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Chappie
2 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Male, 60
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 57
0 km · Meyerton

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Thanks admin for removing the posts that could result in the site being closed down.

Like PoohC we blocked those asking to meet now.

Dirty talk, dirty photos, chit chat is one thing.

Tying to meet face to face is another, do not need them now or in the future. 

Quote by nerowp
Nothing beter to watch a monster cock in wifes pussy while l lick her clit big turnon for me

 Wife enjoys cocks that are uncomfortably large.

I enjoy watching her get so turned on that she begs for it as hard and as deep as possible. 

Then seeing her slightly tender the next day.

We have made a few contacts.

But most never walk their talk. 

Well as the Mr of a couple.

Mrs enjoys large to extra large cocks.

We start off playing, then sit back and watch her totally let go and enjoy herself.

At times with consent she has played with our regular playmate.

It's about trust and being in tune with each other.

Quote by Annabel
@ Chappie good question you have to choose your playmates carefully 

 We do.

But no condom, no play.

Quote by Slowvelder69
Great words @Annabel” keep your circle small and ask for once off testing

 And how do you know how small or large the others circle is?

And don't send a message.... ek is lus on my pi## in jou vrous se p### in te druk... then wonder why you do not receive a reply.

Just because people play does not mean they crude, common and sluts.

I enjoy watching my Mrs get serviced by large to large plus size cocks.

She enjoys being watched while being serviced.

Unfortunately most enquiries never walk their talk or dont measure up.

Quote by Alfa6979
LIKE pussinboots vision... Have only done DP in a 3 sum with 2 ladies.. And a strapon..Stil hoping there are  woman out there who actually enjoy DP

 Yes there are.

My Mrs does, but only with large cocks.

Sadly few qualify in that department. 

Quote by HubblyBubbly
Glad to see there are others like me still wanting to experience a successful DP.  My first and only experience was years ago and like PoohC mentioned, STAY SOFT was the name of the game.  Despite all efforts to keep the invited guest hard, every time he engaged and felt the other man penis he got soft.  I eventually gave up with frustration and have never attempted it again.  Although it is still one of my fantasies high on my bucket list. 

 DP is still my Mrs ultimate, but only with large sized penises. 

But the go soft thing is a problem we encountered. 

I spectate in such encounters.

 

Well we ignore winks, often sent by people who have not read our profile which clearly indicates our preferences. 

And we get winks from not even close to what we looking for. We try to answer messages, but  when you point this out often the sarcasm flows.

Admit to having sent a few mistake winks while scrolling on the phone... and touching screen in the wrong spot.

My wife's pierced nipples.

At times she in public allows her piercings to show slightly through her top.

Watching people look at them is a huge turn on.

We a open minded couple, I enjoy a bloke with large equipment servicing me, enjoy both giving and receiving oral.

My Mrs is totally turned on watching to the point she actually drips...... and then joins in with us, eventually I sit back and watch her fuck the living daylights out of the bloke allowing use of 3 holes...........

We fortunate in mutually enjoying each others pleasures, but sadly this site has many time wasters and pretenders which is annoying.

In your settings you can select who can contact you M, F or CPL, I assume it blocks the ones you do not want contact with, which is most likely why so many people think they blocked, where it is that gender is blocked, if you want only cpls then you click on CPL which wont allow either a M or F to contact you.

Well that is one of the reasons we have tended to avoid clubs for a very long time.... is it a swingers club or a disco club that allows swinging.

This may have changed but we often too cautious to go find out.

When we did a while ago we never got past the immature bloke at reception and his attitude. 

Why do people get blocked, often for stupid replies............. " Hi I saw your advert and think we pretty well matched and can blah blah blah, oh only thing is I am nota bi male and do not partake in any bi activities................."

The above was a reply to a bi male advert we posted yesterday.

Well we are a couple who enjoys bi male action.

Most wanting to join us profiles state they straight.


Quote by 2some4fun
Our profile specifically says no winks and no friend requests unless we have met. Any person or persons that didn't even bother reading the opening line of our profile and sends us a wink or a friend request - gets blocked. If they cant be bothered to read...  how much are they going to suck in bed? I mean the wink feature is just such a confirmation at how lazy you are. Or that you are so desperate to cast as many nets as broadly and as quickly as possible. Blacklist sitting at over 500 and journey. Our rules. 

 Our profile is very accurate as to what we looking for.

Its obvious many either have not read it or believe they have a right to interact with you as those who are not what's asked for we send a polite no thanks.

Then they start indirectly insisting on meeting, continuing to ask after having been politely declined which then brings the block option into play.

Then you have the crude replies, just because we play does not make us cheap and nasty, a first reply that's extremely rude and crude says that is what you are, disrespectful and we block rubbish like that in an instant.


Quote by Slowvelder69
@Chappie you should report him to the Mods so that he gets blocked, pity we cannot name and shame here.

 On giving it some thought the big question would be was the Facebook photo genuine?  We never actually met.

We have written it off to a life lesson.

Mrs desperately wants it with a twist of large cocks, preferably bi as well.

So far success rate has been zilch.

Well last year a bloke conned us, cost us both money and time, yes we were trusting and stupid.

Person disappeared off the face of the earth.

So this afternoon I am bored and browsing here, the same person using the same Facebook photo he used then.

Ironic how small the world is.

Yes friends of our are on the group.

Not sure if they know we are but we have a rule of not playing with friends as we prefer NSA,  plus why risk a friendship. 

Quote by Farsin
Our view is simple regarding blocking. 
We are more than happy to chat to anyone at anytime. When we are engaging with those whom become aggressive and pushy the block button comes into play. We chat to those whom are not what we are looking for, because............ as time goes on our tastes and wants evolve. But when a line is crossed then we dont want to be harassed by people whom clearly refuse to accept our wants and likes. 
It quite simple (guys, girls or couples), READ the profile and odds of blocking decreases. 
Secondly, we are continuously messaged, in very rude, crude and vulgar ways, hence blocking. 
PS............ especially to the single guys (with or without consent), sending a "friend request" when you have never messaged, chatted or engaged is just lazy. This is not a popularity contest. 

 Yes the automated friend request without any form of introduction is generally ignored, if they get pushy block is used.

Our profile clearly states what we require as far as playmates go namely bi top males as Mrs gets turned on watching a well equipped bloke do me.

What can be simpler to understand. 

But we still get straight blokes replying and trying to insist they actually what we need.

That's when the block button comes into play.

But before we resort to blocking we explain why we not interested.

If they continue we block them.

Or all the stolen off the internet photos presented as if they belong to the profile.

Seems like this is becoming more common or tolerated? 

As for replies, unfortunately some males have missed the plot with the level of how crude they reply.


We went to poison after booking.

Never got past the front desk as Mrs does not take well to rude trying to be cool behavoir the youngster behind the week had.

We the same with a twist.

Do not see ourselves as a cuckold couple.

But I enjoy watching her getting it from a bloke.

And she enjoys watching me get it from the same person.

But she is only interested in large to extra large equipped blokes.

So far we not into couples at all, but never say never.

Life is what you make of it.



Well we a couple similar to Seeman except we looking for single bi top males clearly stating our requirements regards cock size, large to extra large.

Most bloke who reply are according to their profile straight and dont measureup.

Then you get a minus any form of introduction  "send your number so we can fuck tonight", or " I want to fuck and abuse you both".

We just a normal decent next door couple who enjoys kinky sex.

Rude, crude, abusive, demanding, uncultured messages get ignored as do the many bullshitters here.

Also we try reply to all mails including those we decline.

Often this opens a debate on why not, to the point of being agro...


Mrs part of us would enjoy under the right circumstances watching a bloke stroke.