for those that "cant resist" might I suggest simply showing the other person/people your own black ring, and then make any decision about moving forward based on said person / peoples reaction to seeing your black ring

ok, guilty as charged. . .my apologies. I will sort myself out (no, I do not mean masturbate) . .

I have gone 7 days without porn / pics now . . . . I am starting to loose vision in my left nostril

 Challenge accepted ;)

nd I may even write about the experience . . .

Couch? Rack? . . yes please 

Challenge accepted 

Yes, I am well versed on googlelitis . . :grin:

I think that sums up what I was also trying to say 'not a text book definition" . . . . the same google search throws up a few other explanations (definitions) so once again it appears "choice" is raising its unpopular hand. . . 

mmmm? Excuse me . . . . 

Where is all this kink???? 

Waiting in great anticipation . . . 

I thought I would put a little effort in to try and "understand" things better . . . one of the interpretations that Google throws out when you search "what does open minded mean sexually" is as follows . .  .

A sexually open minded person can be bisexual, but a sexually open minded person may also be heterosexual or homosexual only. A sexually open minded person means they are willing to explore and experiment within the boundaries of what they deem as comfortable for them. . . . 

Just the same as Sexysam69 . . . I am also struggling to keep myself quiet. . . . 

Almost everyone is saying "I respect everyone's right to choice" . . . so then I must ask, why is everyone's right to choose being questioned and or challenged ???? 

mmmmmmm,

I think I should check if I have this thing you call "sex addiction" . . . . . . 

And if I do not, well then, I NEED to get me some  . . 

OK, OK, OK . . . seriously, I am in agreement with the "choose what you are" suggestion made by PIB . . . but there are those who need a little guidance when it cones to choosing . . . always the possibility of one "trying" to be a certain way. 

FOR EXAMPLE:

Some would say if you are involved in a mmf then you are gay, some would say you are bi, some would say you are a pervert . . . I would say, YES !!! 

PIB, penis presentation available in person anytime . . . and yes, happy to help with any bucket list item of yours

puts his hand up . . .

If you (pronounced anyone) expect others to "respect" and "comply" with your "preferences" as laid out in your profile . . . then where do you get off having anything to say about anyone else's "preferences" ? 

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He finished his term, and Obama was elected in...so he is not thought of anymore. ;)

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confident and nervous are also worlds apart.

as are views . . . .

Couples only 7% more than single females? Now there's a talking point . . . . .  

funny thing is, a number of the old forum regular's were expecting a forum revival after the departure of a certain lady from the East. But maybe the damage was already to extreme?

I am fully aware that I for one could contribute more, and yes, I actually want to.

I have such a big smile on my face

Wait, wait, wait a minute . . . " genital thingies " ????? Tell more pleeease. . , 

Now, I am almost tempted to "encourage" that pshycotic behavior. . . . ?

The forums have taken a huge knock in recent times. Various members have various opinions as to the reason for this. My opinion I will share via PM with you. 

It would be great to see the forum swing back into life. 

@PiB1, you are too kind ;)

Yes, nice to read something from your keyboard! 

The "R" was a typo, so when I found out I could change it, I jumped at the chance . . .   

By the way, greying pubes are . .  . . , :lickface:

Are my eyes playing tricks on me? PIB? 

You have actually answered your own "question" . . .you say that in your opinion (paste your words in here) . . . then in fairness, surely other people are allowed to have their opinion on the matter ? 

I almost concur completely with you Sir Redbruce. I myself have had numerous successful meets via this site, however, to date still not had the opportunity for a Dogging scenario.

And yes, I agree patience is the key.