your mouth, how many swallow?
2) I am MOST CERTAINLY not demeaning to women, but, I love to come on a woman's face. It's extremely erotic for me! I don't do it to: dominate/demean/put down/cheapen/negative anything! I just love to come on a pretty woman's face!
Girls, what comments/feelings?
I was scheduled for 8 O'clock Monday morning after seeing the Urologist. I arrived at about quarter to 8 to leave time for admission paperwork, correctly so...
Because he scheduled me so quickly for snipping after seeing me on the Friday, one of the things I am sorry about is that my partner was not with me for my circumcision, she had wanted to be, but was away for a week. I should have been more adament and made it later for her to be with me. She had wanted to be with me whilst they circumcised me to watch.
The woman admitting me asked what I was here for and I said to be circumcised. She gave a warm reassuring smile and said I would be out in a few minutes and that I was going to love being circumcised. She very obviously preferred circumcised cocks!
I then went up to the theatres where I was taken in by the scrub sister. She gave me one of those simple(minimal) gowns to put on, and told me to put it on back to front, with the open side in front and come through to the theatre when I'm changed. It barely fitted around me and my jewels kept poking out in front! I went in and she had me lay down on the table and gave me a cushion for my head.
Then 3 student nurses came to join in and "learn", followed by a fellow scrub sister who just wanted to watch a circumcision. 5 women present.....
The scrub sister then opened my gown to expose my penis. Than morning after showering, I had wanked to get the hornyness of getting circumcised out and it would be the last wank for a few days too!(12)
I pulled my foreskin properly over the head to fully cover it, sticking out in front of the head like most baby's foreskins do.
She then presented a rasor and told me she needed to trim a bit..... That was where I started to shave and have ever since.
Now there were 5 women watching, my penis started to swell as she held it to shave it. I thought of polar bears, desert cacti, racing cars....it stopped swelling.
Then she picked up a swab to clean it....... She looked me in the eye, from behind her sultry nurse mask and said "That's the last time a woman pulls your foreskin back". I INSTANTLY became rock hard!! Shit,, I was embarassed. She said not to worry, it is normal for most guys. The nursing students were chatting amongst themselves about circumcision and how they all liked and preferred it for their partners and would have all their boys circumcised too! I remained rock hard whilst she cleaned the head to distraction. All the time she was applying definite pressure to the skin ,pulling it back, which in itself is stimulating. In hindsight, I think she knew this and was doing so on purpose...
Now I was "prepped" for the surgeon, and erect!
I saw him through the glass doors arriving ready, my erection wilted!
He askedhow I felt, good! Then women had all been assuring me how much nicer it is to be circumcised, so I was excited!
She then pulled the foreskin over the head again, not really properly, which is probably why he didn't take off enough foreskin the first time. He then injected me with local all the way round in the foreskin at the base of my glans.
Then she held my penis whilst he cut through the outer layer all the way round along the rim of the glans. Then he cut through both layers of the foreskin from the opening down to about 1cm from the rim. She then held the open foreskin whilst he used a scissors to circumcise it all the way round. A large piece of foreskin suddenly came away. He asked if he can send it away for pathology tests. (money.....) I said ok, and wondered what the technician would be thinking when she had to investigate some guys circumcised foreskin! she then held my penis whilst he stitched the two layers together.I was rather amazed at how little it actually bled.
Then she wrapped me in a dressing and all was done! I was now CIRCUMCISED! The girls attending and the other scrub sister all commented on how nice it looked.
I drove home alone in a bit of a mind-fuck....
More to follow.
I absolutely totally LOVE clit-hood piercings!!! I find them so erotic. I like nipple piercings to touch and look at, but don't like the idea of how sore a nipple piercing is to do. I don't like even the IDEA of a piercing through the actual clitoris, neither a Prince Albert penis piercing.
I think a lot of the actual love of clit-hood piercings is the picture of the girl having it done. She discussing and showing her piercer what she wants and how and him (always him...) telling her what he thinks and why. I also love the idea of how a clit-hood piercing helps keep the clit exposed to see........ In places in the USA a lot of women are opting to have their clits un-hooded whilst going for labia plasty. That, is the ultimate sexual turn-on! :twisted:
I was an adult by the time I had built up enogh courage to go see a doctor to get circumcised.
My girlfriend at the time was quite in favour of me having the foreskin removed, she loved the looks of circumcised cocks!
I went to see a Jewish doctor in Joburg, a Urologist. I didn't want any unfamiliar work.........
He was extreemly pleasant. At first he thought I wanted a vasectomy when I said I'm here for an embarrasing operation. He asked how many children I had and I said none yet. Then he said "Oh sorry, you obviously then would like to have your foreskin circumcised?" I said yes........ He said it is a very common request by adult guys and he has done hundreds of them, if not more, over his career lifespan! I said that was encouraging.
Then he said they normally use a local anaesthetic, but I could also have a full dope. I said definitely local! I want to see how you do it!
He then asked me to come lie on the table to examine me. I pulled down my pants to expose my penis and laid down. He then took it and pushed the foreskin back as far as he could. He said it was a normal, healthy looking foreskin. Then he said they either take it off just over the rim, or on the rim. I actually in hindsight wanted what they call a "High and tight circumcision". This is where the foreskin is cut off as far back on the shaft as possible, leaving all the inner lining and placing the circumcision scar far back behind the rim of the head. I also wanted a tight circumcision, which would have meant that little skin bunched up against the head when flaccid and the shaft-skin would be tought when erect. (I actually had my cock re-circumcised by him 10 years later to make it tight, something that he also does for lots of men. Since then it has been perfect!)
Then he called his secretary to make an appointment for me to have it circumcised. She was fairly attractive and in her 30's. I had a fair erection by this time with him holding it with the foreskin now fully retracted. When I got up to dress and leave, I noticed that from where she would have entered the room to answer him when called, she would have been able to see the lower half of my body whilst he was speaking to her, so she must have been able to see him holding my erect penis.....
This was all on the Friday. I was scheduled to be circumcised on the following Monday. He said he likes to schedule quickly, before the guys change their minds and chicken out. When his secretary made the appointment for me, she did mention how much I am going to prefer having a circumcised penis. I still wonder if she was moist whilst doing all this.
My next contact was arriving Monday morning at the clinic to be circumcised.
From about age 13, I so much liked the feeling and view of my penis when I had my foreskin retracted that I started to try and keep my foreskin permanently retracted. This was quite difficult to keep back for a while, because after a few moments of walking or climbing stairs, I could suddenly feel the foreskin sliding forward over the head to cover it again. But I would simply stick my hand into my pants as if adjusting, but to really pull the foreskin back again. After about two years of doing this, the foreskin would generally stay retracted behind the head. The feeling of walking around with the head always exposed was really very pleasant, as I could feel the exposed head bobbing up and down against my underpants, and it was always pleasant.
I remember going to a 21st party at a girl's house, where we all later got naked for a skinny dip. At one time we were just standing around in a loose group chatting and drinking and joking. I distinctly remember the girls all glancing at the cocks of the circumcised guys. My foreskin had been pulled over my glans when I got undressed. I was a bit put out. So I turned to fetch another drink and in doing also pulled my foreskin fully back. I instantly felt my cock swell. I did not get an erection, but it just grew in girth and length a bit. When I got back to the others with drink in hand, I was subsequently amazed at how almost all the girls present were surreptitiously glancing at my cock. The only difference between before and now was, my head was now fully exposed and visible! I knew from that moment on that I wanted to be circumcised!
One thing I must mention about masturbation is, whilst still uncircumcised, to masturbate I would slide the loose skin up and down on the shaft behind the head. Every now and then I would slide the skin fully forward and back over the head for a while too. However, if I masturbated for long periods and slid the foreskin forward and back over the head, I usually had a bruised glans-rim for a few days afterwards. I have a large head in relation to the shaft and the sliding action of the foreskin over the rim would bruise the rim of the head. So even today when I masturbate, it's not very different at all to when I still had foreskin!
One other thing I must mention. As a teenager, I would read every "pillow-book" I could find about sex! One point mentioned at the time by many authors was 'premature ejaculation'. This was made out to be a big no-no. Very bad for women it said. One cure to this was to practice masturbating and to hold off coming for as long as possible. This I duly did, for many years. I'm not sure that it was a good thing.
Hello all "Vaalies".....
I would love to join any group of people who are into getting together for masturbation parties.
Why? Well firstly it is erotic. I LOVE to watch a woman masturbating!!!! I also am hugely turned on by a woman watching me play with myself.
Second, it is totally safe (STD's), AND non emotionally threatening....
Thirdly, it can be a cool social gathering too! Why not make it a bring and braai type of thing? Maybe with some nice DVD's to play too? You can sit around or walk around or swim, chatting, discussing what you like or don't like about sex, whilst looking at how we each do it for ourselves.
There's always the outside chance you might meet someone who you like too, not impossible.
Anyone maybe interested who also has an available venue? I can only really do it if my landlord/lady are away as I don't yet have the ideal flat/surroundings. 
Love to hear from any/all interested girls and guys. All male party is not on though, at least ONE girl to be present.
Love to hear from any/all interested girls and guys. All male party is not on though, at least ONE girl to be present. When I was about 9 years old I was now doing the bathing ritual. Pull your foreskin back, wash with lots of water and very little soap, which I was now doing. However, it was stated over and over, "Make sure you pull your foreskin forward again once you have thoroughly dried it after bathing". I never worked out why it was so important to pull the foreskin forward to cover the head afterwards..... I loved seeing the head!
Then one day whilst now pulling the foreskin forward, I noticed that if you do it quite fast, it felt rather exquisite...... so I did it again, and again....suddenly I was doing it rapidly and consistently for a few seconds. By now I was rock hard! Then I suddenly had my first orgasm! WOW!!! What an amazing feeling! No ejaculate, but a most beautiful feeling. Now I knew what this thing was for, not just to wee-wee.......
And that was how I learnt about masturbation. I never looked back!
And that was how I learnt about masturbation. I never looked back! Hi Gerrie and others.
Firstly, THANKS to all for non of the poisonous anti-circumcision drivel seen on the internet these days!! Also nice to see some comments from women, can we see some from other women too please? Obviously, I have an interest in the subject and as such I will elaborate, albeit in pieces at a time.
One thing that I do know for certain today after many years of using the internet and with the strenth of the search engines today: There are maybe 3 or max 10 people WORLD-wide who mine/troll the internet regularly for any and all mention of the words circumcise/d~ circumcision and then home in on that web page. These guys (yes guys) are usually old queens with wet nappies who are sexually turned on by foreskins and then they have a host of non-de-plumes by which they go(very often the same from site to site) and keep a reserve of stored diatribe to attack any pro-circumcision interest. This I have personally seen over the many years of using the internet now, since its beginning.
If, you wish to look at the scientific evidence in favour of circumcision as a prophylactic against various STD's, then I ask only one question. "What is proof"? In an advanced methodology of reasoning that is. i.e. double blind research etc.
My stance towards circumcising the foreskin is purely sexual.
Let me explain from the beginning.
I was raised un-circumcised. My father was circumcised. My mother is European and against it, but then (bless her soul) is utterly un-sexual.(Different topic)
My foreskin was fairly long, as a toddler of 3, my foreskin would stay over the head with a large amount of overhang, even when erect. My sister loved playing with it and she was forever pulling it back to see the exposed head which she loved! If I was erect and she had the skin pulled back, it would stay pulled back behind the head. I have a nice large head.
When I was 6 and started to go to school, I obviously knew about my foreskin and how it worked. During one of our swimming lessons, whilst changing, I noticed my best friend's foreskin was retracted, even though we were all flaccid. This fascinated me and I asked him how he manages to keep it prmanently retracted. He said, his mother had explained to him that he will see other boys with a willie that has got skin covering the head so that you cannot see it. She said that when he was a baby, she had asked the doctor to do an operation on him to remove the skin making the head head permanently exposed. I was smitten! I had to have that done for mine too. Not going to happen.......I was lectured in detail by my parents about Jewish boys who have their foreskins cut off as a tradition, because in olden days they lived in the desert and sand got under it and made it sore. Not the correct reason, although true enough..... Problem was, he wasn't Jewish! (my friend)
By the time I was 8, I had been suffering from balanitis quite a lot. Not pleasant. I did bath daily, and naturally played with my penis in the bath, with the skin retracted. I still got a lot of smegma build up by the next day before bathing time again. Although after the bath at night it was obviously clean for quite a while.
By the way, the smegma which looks like little white flakes building up under the foreskin smells just like after you've had a bath/shower as an adult and you then trim your toe-nails and you clean off the crud in the corners of your trimmed big toe nail. Not a nice smell and identical in smell to the unwashed foreskin. Obviously after you then washed your toes you don't smell anything strong anymore either. Just a remnant......
One day whilst massaging my groin next to my balls, my mom noticed me doing this quite a bit. I said it was sore, the glands in my groin, that is.
Well, she whisked me off to the doctor, who listened and said OK, up on the bench. Then he told me to pull down my pants, which I did. Noooo, the underpants too please! OK...... there I lay with my jewels exposed with Mom and Dad looking on. Then he took my penis and pushed the foreskin back. How I wish I could get an erection today as fast as I did that moment in time, and to add insult to injury, when you don't want one!
Anyway, he proceeded to show my parents the inflamed head and inner foreskin and asked how often this happened. A lot.
Well he proceeded to thoroughly clean it! Then said I can get dressed whilst he went to speak to my parents.
I heard rumbling chatting and every now and then the word circumcised came up. I remember my mom voicing her opposition in no uncertain way too!
I was prescribed a powder to put on (which felt nice!) and duly instructed to wash now twice a day, mornings and evenings. Which I didn't do, only evening baths....
When I got infections again, I would just put some more powder on for 2 or 3 days and bingo!
I still wanted to have my foreskin circumcised! But when the subject was broached with my parents (loathingly by them) I was told in no uncertain terms that you do not go around cutting off pieces of your body unnecessarily. Unless you're Jewish in which case it is OK.....
More to follow.......
This is NOT the dead horse........!!
I would like to hear from any other guys who had their circumcision as an adult/teen. I am keen to compare the various outcomes to mine.
I would also very much like to hear from any and all women who are pro-circumcision about their choice.
I do not wish to hear or read any of the anti-circ intactivist diatribe please?
I would like to hear from any other guys who had their circumcision as an adult/teen. I am keen to compare the various outcomes to mine.
I would also very much like to hear from any and all women who are pro-circumcision about their choice.
I do not wish to hear or read any of the anti-circ intactivist diatribe please?
