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newbie6576
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 59
Bisexual White/Caucasian Female, 48
0 km · Gauteng
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newbie6576
Warming the Bed
Quote by 2ForFun
If people that are real contact you... and you reply with not interested without even chatting .....?
thats what happened to us....
Then its time to go

But at least it is an honest answer. If people are not interested in you/your profile is it a decent form of reply. We wish that people at least would answer with "Not interested".
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newbie6576
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Quote by After_shock
Tell them to put their money where their mouth is.
I would gladly pay a fee to be a serious member of this site, would you?

YES!!! 100%
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newbie6576
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After almost 2.5 years on the site here we have seen a lot couples coming and going. I don't know if it is right to say that the site has grown in a fantasy site and not in a swinger site. It is not anymore the big family with the same interest, more like a train station with people passing by. The chat became a clique from fantasy seeker (at least in the day time) what can not even greet back when some one says hello. A personal message on a profile is usually ignored or answered with a friend request. We are missing the times when people actually made dates in the chat and sorted out the fakes and school kids without the help of any mods. Where do we go with the site? Where are the genuine couple? We met many couples and also remain friends with them, but the majority of our friends left the site for good because of the mentioned reasons above. We as German are known as stubborn and don't give easy up on things. But we also don't want to become like fisherman what hope of the "big one". In that case a genuine couple.
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newbie6576
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Quote by LeeEC
Please, please report people who misbehave like that.

If you are not sure if you should report, don't wait too long. Otherwise nothing will happened.
We had a long while ago an issue with an inividual what was under the impression, and I quote:
"....you are only here to screw the afrkaans girls." And: "..... you better go back where you come from."
Unfortunate is it a long way back to Germany and the old fart on an ego trip was not worth it.
After a long time of verbal fighting, what almost resulted in me driving to that guy and get physcally, we reported that issue.
Too bad that it was long ago when everything started and nothing was followed up. It was us what was almost banned from that side. Racial lines are not only about colour.
As advise I only can say that it is better to copy and paste any conversations of that kind in a special folder in your computer.
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newbie6576
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Quote by Ranger64
Warning, cheeky response follows!!!
It means they probably know how to spell "designer" and "restaurant"!
Sorry, could didn't resist, the voices made me do it.

I blame it on my poor English spelling as German wink
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newbie6576
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We often see in profiles: ...upmarket couple. What is the meaning behind upmarket? Did that mean you bring your bank statement to a meeting? Or did you wear only desiner cloth and eat only certain food in certain resturants?
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newbie6576
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We been there as well. But we gave up a long time ago. In our opinion are 85% from the ladys, what we are contacted, are fakes. As usual there comes no reply back, even when we ask to be honest and that they please reply with a "No Thanks". But you never know? Maybe one day you will find what you are looking for.
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newbie6576
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You are so right ash!!!!! It really beacame more a primary school as an adult chatroom. The mods are not (hopefully) control freaks. They got other things to do as deal with who is allowed to whisper and who not. Unfortunate that the chatroom has changed a lot since we joined. We really hope that it will change back where all people was involved in conversations or even invited. No one had a problem with the whisper or was bitching about it. The guy / girl was simply exposed in the pool, we all had a good laugh and done of storry. The chatroom becomes more and more of a clique and people see no other chance as whisper to a partie they are interested in.
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newbie6576
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We would join that group and can put quiet a few names down. It is pathetic how people treat others.
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newbie6576
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Who actually cares about the rules from posting pictures????? There are so many downloads in the profiles that it is almost funny. People must think that oter are stupid but regarding to the rules is that more the fact with the people who approve them. If we see a download, we don't even bother to contact.
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newbie6576
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We been there many times. It is frustrating not even that the people don't rock up also when you write an "Honest Message" that they are not even reply. Two honest words "Not interested" would do. If not even that comes these ppl even closer in the line to be in the box of fakes. Swinging should be about respect and honesty. Yes ,we are verry picky and honest that's why we not contacting anybody. We are thinking to name and shame the people what waste our time and don't show up without calling.
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