For us it's a reality not a fantasy.
Mr enjoys male to male play.
Mrs gets totally turned on watching it, insisting that the blokes equipment is large so she can enjoy it.
Then Mr watches her enjoy the bloke as well.
Mr joins them and all holes are used.
We have been fortunate to meet a few genuine blokes, unfortunately we have had enough time wasters.
But its something we luckily both enjoy.
Personally we dont care about your marriage status as long as you decent, clean, hygienic, respectful as all that we interested in is our requirements and preferences in our play sessions.
Besides the person will just say they divorced, same situation with bi blokes, most who reply to our adverts profiles say they are straight.
Most blokes loose their chance in their first crude message.
Quote by haveusbc
talk about trying to defend the indefenceable(sic)....
i find strange that people even need to debate the issue...no condom no play...its not even up for debate with us...
but we all have different viewpoints...but we cant have our own facts lol
Same here, no glove = no love.
But suspect a few who have replied to our adverts, which is not run of the norm type of play as not everyone is into what we do, so when the playtime draws near they chickened out, so they pull the no condom play thing as a way to save face.
Well yes each to his own, us as a couple will not play with those who dont use condoms, as you say each to his own, screening is only as safe as the last person they slept with and the window period for antibody build up to indicate a positive read, in that window period you can unknowingly infect anyone you have sexual conduct with.
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We do not play with condoms. We believe condoms provide people with an absolute false sense of security! If a lady gives a gent a BJ or a gent muff's a lady, their bodily fluids mix! So what is the purpose of using a condom then? In this lifestyle, it is EXTREMELY dangerous to have a false sense of security.
Well somehow the greater majority of HIV researchers tend to disagree with your way of seeing things, but then you are welcome to your opinion and manner of playing.
Quote by haveusbc
not really wanting to tell people what to do...but you are putting your selves at high risk if you are having sex with strangers and even with people you know with out a condom...we would also prefer not to use condoms....but not even going to think about doing that....
people have this idea that it cant happen to them....
We fully agree which is why we a condom using couple, but have had a few trying to convince us different, so just seeing what is opinion on the subject.
Well honestly we don't want to play with condoms.
Mrs loves feeling cum, so she lets the bloke after taking the condom off finish on her boobs or over her back etc, never inside but on top.....lol.
So we use them as the risks are too high without.
Rather play safe than regret not having done so.
Quite a few blokes who do not measure up to our advertised requirements for male member size get snotty and sarcastic, as if that will help their case, its what we like and want, so why should we change this, the result is Mrs leaves the checking of replies to me, but she enjoys the other parts of the site. Also learnt to have a dedicated pay as you go number for this site......... so you dont get hassled late at night. We wait a while before making contact as the repeat message types insisting is also not for us as we not interested in a friendship outside the play room.
Another interesting fact is many of the blokes answering our bi male adverts profiles dont even mention they may be bi or open to it.
Depends on what you looking for, Mrs and I both like large cocks, she gets turned on watching up close how it goes in me, plus plays with it afterwards so size is the most important aspect for us, to see what you packing you need to see a photo, so yes we enjoy looking at cock pics first before considering the rest, regardless of how stunning the person looks may be, if he has not got a large one we will pass.
Our thing is my wife likes watching bi men do me, then has them do her. But she only enjoys extra large equipped men who are few and far between. But if a bloke is extremely huge she is willing to have him to herself while I watch, but he must be painfully large as she puts it.
We comfortable in this time out fun but battle to find genuine male play mates.
We wonder if most people actually bother to read before replying, our profile plus adverts are painfully accurate as to what we looking for, yet 95% of applicants are not even close. Wonder if it goes for others as well? And some get upset when you point out they dont fit, excuse the pun as to what we looking for, or see a polite reply as a offer to enter a debate that maybe we can change our minds to what turns us on. But still we try reply to all who send us messages.
