Well before I high-jack another forum let me start a new one.
Who of us has NEVER paid for sex before?? This question includes us ladies as well as our men of course!!!
Now finding a Professional lady is easy!!!
What kind of person pay for sex?? ARE we weird paying for a little pleasure in life OR not??
NOW who has not ever browsed a porn site either??? or bought a porn video??? Oh come on do not be shy do share and say why you felt you had too do the above!!!!
Believe me that FINDING a GIGOLO is VERY difficult to NOT at all!!!
I have heard many ladies complain that they can not find a SEXY ARM candy man to escort them to social events (gigolo`s) for those who does not know what I mean by arm candy.
Now I wonder why that is?? Is it only in MOVIES or books that there is gigolo`s??
I have checked our news papers and online and such and HAVE not found a gigolo of a day old....Okay you get male escorts BUT when you phone them they are only interested in GAY men NOT older ladies.
Why do you guys think that is??
Now to get back to the original question...
I did get invited to a establishment of professional ladies and my friend who surprised me with that little treat....PAID for that!!!
But that was years ago!!!! Do they even exist anymore I wonder ? As I could not find them online, when I decided to look for them.
Did I enjoy my paid for experience ? YES I did!!!!!!!
Do I buy porn, YES I do!!!! Mostly it is for Birthday pressies for Married men!!! You can not give them a jersey for goodness sake!!!! (so sue me for this info)
Do I browse porn YES I do!!! When was the last time you might ask,well that would be in the previous week,am I ashamed of myself MOST certainly NOT. I am and will most likely die a pervert.
Come on Everyone, share your experiences and your views!!
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Have a I paid for sex. Yes I have. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions let me explain. When Meet a girl I find interesting, the is dinners, gifts etc. That all costs. There is one girl I was seeing recently. I spent R65k in 4 months with her before I had enough. Total number of sexual occasions with her, 9. Do the math.
But back to PIB and her original question.
I was approached by a woman that has an escort agency in jhb. She wanted me to to be a companion for the night for women who needed a date. For a function, a work event or what ever the occasion may be. These dates do entail sex.
So to answer PIB. Yes, a woman can find a man for hire, that is not for hire by gay guys. You just need to know who to ask and where.
I did consider doing this, but........ Did not go ahead with it. I could just see the shock on a woman's face who would have booked me, and on my face, if I knew her.
Sex God
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Have a I paid for sex. Yes I have. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions let me explain. When Meet a girl I find interesting, the is dinners, gifts etc. That all costs. There is one girl I was seeing recently. I spent R65k in 4 months with her before I had enough. Total number of sexual occasions with her, 9. Do the math.
But back to PIB and her original question.
I was approached by a woman that has an escort agency in jhb. She wanted me to to be a companion for the night for women who needed a date. For a function, a work event or what ever the occasion may be. These dates do entail sex.
So to answer PIB. Yes, a woman can find a man for hire, that is not for hire by gay guys. You just need to know who to ask and where.
I did consider doing this, but........ Did not go ahead with it. I could just see the shock on a woman's face who would have booked me, and on my face, if I knew her.
Yip, in some way or other, we the males of the species pay for it . . . . maybe not always with money, but we always pay . .
@ Funwithcouples
WOW 4 months and you ended paying that amount.....I know some of us ladies are HIGH maintenance, but that is very must have been broke u with whom, If I might ask??
As for the escort lady asking you to do some *escorting*, I am all for that!!! Why not get paid if so inclined? Me having double standards now?, NOT at all...Men are hard to find really!!!! NOT for sex per se, but to take to a work functions and such...and if he can DANCE I will pay him his tarif with a BIG smile!!!!
You could always ask the lady the same if she asks you why you are *escorting* ....why she is Hiring??? AS LONG as she pays up, all is well in my books,and do not expect a freebie from you. Even if I *know* him I why feel ashamed to pay for him to escort me even for the *sex* afterwards, If he danced me offa my feet,He will be worth it.
@ SDMR Eish, I need to invite YOU for an evening of Paid fun...... Me paying you of course!!! Just to even the playing field maybe?? But know this If I do *hire* you it might just be to play marbles!!!! :happy:
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@ Funwithcouples
WOW 4 months and you ended paying that amount.....I know some of us ladies are HIGH maintenance, but that is very must have been broke u with whom, If I might ask??
As for the escort lady asking you to do some *escorting*, I am all for that!!! Why not get paid if so inclined? Me having double standards now?, NOT at all...Men are hard to find really!!!! NOT for sex per se, but to take to a work functions and such...and if he can DANCE I will pay him his tarif with a BIG smile!!!!
You could always ask the lady the same if she asks you why you are *escorting* ....why she is Hiring??? AS LONG as she pays up, all is well in my books,and do not expect a freebie from you. Even if I *know* him I why feel ashamed to pay for him to escort me even for the *sex* afterwards, If he danced me offa my feet,He will be worth it.
@ SDMR Eish, I need to invite YOU for an evening of Paid fun...... Me paying you of course!!! Just to even the playing field maybe?? But know this If I do *hire* you it might just be to play marbles!!!! :happy:
She is someone I met while leaving a clients offices. Amazing girl, in every way aside from the little thigs that drove me insane.
As for escorting, who know what the future holds lol.
I just had this vision of a Jewish Mom saying *Wait wait Wait* while throwing her hands in the air...and that made me give a belly laugh.
Yes, I did say I know a few ladies who told me they were looking for some sexy *arm candy man* to escort them to work socials.
Now not all the ladies have a sexy gent to invite and take with to work socials,like me for instance, I only have my GF. And yeah, I do need to take a gent to some socials but always end up on going alone.
As for that business part you and SDMR have, remember I want copy right if you want to start a male escort service!!! I will settle for being their *Madame* though.
Orgasminator
I think I may have an idea on how to earn some extra pocket money
Orgasminator
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Ha ha! Send your applications here!
I wish, commute to JHB is already bad, EC will be murder
Sex God
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As for that business part you and SDMR have, remember I want copy right if you want to start a male escort service!!! I will settle for being their *Madame* though.
A three way . . . . . . . . . business partnership . . . . hah, and people want to say the success rate on this site is poor :twisted:
I am going of topic on my own forum hope it is okay with who ever feels topics should remain of the above.....But just for this once!!!!!
Sheesh SDMR I know lady VampEC1 said she likes your new avatar,and obviously You do too!!!!
Please do forgive me for being honest here...it might sound I am shooting you down I am not it is purely to save my own sanity!!!!
But it creeps me out....Sorry to have to say this... but it does
Every time I see that eye and teeth *init.*..I think of surgery and NO eyeballs!!! and eyelids that is turned upwards...it is really creepy!!
Come on HUN change it for me PLEASE!!!!! Pretty Please!!!....
Name your prize if you want to blackmail me.......(within reason that is)
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I am going of topic on my own forum hope it is okay with who ever feels topics should remain of the above.....But just for this once!!!!!
Sheesh SDMR I know lady VampEC1 said she likes your new avatar,and obviously You do too!!!!
Please do forgive me for being honest here...it might sound I am shooting you down I am not it is purely to save my own sanity!!!!
But it creeps me out....Sorry to have to say this... but it does
Every time I see that eye and teeth *init.*..I think of surgery and NO eyeballs!!! and eyelids that is turned upwards...it is really creepy!!
Come on HUN change it for me PLEASE!!!!! Pretty Please!!!....
Name your prize if you want to blackmail me.......(within reason that is)
Im sorry buddy - I gotta agree... just plain CREEEPY... I'll send you some alternatives
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I am going of topic on my own forum hope it is okay with who ever feels topics should remain of the above.....But just for this once!!!!!
Sheesh SDMR I know lady VampEC1 said she likes your new avatar,and obviously You do too!!!!
Please do forgive me for being honest here...it might sound I am shooting you down I am not it is purely to save my own sanity!!!!
But it creeps me out....Sorry to have to say this... but it does
Every time I see that eye and teeth *init.*..I think of surgery and NO eyeballs!!! and eyelids that is turned upwards...it is really creepy!!
Come on HUN change it for me PLEASE!!!!! Pretty Please!!!....
Name your prize if you want to blackmail me.......(within reason that is)
I await my "prize" with the greatest of anticipation . .. . .
LMAO Thanks SDMR ,the straw sucking the joy out of the day is a nicer one!!!
NOW depends on what you want for a prize...you have already seen me old face...you have seen me old boobs,well more frequently really...as for a bum pic that you have also seen now you most likely would wanna see *more* HUH HUH...now remember I HAVE seen all off you, EXCEPT a genital pic....how crazy is that?? You do have sexy to swoon over LIPS !!!! I can just think about kissing the daylights outa you while Masturbating .... with lips like those who would not masturbate .....Lordy lord now I have gone and done it huh huh??
:roll:
:roll: Sex God
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LMAO Thanks SDMR ,the straw sucking the joy out of the day is a nicer one!!!
NOW depends on what you want for a prize...you have already seen me old face...you have seen me old boobs,well more frequently really...as for a bum pic that you have also seen now you most likely would wanna see *more* HUH HUH...now remember I HAVE seen all off you, EXCEPT a genital pic....how crazy is that?? You do have sexy to swoon over LIPS !!!! I can just think about kissing the daylights outa you while Masturbating .... with lips like those who would not masturbate .....Lordy lord now I have gone and done it huh huh??
Indeedy . . . . :twisted: haha, but tell me PIB, was that a subtle request for a genital pic?
Les get back on track....
SSOoooo who has or will try paying for sex???What was your experiences
Ever look at porn and when last ,ever Buy porn...why???What is your choice (kinda) when you do buy? or check out pron on the pc?
Only ONE brave soul who answered ....and me of course......sooo who is Next???
Master of Sex
Quote by Funwithcouples
Have a I paid for sex. Yes I have. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions let me explain. When Meet a girl I find interesting, the is dinners, gifts etc. That all costs. There is one girl I was seeing recently. I spent R65k in 4 months with her before I had enough. Total number of sexual occasions with her, 9. Do the math.
But back to PIB and her original question.
I was approached by a woman that has an escort agency in jhb. She wanted me to to be a companion for the night for women who needed a date. For a function, a work event or what ever the occasion may be. These dates do entail sex.
So to answer PIB. Yes, a woman can find a man for hire, that is not for hire by gay guys. You just need to know who to ask and where.
I did consider doing this, but........ Did not go ahead with it. I could just see the shock on a woman's face who would have booked me, and on my face, if I knew her.
Pleeeeeeease lol we can go to mcdonalds lol I'll pay for my own meal!
Or screw the meal I'll just eat you. And there will be lots of sexual orcassions lol.
Supper - who cares
Drinks- who cares
Night with kitty... PRICELESS
I have mentioned this before, but we have a thing for Strip dancers. Reality is that many of them are intent on making money on the side by getting paid for "favours". Those don't really do it for us.
In most clubs they are instructed to mingle with the patrons but we have found some drawn to us, mostly because of the vibe Nimfie gives off I think. Some of them are genuinely nice people and can remember your conversations from the last visit some time before. There have been two that we came very close to asking to come and visit us on their day off, all "expenses" paid of course.
As for most guys, they end up paying alimony.
The definition of that is: The screwing you get for the screwing you got.
Sex God
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Les get back on track....
SSOoooo who has or will try paying for sex???What was your experiences
Ever look at porn and when last ,ever Buy porn...why???What is your choice (kinda) when you do buy? or check out pron on the pc?
Only ONE brave soul who answered ....and me of course......sooo who is Next???
YES, once or twice when I wanted something specific.
Porn? do not buy but have quite a bit. Choice is more to the extreme side . . . . .
Hey PIB, this make me the second one to answer ! ! ! !! ! ! do I get a (sur) Prize?
((Even though the thread has had failed thread jacking attempts by others)) . . .
Sexpert
i have paid for sex and not in any abstract way.i was a patron of a few male establishments back in my younger days but i have been pay free since twenty o three.i realised it robbed me of my was mostly in durbs and because its such a small town i would often run into some of the ladies in malls with their boyfriends .i once ran into a lady and we went to movies and had lunch...true story .as for porn ..well there is so much free porn out there that im not sure who pays for the stuff anymore .pornhub , xhamster all give it away for free.i still have a mint condition "voluptuous" magazine which i bought in high school, its probebly the last item of porn i ever purchased .
Sexlightened
My view is no.
If anybody can buy it it takes the fun/challenge out of the whole equation for me which is a deal breaker irrespective of how hot you are.
If you the type that needs to put in and cum then you probably in the wrong place on this site for the most part.
Sexlightened
Strange thing is that there are so many profiles yet to meet is so few and far between.
