Unicorns, when you are at a swinging event, BE HONEST. What I mean by this is, if you are or are not bisexual, let the couple/guy know this up front as to not irritate or cause trouble. Some women actually like to share their male partners with a straight woman, so take notes.
Unicorns, when you meet couples, be respectful of couples and their boundaries and since you are single and not bi, some ladies may be cautious of you. Just be sincere about your desires, and be sure to address any concerns that the couple may have with you. Again don't pretend to be bisexual if you are not just to have sex with a guy.
I know what you are thinking, 'Mike you said it's not hard to find a unicorn', yes I did. Okay for all the single guys out there, listen up. I recently went through a break up, yet I still find time to swing and play. Anyway you can find women at the mall, next to nail and hair salons and tanning salons. One time I met 3 women at a tanning salon in Fort Lauderdale. I was a customer, and several women work there between 21-28. I have been talking to them(small chat) throw in a few funny jokes here and there. I ask what they like and are in too?
One says she is a party girl, I am quick to mention 'ever been to a swinger party? She was curious and thought you had to be a couple. I explained no, we can show up together, and I explained that we did not have to have sex. Just as simple as that and we were at local swinger club in South Florida, I only got her number to pick her up that following Friday. She was nervous but excited, we met a few couples, and then met a Hot wife. This Hot wife was cuckolding her husband, this was new for my date so we went into a room. Me and the wife did our thing while the husband and my date watched. After the hour long session, I took my date and we got something to eat, she was holding my hand the whole time and blushing. She said she wanted to head home and that she was tired. I thought 'wow I scarred this girl so I better take her home'. We started going down the road, and she said 'I was shocked what I saw'. I quickly said sorry I did not mean to offend you'. She started holding my hand going down the road and said' I loved it'. She said 'I wanted to join but you were with the other woman'. She unzipped my pants and you can guess what she started doing the whole way home. I guess you can say 'we headed home'
Since then I have taken her out, and two of her friends from work. Yes each of them, and I took each of them to the swinger club. You just have to be upfront and honest. Single guys, I know you get horny, but often times you trade that in for your weakness of 'lets go to dinner'. Look, only ask a woman out to dinner that you are serious about. Do not ever screw over a woman. EVER ! If you want to get laid, be upfront and honest, there are women out there that think like you do, trust me. Be open, honest and you will see what I mean. Women look for booty calls just like men. In closing, there is room for single men and women in the lifestyle, but be HONEST and RESPECTFUL.
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