Hey guys
We're heading down to Cape Town this May for a very belated holiday. Obviously on the "to do list" is a visit for some fun at a club...any suggestions? Seeing as though we're not lucky enough to have a club in Bloemfontein, we're looking forward to the experience. Apparently Liza's Lounge is pretty cool? Also looking to chat with a couple beforehand to maybe join us...but don't see any Cape Town groups that are actually active...
Thanks!
That might just be the coolest pic ever Mike!
Unfortunately is does happen way to often on the site...we even had a incident where a guy asked if he could meet Mrs Localcouple1234 alone for a meet, after we made it clear we don't play OR meet alone. It's starting to become a issue to sift through all the fake profiles and pic hunters to try and meet someone genuine who actually wants to meet and play if all parties involved feel like it. But yeah...it's part and parcel of the site, sad but true.
PS...tip for the fake profile couples...if your "wife" starts chatting, it would be great if she didn't make exactly the same spelling mistakes...idiots.
What the hell? He basically insulted everyone on the site! Hope his little pathetic rant gets him booted from the site.
Sticking with the classics...jizz.
Lol! Thanks SDMR...yeah, we decided stuff like that won't put us off...we have met some really cool people on here, makes the effort and nuisance of dealing with some of the "other" profiles worth it.
What is it with the manners thing? We saw it this past week...we put in effort to write decent mails, and then people will not be bothered to even reply. It's understandable that our profile will not fall into everyone's "taste"...but jeez, a simple no thank would be nice.
This might be be best way to do it? Or an add on some adult site? Think it might just be difficult to gauge honest responses. But if you need a willing couple to ask some awkward question...lol...we don't mind awkward, mail us.
Have to agree with both statements made...it is a hassle to meet people in the first place who's compatible with what you what out of this. And then to have them fizzle out (our term for it)...or just plainly ignore you, it's irritating. But that's it-just irritating. And it's not just the couples who are to blame...on the few rare occasions we actually got interested in a single guy the same happened. One guy even had the audacity to contact the missus and ask for a solo play, after we stated it very clearly we only play together. I think one has to learn very fast on this site that not everybody is here looking for the same thing...just to bad the "nice" couples and singles has to suffer because of it. Honesty and basic social interactions doesn't cost you anything! But...we will not be phased by the bull on the site...it's part and package on a site like this, sad but true.
Could'nt have said it better...
Sad but true! It seems that honesty isn't a virtue for some people on the site. We had people cutting all lines of communication just before a meet, no pitch meets. And the "single" guys...no comment. And no, we're not claiming every one is the same-but it's a fact that some guys are messing it up for everyone else.
So yes-being herrassed for pics, chat room abuse, dishonesty...takes the fun out of something that should be simple and awesome.
Cool post!
Have to agree with Erotic Naughty. We don't mind sharing our pics with like minded people. BUT-if you mail and ask-and have no pics to share in return-what's the point?
We so agree with you, Phil. Our profile states exactly want we want, and whom we would like to meet. In our almost 2 years on the site we learned to spot profiles to avoid. We still try to answer every single mail we get...even the ones that says "would you like to fuck?"...even if it's just to give the guys a piece of our mind. Sad that some guys must screw up stuff for the nice guys...
Took about a month to heal completely. That includes no penetrative sex in the first 2 weeks-but I'll ask her to mail you guys all the details tonight.
Lol...no comment on that one!
We had the experience where people would contact us for a drink/meet-we don't do anything on the firste meet-swop BB pins, sms etc...and then nothing. But you still find them prowling your profile...
Think honesty goes a long way. And-unfortunatly-you have to go through the stalkers and pic hounds and BS'ers to meet someone who might be compatable.
