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As iemand nou die waarheid praat dan is dit Joyrider, ek dink elke metgesel op die site moet dit lees en kan dan die rang orde vervang of iets nuuts by sit. Ek sal begin
9. Fantiseer
Quote by jack99
Most importantly for me, be able to hold an engaging and interesting conversation.
:laughabove:
Ok, who are you trying to impress, Jack?
Joyrider, I hope you don't mind a ladies response:
1. I've never had to tell my hubby what to do. With us, its been the opposite - even with my own body. In many ways, he knows my body and mind (sexual mind only :wink: ) better than I do.
2. Again, not for us. He prefers lots of hair on my head only. The rest of me should be smooth - and I'm glad he feels that way.
3. That one's a bit difficult - BUT very liberating - and drives me wild when I can - but is a complete turn off for one of my best friends.
4. Doesn't everybody? :wink:
5. We generally start before you....we just don't talk about it.
6. Really? Hubby often says the same. But I think you 2 may be the exception to the rule. Most men take your hand from everywhere else and push it Down There!
7. I think that's covered for most ladies here. I hope it is.
8. Not always easy.
Women are programmed from a young age to hold back. The one's who don't are branded "sluts, cheap, easy". I think that the difficulty for most of us comes in accepting that a slut in the bedroom is exactly what their man wants.
Enjoy the weekend everyone!
I'm so glad you responded with that, here I was thinking we were the odd ones out here...
Neither of us thought that list was completely accurate for us... we just thought we were strange... but apparently, as I suspected...
Everyone wants different things, and not all men are same.. and neither are all women.
Jack I think your item belongs on the woman's wish list because only a few discerning guys like yourself apparently require conversation of any sort at all.
Warming the Bed
Quote by LeeEC
I'm so glad you responded with that, here I was thinking we were the odd ones out here...
Neither of us thought that list was completely accurate for us... we just thought we were strange... but apparently, as I suspected...
Everyone wants different things, and not all men are same.. and neither are all women.
Jack I think your item belongs on the woman's wish list because only a few discerning guys like yourself apparently require conversation of any sort at all.
Conversation and mind to go along with it . As on of my friends fathers always said, you can only actively make love for so many hours a day, what do you do the rest of the time?
Really?
You know I think my problem its where I live. I'm becoming more certain of it actually, the more I converse on this forum.
My brain works in a certain way, which isn't well understood by people where I live. I regularly feel like I'm from another planet, and people here don't see anything wrong with pointing out how much I am not like them.
Sometimes its a blessing, like when I'm coaching, but sometimes it is a curse like when I'm trying to understand or be understood in my marriage.
I often feel like I'm standing on the outside of the social structure of my town. Like I can't understand the workings, the dynamics of this community, so I can't assimilate.
Its made me work real hard on the research behind my work of course, but its also lonely.
On the other hand, its like there are certain things that just completely make sense to me, I didn't have to learn them, I just know what its troubling a certain person, and I instinctively know how to solve a problem someone has.
But I cannot seem to blend with the soccer moms in the stands.
........ Its probably the leather corset, though, now that I think about it..
Quote by LeeEC
Really?
You know I think my problem its where I live. I'm becoming more certain of it actually, the more I converse on this forum.
My brain works in a certain way, which isn't well understood by people where I live. I regularly feel like I'm from another planet, and people here don't see anything wrong with pointing out how much I am not like them.
Sometimes its a blessing, like when I'm coaching, but sometimes it is a curse like when I'm trying to understand or be understood in my marriage.
I often feel like I'm standing on the outside of the social structure of my town. Like I can't understand the workings, the dynamics of this community, so I can't assimilate.
Its made me work real hard on the research behind my work of course, but its also lonely.
On the other hand, its like there are certain things that just completely make sense to me, I didn't have to learn them, I just know what its troubling a certain person, and I instinctively know how to solve a problem someone has.
But I cannot seem to blend with the soccer moms in the stands.
........ Its probably the leather corset, though, now that I think about it..
Why would you want to be assimilated? The Borg lost, remember?
Lee, you of all people should know that the worth of a person lies in their individual character - not in their group nature. I know almost nothing about you, yet from the little I've seen here its easy to see the value of your unique character. Moving to a town like your's from the city (correct me if my assumption is wrong), can be an unsettling paradigm shift. Its worse if the city was not in the Eastern Cape. A foreign colleague of mine often says the Eastern Cape is a different country from South Africa. After living here a few years, I'm inclined to believe him.
As for sometimes not being understood in marriage - that reminds me of an anecdote I once heard:
The Village Elder had just turned 105 and, as was tradition, the men in the village voted on a question to be put to him at the end of the ceremony. At the day's close, the men gathered in the great hall and the speaker stepped forward and asked, " Oh eldest among us. You have lived over a hundred years. Tell us, oh wise one, What do women want?"
The old man pulled at his grey beard, looked around the room, stared off into the distance, took a deep breath.....and sighed.
He answered, " For that question, my boys, you'll have to find a man much older than me."
We'll probably never fully understand you all the time, but that's a part of what makes things fun.
Btw, I doubt that you have enough "plastic" in you to assimilate there - luckily.
All the best.
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