Do only what you are comfortable with, it is YOUR body. Normally when we meet someone, one of the first questions I ask is "what is your fantasy?", we know what we want, and to see someone like yourself exploring and enjoying yourself is one of our top priorities. Most importantly...have shitloads of fun!
I have to agree with Irish...especially on the chat room, initially it can be dark in there but say hello at least, and as people warm up to you your chances improve immediately. This site has a lot to offer, but some treat it as a sex shop...and almost always fail.
Ai tog...we are meeting a girl in a weeks time. We were lucky to catch her in time. She deleted her profile two days later due to the disgusting messages and approaches of people on the site. Just be nice to them, messages like "do you wanna f%&k" does not do well with women.
Maybe let her start chatting to some women on here, many women are shy, especially if they had kiddies. Nobody's perfect...
If you play nice, you'll find girls that's willing to join couples. We have been with 6 already and working on no's 7,8 and 9. Six we met on SH, and 3 elsewhere...
I have met my best friend, buddy, and partner in "crime" :twisted: , on SH. I have also learned that we all have fears, insecurities and are generally normal people. SH has really turned my life upside down and inside out, but eventually gave me a future I would have never even thought possible. I sometimes feel like I am 18 again. We have met a few good friends, and live our lives to the fullest...no boundaries. We have had a 99% success rate (sorry Stamina, I really feel for you) and we've heard the words "WOW" almost every time. Great site, and a lifestyle I would recommend for anyone!
I feel your frustration, but in the year since we started swinging we just recently had our 6th ffm, we generally don't push, and prefer making friends. I barely ever talk to the ladies myself and let lovie do the chatting. Nobody's perfect, so maybe you should start accepting that there are mostly "normal" ladies on here, which might have had a kiddie or two, maybe a few extra kilos or a bit older than what you'd expect. I always say, I'm not here looking for a wife....i have one! So I love the variety this lifestyle offers! The easiest would probably be to arrange ffm with another couple. And when you do find that fhm model, please send her our way, I'd love to add to my collection.
Ai tog...
Like Stamina said...it's a lotto, sometimes Mrs will jump your bones just cause she feels like it, but mostly you'd have to suck up 10X more than me and offer as per our profile, even then she might only give u a pinkie to suck on!
Good one...lol
Well for myself a fair 6in, I have never had a complaint...it also differs depending on how exited I am. After a good swing I can feel me hitting Mrs right at the back. But on cam the bloody thing tends to wanna grow inwards! I can imagine that if a Long John Silver knows how to communicate it could probably lead to some good experience for a lady. The only bruising I have heard of this far was actually a guy way shorter than me, then again I think he was cross-rabbit, lol! But it does explain why my first wife left me, cause I could use most of my forearm in there. I did see one the other day that was prob about 4in, but curved towards belly, in my opinion if I was a lady, I'd like to try that one to pleasure g-spot.
My opinion, know how to use it, be a gentleman and learn to talk to the lucky lady to be! But if a lady finds me unsatisfying, my hand and forearm might help!
Some interesting reading...
I have to agree with KC it does not taste the same, with wifey only of course I have tasted every part of all parts. Urine tastes looks and smells like wee, no different than my own. Squirting tastes looks and smells like squirting definitely a difference! No wonder I'm so good looking...must be all the creatine! USN is going to be very disappointed!
As for volunteers you can sign us up Lee, anything in the name of good fun!
Totally agree with that. That is the reason why we don't play with couples. No offence to men who take time to pleasure but that is generally not the case. Most men do the wham bam fuck off mam...which is quite offensive.
which is why most single females on this site don't bother meeting. Then there is the fact that they are scared because face it, the world is full of pshyco's. If I was single there would be no chance of me just meeting any males or maybe couples on here. Its risky... Just my thoughts...
Reasonable opinion both sides I guess, there are some asses that would probably think it is okay to grab Mrs boob whenever they see a sticker, but normal laws still apply. But for some it would probably be nice to spot a fellow swinger and smile. It was quite interesting when we went to pick n pay funny enough while back, and a certain couple passed us at the door, we watched them on main room cam the night before. Me and mrs just smiled at them and they had no clue why , dangerous but also fun in a way as well...
I normally focus on the tummy muscles when giving oral, usually followed by me head being squashed or pushed away afterwards...lol. Otherwise on top I'd say when those knuckles go white as she grabs the blankets or on a good day grab the pillow to keep her from waking neighbors. And of course digging her nails into me buttocks or back...close enough?
