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Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race
Male, 46
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Not only the most controversial in that she was a minor when she made her first film , but , like Sasha grey she broke out into main stream Hollywood movies ie blade and zack and mire make a porno .my favourite movie though would have to be the voyeur by john Leslie .alexis silver is one of the sexiest British ladies around , buxom , bronzed and bootyfull
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so i was late and it was my fault completely but on top of that as i hit the highway it was backed up from an accident so i kept sending pics of the traffic so the couple knew i was on my way .they said it was really funny seeing the road signs ...30km then 15km .they laugh whenever they see those road signs on their way home a single guy who is not in demand at all its tough to turn down an invitation , i was just very lucky the couple where very understanding but yes being late or not showing up is not on guys .
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1. it works ...voicecalls , whats app and all my mail accounts have data issues ...i know a lot of people who have to limit the use of their phones because its data hungry browser sucks so i dont surf the net with it....which has its ups because i would probably watch porn on it while standing in queues
it is over 3 years old and i get a day on the battery which is not bad and as long as it serves my needs i dont see a need to replace it
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it may seem a bit on the fence but i do .i see why kitty is confused because why would someone make contact with anyone they list as not wanted ?the only person to answer that question would be those who contacted you kitty we could speculate ...i have met couples and had tons of non sex fun with them because playing across the colour line and being friends are different things , and this is where i agree with adonis , we dont choose who we are attracted too .there is chemistry or there is not and some people have a hard time finding those different to them as attractive .to call that prejudice would be the same as calling a straight guy a homophobe .something else we should consider is that over time people change and perhaps they are more open to new things .now in my time here i have heard stories of couples who will not play with any couple who have crossed the race line , and i believe there is that sort of pressure in certain circles (and this i would say is prejudice ) .that could be a reason why people list the race issue but still contact the un desired (just a thought ) .i wonder if a "race curious" option would be viable .i have also seen profiles of non white people listing their own race as undesirable because they want to experiment here , yet we don't say they are prejudice do we ?and what would we say about a profile which lists woman of any race acceptable but white guys only ...and they do exist ....in closing there is a line from movie "as good as it gets " where jack Nicholson plays a bigot with ocd and he befriends his gay neighbour and a scene where his gay neighbour says "i love you " and jack replies "i tell you i wish that did it for me " 
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I have often made the mistake of reading a profile and responding to it without checking the ads . Now the profile is sometimes basic but they place the details of their requirements in the ad and vice versa .so before you respond its best to do full recon to avoid the back lash .now having heard all sides of this topic numerous times i feel its to each their own .i dont mind rude , tell me to stuff off .if you do i normally apologies for the intrusion in one last mail and thank them for the reply , because theres nothing worse than sending a mail then seeing they have read it and that they have checked out your profile....and still getting no response .but i say to each their own .if thats how they choose to treat people then its best for me that nothing ever comes of the message .there are many great polite friendly people on this site and getting upset over the others is not worth it
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i have paid for sex and not in any abstract way.i was a patron of a few male establishments back in my younger days but i have been pay free since twenty o three.i realised it robbed me of my was mostly in durbs and because its such a small town i would often run into some of the ladies in malls with their boyfriends .i once ran into a lady and we went to movies and had lunch...true story .as for porn ..well there is so much free porn out there that im not sure who pays for the stuff anymore .pornhub , xhamster all give it away for free.i still have a mint condition "voluptuous" magazine which i bought in high school, its probebly the last item of porn i ever purchased .
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Bed and Breakfast / Guesthouse with small free-standing chalets, some secluded parking. Room with bed, small table, kitchenette, and bathroom with bath and shower. Towels provided. Available from 09h30 to 16h00, rate R290 for the day or part thereof.
This was posted by red Bruce about a place in wilro park off ondekkers you should contact him for the details
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i would also have to go with madiba. any man who can endure what he did , and as it was quite rightly stated do the horrible things that a war demands ,would make for great learn what motivated him , what gave him the strength to do what very few men where willing to do i.e. make the hard decisions to take lives .To put that burden on his shoulders and the few that walked with him was a mammoth one.i would love to hear his side , and then thank him for placing that burden on his shoulders so that no one in my generation had to .
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im reading the last book of the "magician" series its "the darkness at sethanon" by raymond e feist . i do like fantasy fiction.i have the spud books lying here some where .also 'first blood' by david morrel ....a much better book than the takes you through a vietnam vet's journey to insanity.(everyone will know the movie as Rambo).i have the new dan brown book 'inferno' on the ipad , will get to it once im done with my current a one book at a time typa guy
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well since people dont meet for play what about a party to swop hard drivers?
ps im watching true detectives and its really good. waiting for the next game of thrones .i think the first season of prison break was really revolutionary , the end of every episode was a cliffhanger .If anyone wants a good funny well scripted series i suggest studio 60 on the sunset strip its about 4 years old ,never made it to SA only made 2 seasons but it was due to the writers strike in the states at the time .and of course the newsroom .
ps im watching true detectives and its really good. waiting for the next game of thrones .i think the first season of prison break was really revolutionary , the end of every episode was a cliffhanger .If anyone wants a good funny well scripted series i suggest studio 60 on the sunset strip its about 4 years old ,never made it to SA only made 2 seasons but it was due to the writers strike in the states at the time .and of course the newsroom . Sexpert
.i had found myself recently single and dating but my heart wasn't in to be out there again dating just felt wrong .searching for voyeur and dogging info i stumbled on to first i was a lurker (like most) and eventually started inter-acting.i have met some great people here and have knocked a few things off my bucket list .
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I have met and chatted to some good people from the chat room however i still take part in the forums .the forums is more for information sharing (or at least it is for me).you gain meaningful perspectives on various topics here and tons of useful advise .you also find that a lot of other peoples posts are relevant to you so you don't feel alone or like a freak...(or like such a perv).so its almost like reading a book and reading a are both reading but not quite the same .....now where is that spell check button
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any personal attacks on mods or members shows one has no respect and i feel there should be no place for such people on this is good , it helps us gain perspective (or it should in theory anyway).i am guilty of arguing/debating about things i feel strongly about and i would hate it if anyone accused me of forcing my opinions on anyone for simply believing in what i say and if you feel just as strongly as i do then you should do the same(just don't disagree with me )
the truth is the forum would have died a long time ago if not for the work and effort put in by pib and lee .i do make the odd contribution but only in response .I'm more of a chat room regular , interacting live so to a single guy that hasn't really expanded my "swinging" experience since joining i don't feel i have much to share but i will make an attempt because you ladies have knowledge that needs to shared to the future guys like me that join not knowing let me do a quick spell check so i don't piss lee off 
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the truth is the forum would have died a long time ago if not for the work and effort put in by pib and lee .i do make the odd contribution but only in response .I'm more of a chat room regular , interacting live so to a single guy that hasn't really expanded my "swinging" experience since joining i don't feel i have much to share but i will make an attempt because you ladies have knowledge that needs to shared to the future guys like me that join not knowing let me do a quick spell check so i don't piss lee off Sexpert
Im a child of the 80's and a teen of the nighties so i share certain interests of people older than me ie music , pop culture etc and with those younger than long term girlfriend was ten years older than me yet we had so much in common since she was a teen of the 80's. I could sing a long to abba songs which she loved and i knew because my sister listened to them .what i am trying to say in a long winded way is i guess you just need some common .....let me get my fat ass to the gym
