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Okey I get what almost divorced could mean...You have been living in separate houses for a year give or take and are only waiting for the final paperwork from the courts...Ya? But what the heck does "Almost Single" count for...?
Ha ha......makes me rather think off *If she/he catches me,doing what I like doing on here, *I* will most certainly be divorced.* thus, *almost divorced* time is the factor....if ever.... But then, I also know a few ladies and men who is in the process of a REAL divorce, thus also *nearly divorced*
Hopefully the nearly divorced is the real thing, friend of mine did in fact wait nearly 14months for all the paperwork to be done and by then his ex had moved in with her new partner. So in that sense yes I except the 'almost divorced' but as for simply thinking you can cheat and get away with it...not cool.
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Hopefully the nearly divorced is the real thing, friend of mine did in fact wait nearly 14months for all the paperwork to be done and by then his ex had moved in with her new partner. So in that sense yes I except the 'almost divorced' but as for simply thinking you can cheat and get away with it...not cool.

after asking quite a number of almost single/divorced guys that approaches us we don't even bother, the general answer was 'i'm planning to tell her but haven't found the right moment yet', we have even been asked to recommend a divorce lawyer...........
your friends' situation would count as separated/single, something we have not come across
There is such a lot of bull shitters around
I have been in the situation of "almost divorced" After years of therapy, with intimacy at most 4 times in 5 years, I set the ultimatum - lets practice regularly (at least once a daysmile - joke, joke!) or allow each other the freedom to explore. It ended up with her going on dates while I was taking care of the kids. Sooo, we decided to move forward with the divorce that I proposed. At that point in my life, I joined as "almost divorced" and was completely shunned except for one or two enlightened individuals at least willing to share and guide. If I were to do it over, I would have stayed married and cheated or visited prostitutes. At least I would have had daily contact with my young children - now I can only fly down once or twice a month to see them for a day at most. The point that I am trying to make is simple. Don't judge prematurely - as with everything in life, it is always more complex than outward appearance.