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14 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 50
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
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Curiouscliff :
Common sense and military intelligence are about on par, in quality of oxymoron.
Thus, the concept that common and sense can exist in the form a complete and lucid concept is a crock of .....................
which leads to the conclusion that;
the term itself is symbiotic and this, in turn, leads to further conclusion that;
individually the words are parasitic 
Now that I have confused the shit out of myself I shall retire to bed
Quote by lizaan
hi
yes that is the case. most guys on here are just looking for a quick shag, and if you offer it to them, they become all jittery and back down. we are still waiting for a guy who said he is on his way. sad truth is, this site caters for all people whose got an email address, no real way to tell you that a profile is real. only the member verification option and the vouching option, but that doesn't mean if you have a vouch, that you are the real deal.
couples do this as well. they contact you, they set up the meet, and then you never hear from them again after they didn't pitch.
Easy enough to solve. if they don't meet your minimum criteria, don't even reply, if they do, you chat a bit in here, if there is a bit of spark, go on cam so you can see who they are and they can see who you are (on cam, dressed, normal blah blah), then you set up a meet, make a date of it for the two of you so that if the one you are meant to meet doesn't pitch you still have a good time.
If at any time you have any misgivings about them, you don't progress at all, and you don't owe them an explanation.
I totally agree - this new Forum layout has a "clumsy" feel to it, with the endless scrolling just to get to anything below, which one could so easily see / access before!! Now that I have learnt to see the "highlighed" titles, it is a bit easier, but still not as user-friendly as it was previously (mostly due to all the "stickies")! (but then again, I am also older and change-resisitant - but I really don't believe this was a change for the better....)
The huge font size makes it a tad uncomfortable to see what is highlighted, especially while scrolling. Smaller and closer highlighted items are easier to see when fast scrolling as you have a clear change in hue
I know I'm getting older, but I'm far from blind. Having to scroll forever to get anywhere on the forum is to much hassle. The line item in smaller typeset where you could see a whole page of topics on a single screen was pleasant and quick. With this layout it takes 7 motions to do what you did in one previously, just getting through the stickies is more than one screen.........
Why not go back two versions. Is it my imagination but there was a substantial drop off in participation with the previous change and with this one there is a further drop?
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We encourage people to report negative comments like that as its unacceptable, if someone makes a comment like that let us know, we will then have a word with them and in some cases take further action.
We encourage people to be themselves
big, small, portly etc. The person that ridiculed your size is in all likelyhood a lurker who does not actually get any experience :)Generally speaking a large brain is a good idea as is a large vocabulary........... then you do not end up with the embarrassing situation of her telling him to put his thing in her thing and doing something with it when trying to tell him that he should put his key into her car's ignition and turning it clockwise for 1/8 th rotation in order to start her car.
Someone once said that the cure for all ailments in the removal of the head. They failed to add that the reason for it being a cure is that you are to stupid to realize that you have an ailment :)
Quote by Mike_
There are a number of fakes on the site, and for that reason you should spend the time getting to know people and trying to sort the genuine from the fake. It took us 3 months before we had our first meeting and in five years have only had one no show.
You have been on site for ten days and claim to have set up 54 meetings, seems you rushing things a little. This is the internet, you have to search for the diamonds, most fakes will show their colors soon enough.
Hear hear, there are many fish in this sea, spend time on the ones that are a match and at the very first sign or feeling pass by the others.
In twelve years maybe 2 no shows and 3/4 that we have not gotten along with, but that is only due to stringent quality control
Quote by The_Tanners
Hopefully the nearly divorced is the real thing, friend of mine did in fact wait nearly 14months for all the paperwork to be done and by then his ex had moved in with her new partner. So in that sense yes I except the 'almost divorced' but as for simply thinking you can cheat and get away with it...not cool.
after asking quite a number of almost single/divorced guys that approaches us we don't even bother, the general answer was 'i'm planning to tell her but haven't found the right moment yet', we have even been asked to recommend a divorce lawyer...........
your friends' situation would count as separated/single, something we have not come across
Quote by Mike_Pta
Here is were all the single men bitch slap me so hard I forget how to count to 3, but that is a really well written post. Very true and thought provoking.
Hmmmm would say that all the single men should actually be begging and groveling at your feet, wishing and hoping that you would sometime let slip to them how to be a single guy that gets laid on a swinging site
;)
a few gems of uselessness
"any anyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyanyan"
"Unsure for now"
my favorite "Just looking for a quick hookup no strings attached" with a profile that says that it is a he and 21, not even a location...................
so our friend that caused this thread to start should be encouraged............
Quote by Adonis
Sit and wonder, looking at this add of a 25 year old male, what can his success rate be to get laid for what he asked for. My own opinion would be that nobody would respond to a add like that, we can be total wrong. Only a question.
"i jus want to fuck someone. wouldn't mind a CD. possibly a couple"
Not to be funny and thus on a serious note. I'd rate his chances of getting laid very highly, probably in the top 5% or so of single males for the simple reason that his profile and his add stands out from most of the rest. This being said by ''us" who actually enjoy playing with single men thus quite qualified to answer the question
One thing about it though, he is being mocked for trying, but the bulk of single males don''t go beyond ticking the bare minimum in of boxes, personally i think he should be given a medal and helped along. The fact that i strongly suspect that his profile is a gag is beside the point.
