Quote by LeeEC
I wish....
That men would make more effort...
Ok let me expand, I always thought that it was just a personality thing that we don't seem to talk the same "sex" language, don't get me wrong, we have a very active and good sex life, but I really marvel at the little incompatibilities...
And being on these sites has made me realise that it's not a me and my partner thing, it is, at the very least, a me and all guys thing, perhaps a women, men thing.
I mean I really do welcome any commentary. I am doing some research, looking for people to participate, and any interested parties can pm me, but I did think to myself, "I know a bunch of open-minded people who will be more than willing to weigh in on this thought!"
So here's the senario:
Most men would agree they would love to have sex everyday, even if it is with the same person. Most men would be delighted with the idea of having their wife do the nasty everyday, whenever they wanted...
So why, when presented with a woman who would quite happily do exactly that, do they find themselves slightly bored.
And stop making an effort?
I mean you can't want something with your whole being and when you get what you desire so greatly, yawn?! Or can you?
Ok scenario 2, linked to 1;
Ok so you know exactly what to do to get her interested.
Precisely. Step by step.
You know that it is a guaranteed score if you follow the recipe.
You know because she gave you the recipe.
You know because you've seen it work with your own eyes.
You enjoy sex more if she REALLY enjoys it right?
You know she will enjoy it properly if you get her really interested before you make suggestions.
It only takes 5 minutes, you can do it without pulling a muscle.
So I ask you with tears in my eyes, why the hell wouldn't you use the damn friggin recipe????
Scenario 3;
You are a guy, single or part of a swinging couple. You really want to swing.
Real swinging, with real woman, actual meeting and actual sex. You use SH (hypothetically of course)
You approach a couple. You know you are speaking to the female party
(you have figured it out by the mails or perhaps you are quite bright and can read the profile where it says as much)
You know that showing your dick to girls never got you laid in the past.
You know that it has always required money or charm.
Keeping her in your bed or getting her to come back; well that requires money or skills...
You know these women are swingers and don't want your money.
So for crying in a bucket, please tell me why, as your best approach technique, you would serve up a
tall order of dick, hold the charm & skill?
Help me out guys....
Why won't guys make an effort?
Maybe this is a two way street?! And the same could be asked of woman. This sort of senario/scene can be applied both ways, with alot of possibilities, 1 maybe because it worked in the past 2, Dont know better,3 the DILLIGAF situation, in the end it is much up to the person on how he sees himself, how he feels about his partner/partner to be and how he sees them ?
