Gerrie.....I think it's too easy to accept in the beginning but like everything you have to face the results of the choices you have made and then it becomes hard to change
Stay true to your expectations. don't get fixated about it or you will become as jaded as the ones you are complaining about.
Our experience is that there are plenty of people who believe that arseholes are arsholes and angels are angels irrespective of color
I wonder how much guilt and feelings of self loathing could have been avoided if people could realise that they can make there own rules once they become adults. It's ok to evaluate life and decide for yourself what is right and what is wrong.
This does not make you immoral. The definition of which could be living without principles. But rather very moral because you have actually thought about your principles and stick to them. When you make your own rules the consequences are greater when you break them
To all you guys I have read and loved your answers. Who would have thought that people involved in ..what society percieves to be a shallow pastime could have such deep and meaningfull opinions ...not to mention elegantly put
Actually makes me wonder about all the commonly held norms in our society and how people hang on to them like a baby hangs onto it's blanky lol
Really looking forward to reading about other subjects pertaining to life in general
xxx
Revel
not sure if there can be a rule as such as it is an induvidual thing. We went to a 19th birthday party about 3 years a go at a club. Those people are still in the lifestyle and seem to be handling it very well. But some 40 year olds are battling
Maybe this topic is a little but I would like to know from you guys if you think swinging is exclusive to being religious or spiritual? Most religions have some rules against adultery......Is it all in the definition? Is it hypercritical to go to a lifestyle party on Saturday nite and sit in church on Sunday ?
We have met some deeply spiritual people here
or is it non of other peoples business?
I am on a cycling forum as well and the subjects there range from vasectemies to jacob Zuma so why not let us chat about all sorts of random stuff ,makes for interesting reading
Regards
Revel
The answer to that is that she loves it> problem is that she doesnt get that as much as she would like. PIB thank you for the welcome . We have actually been reading but not participating for quite a while now so thought it would be good to get involved and known
when we first started talking about the lifestyle I askes S to imagine my hands all over her body and then to imagine another man's ,or 2, doing the same things ..... Well that led to good sex!! And here we are lol.
The freedom of letting go of your own ego for the benifit of someone you love with all your heart ,body and soul is the most amazing thing that this lifestyle can offer
Not always easy but always worth it
Mr hollie