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Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo. People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try: -Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple. - soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple. -Get with a black guy. -get with a real Asian guy(not indian) -Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke. -Have a mmf. -Join in on group sex or orgy -My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people) -watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner, -Oh and find a partner lol These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again? **if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intention.
Nice topic Kitty. I would like to experience Dp. Top of my wishlist for 2015. Attend a swingers party 2nd. Find a playmate to enjoy these activities with nr 3. Would like a regular playmate that's fun and discreet and don't forget adventourist. I would love to go to a nudist resort.
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Nice topic Kitty. I would like to experience Dp. Top of my wishlist for 2015. Attend a swingers party 2nd. Find a playmate to enjoy these activities with nr 3. Would like a regular playmate that's fun and discreet and don't forget adventourist. I would love to go to a nudist resort.

Well if you make ur way to jhb, I could make number 2 reality.
I'm still looking for a partner, that would be nice. I still want to attend a party one day, I'm just nervous about the whole thing and were I would fit in. Lastly I want to play with someone from another race, I haven't decided yet though. The rest stays on my personal list for now.
Hey Kitty, When you've got the partner, and you're ready to be watched, you know who to call!! wink
Threesome with twin ladies 1 on 1 with an indian lady 1 on 1 with an asian lady giving anal to an 'open' lady repeat the mmf experience Bondage with a willing female partner use a toy with a lady Already got one out of the way, sex with a pregnant lady, yippy
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Hey Kitty,
When you've got the partner, and you're ready to be watched, you know who to call!! wink

Working on it Bruce lol
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Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo.
People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try:
-Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple.
- soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple.
-Get with a black guy.
-get with a real Asian guy(not indian)
-Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke.
-Have a mmf.
-Join in on group sex or orgy
-My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people)
-watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner,
-Oh and find a partner lol
These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again?
**if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intentional.

now where must a find a fence hmmmm??????????????? we not on the farm here wink
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Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo.
People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try:
-Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple.
- soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple.
-Get with a black guy.
-get with a real Asian guy(not indian)
-Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke.
-Have a mmf.
-Join in on group sex or orgy
-My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people)
-watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner,
-Oh and find a partner lol
These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again?
**if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intentional.

now where must a find a fence hmmmm??????????????? we not on the farm here wink
Er I'm very confused-what do you mean?
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Not to sure if something like this has been posted but anyhoo.
People get misled, thinking because I organise adult events that I have done and seen it all. I often get messages from couples and singles requesting that I "show them the ropes"- they assume I am experienced. Well the complete opposite is true. I am very inexperienced lol but I do have a lot I would like to try:
-Same room sex with me and my partner(need one first) and a couple.
- soft or full swap with me and my partner and a couple.
-Get with a black guy.
-get with a real Asian guy(not indian)
-Attempt to get with another white guy-first time was a fluke.
-Have a mmf.
-Join in on group sex or orgy
-My partner and I being watched(preferably by a group of people)
-watch a sensual gang bang all this with a partner,
-Oh and find a partner lol
These are a few of mine, what are yours? Or what do you wish you could do again?
**if I have offended anyone I apologise was not my intentional.

now where must a find a fence hmmmm??????????????? we not on the farm here wink
Er I'm very confused-what do you mean?
a fence offence.............
a fence offence.............
I'm still confused, what fence? What farm? I don't get it, im I the only one??
I do not see how your post could have offended anyone in anyway Sofistikitty? Maybe it was something you wrote before you "edited" it. But Anyway, people take things strangely sometimes. I myself have done 95% of my own bucketlist, the other 5% I will not speak of publicly. wink There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways.
I'm rather chuffed that we're already knocking 'em off the list! One office desk shag, one creampie, one threesome booked for Friday smile We're crossing them off faster than we're adding them..
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I do not see how your post could have offended anyone in anyway Sofistikitty? Maybe it was something you wrote before you "edited" it.
But Anyway, people take things strangely sometimes.
I myself have done 95% of my own bucketlist, the other 5% I will not speak of publicly. wink There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways.

I meant the race thing.
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I meant the race thing.

Again, I do not see how your post could have offended anyone. Your choices are exactly that, your choices and people should rather concern themselves with their own business.
word play smile anyway you wernt offending anyone, those that feel offended should just go hang on a fence
Or sit on a fencepost lol
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I'm rather chuffed that we're already knocking 'em off the list!
One office desk shag, one creampie, one threesome booked for Friday smile
We're crossing them off faster than we're adding them..

Sounds like someone is having fun ;)
Poor office desk will never be able to look you in the face again.
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Sounds like someone is having fun ;)
Poor office desk will never be able to look you in the face again.

Quite smile
My bucket list: 1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further. 2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female. 3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!
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My bucket list:
1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further.
2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female.
3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!

Just a thought young Stamina . . . .
the more you vent "publicly" the more people may just think . . . . . . . . . .
ok, I'll drop it. But I think you now have a little food for thought.
Quote by SDMR
My bucket list:
1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further.
2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female.
3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!

Just a thought young Stamina . . . .
the more you vent "publicly" the more people may just think . . . . . . . . . .
ok, I'll drop it. But I think you now have a little food for thought.
Don't want food for thought... Want a threesome!! lol
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My bucket list:
1. Physically meet a female face to face at a coffee shop that is really interested in joining a couple... Even if she does not take it further.
2. Have an actual threesome with my girl and another female.
3. Die of shock and surprise that there really was a single female serious about meeting on this site!

We have met and played with from this site, we have even played with women that we met randomly on facebook, no sexual overtones to start with, one even put us onto a friend of hers when she got married............
Nice topic wink I would like to be the +1 in a couple's 3some. The idea of cuckolding is a huge turnon for me and I would love to pleasure the lady while the man watches. I suppose my bucket list is not exactly impressive, guess it shows how much of a noob I am.
Difficult one....maybe find a submissive for liefie to have fun with... lol

If DVP is on your list, it IS everything it's cracked up to be. Puns aside.

Excuse me quickly while I consult with my good friend Google . . . . 

and wasnt it just so obvious what the V stood for . . . . .  oooops

Delivery versus payment?

you jest? I seriously had a blank moment for a while. 

BUT, delivery versus PERFORMANCE?