Quote by Karoocpl
Are we the elitist who think swinging should be sexy suave and classy or is it just a case of no one will fuck me so swingers are easy ...FFS  ????when last did u c a touch of class here? tell us plz that there are some folks that hold this as special instead of no hopers looking for a cheap prostitute?

 Been thinking about what you said.... this morning saw a comment " we live the lifestyle". 

Gave it some thought,  how many actually live a swinging life style?

We don't, to us its a hobby and suspect the sane for many.

A lifestyle is say converting to being vegan, its a total lifestyle type, a dedicated  lifestyle.

Maybe you blokes live it as a lifestyle,  think most don't as to them and us its an occasional or regular indulgence not a lifestyle.

We still battle finding blokes into this who measure up, such is life I suppose.

Another interesting one is those who dont complete the ethnicity part of their profiles, wonder why? 

As well as those who do not fill in the finer details on their person details. 

We have children so we play daytime preferably mornings only.

Quote by Karoocpl
u know what people do not read comprehensibly anymore so much that we said was not understood some jumped to conclusions...hey have at it ...if u want to class all fornication as swinging have at it!..just don't include us ! 
over and out!

 When did we include you in the definition? 

You included everyone by posting the original comments. 

Quote by Karoocpl
oh FFS r u serious?

 Why?

Is your opinion the only one allowed?

Quote by Chappie
Well Cummyfun and ourselves once tried to arrange 3 blokes for my better half.
Only their equipment must be large or large plus.
Turned out to be a total waste of time regards the mini  gang bang, but Cummy and ourselves still had a great time.

 Again an identical situation.

Arranged a fun get together, all is set and ready, then get a message oh sorry I don't use condoms..... well if you glanced at our profile we are fairly clear on that.

In todays STD world we would never go bareback. 

So back to the drawing board.

:wave::rotflmao:

Quote by Neuralman
@PoohC "the right guys together." - you see the problem, right ? Any guy with so little agency as to relegate himself to guy #3 in a gangbang is a loser from the start...IMHO

 And any guy saying he sees #3 as a looser has an ego issue .....

My Mrs enjoys watching blokes wank, blokes wanking each other, blokes blowing each other as well as blokes fucking each other.

Also my wife ultimate fantasy.

She has been with multiple men at the same time, enjoys rough sex,  but never achieved a DP more on the mens part as she willingly tried more than once.

But before we get tons of volunteers,  she only plays with larger sized cocks.

So if you above average.....thanks. 

Quote by fadnad
So me and wifey enjoy the strip club lollipop was very nice but it's closed at the moment the other strip club that's nice an friendly is the grand the ladies like couples and the women will give the Mrs alot of attention and you might get lucky with one of the strippers we did plus the is always other couples at the club 

 Thanks. 

Where is The Grand located?

We sit with the same issue, would as a cpl like to go to a strip club, but heard so much negatives we are hesitant.

Sexplicid in Midrand is a decent quality toy shop.

Caters for straight and gay scene.

The Rothdene Danie McClean Park seems to be regularly mentioned.

Mr here.

Have regular wanked while watching your videos.

My Mrs totally enjoys it, gets seriously turned on to a point she once stood watching legs astride  dripping on the floor while watching male to male sex, her only rule is their equipment must be large or large plus.

Then rewards me by allowing the blokes to use and abuse her while I watch and assist.

Beth , we would so love to see both of them inside you.

Its also my wifes ambition to get this right..

If we read how someone brags about bareback we simply block them to eliminate a later by chance encounter. 

Its either safe sex or no sex.

Mrs enjoys our games with total enthusiasm, watches me getting a service from another man then opens all her holes to him to use to cure her by then horny state.

Have actually watched her standing legs wide dripping while watching the starters.

Well we a M/F couple who enjoy 3somes, moresomes with bi men, preferably large cocks.

Mrs enjoys watching them do Mr.

Then joins in all holes available. 

Ok so we clearly bi male play oriented. 

Strange thing is 75% responding to our adverts profiles state they straight.

Just a bit of interesting  useless information.

Poohc where we differ is we want 3 or 4 blokes.

With that number if two cancel or do not pitch it affects ignore than if 20 out of 100.

But let's see what the future brings.

Well Cummyfun and ourselves once tried to arrange 3 blokes for my better half.

Only their equipment must be large or large plus.

Turned out to be a total waste of time regards the mini  gang bang, but Cummy and ourselves still had a great time.

Quote by Kweid40
How far are you willing to travel if you have selected it? 

 Depends on what's on offer...

Lol, pity you in Hillcrest

Mrs still keen but performers are few.

But hope it will happen after lockdown.

well maybe you would like my Mrs meduim large boobs.

Used to breast feed so nice developed nipples with multi piercings. 

Loves them to be handled hard.

Quote by sommernetons
Place like sSouth Korea almost on zero daily infections

 If one can believe statistics. 

Quote by hanky123
Obviously your relationship was not that healthy, to blame others for your problems won't help, swinging is about having fun, nothing more, nothing less.

 Was wondering if that was how it was aimed at us?

Honestly swinging is for couples minus issues in healthy trusting relationships. 

Not a tool to try repair a damaged relationship as that generally ends in tears.