As a sensual KINKY Domme,I always identify what is sensual in my eyes.
Using feathers,lace,silk and sandpaper,ice,stinging lotions and potions,sharps and blunt objects to brushes and a sharp when they are being blindfolded
But this is not just for KINKY play....
Sensual play can be done in many ways, doing *nice romantic* things for your lover/partner/nsa friend.
What is the most sensual interlude you have given or received by your partner?
And here is a little described interlude,
The bubble bath scenario never gets old and is probably my favorite.
You have a candle-lit bubble bath with few rose petals floating on the bubbles,Soft music laying in the back ground,waiting for them when they get home and then lead them directly to the bathroom.
Undress them cause that is the key point of this type of eroticism (they are to do nothing themselves everything is done for them).
Once they are in the tub you serve them, pour them a glass of whatever relaxes them and let their wishes be your command.
Soft music playing in the background and whatever comes next you decide.
You can just talk about their day, massage their shoulders,Wash their hair,scrub their back,shave their legs - its completely up to you,and what they enjoy.
NO SEXUAL play in the water cause you are building their anticipation.
After they are relaxed and just before they get water wrinkled
Let them step out into a warmed(winter time) big fluffy & soft towel or robe,wrap that around them and dry them.
Lead them to a prepared bedroom and bed.
Soft music, candles/dimmed light.
Strewn rose petals on the bed
Settle them on top of the bed, rub some sensual lotions into the whole body, brush their hair NO need to massage)
Now its time to tantalize the senses.
Straddle their lap and feed them from prepared plates. chocolates, fruit, candies, whatever u or they like.
Kissing and licking the juices and messy mouth clean.
Sex following such an experience is bound to be some of the best sex ever.
Anything and whatever makes you happy, because life isn`t a dress rehearsal
My own wishes...I would love to be indulged/spoiled in a 4 to 6 hand massage ...anyone offering???
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Easy enough to get I think...just get 2 to 3 people to indulge your fantasy ;)
I have done this with another lady for a gent whom I consider a friend.
I think he totally loved it...only thing is we had to practice before hand to get our moves and hand pressure similar...:-) so we did not overlap and get in each others space...but we did in the end..you sort of enjoy doing it so much, that you forget and you do overlap each other
When we did overlap, we just moved on as if nothing happened and the gent never even knew there was and oopsie...
When the massages started heating UP to a BJ and then sex...well I moved OUT of the room.... as the lady was my sister and I really did not want to see her have sex .Eww
A 4-6 handed massage does sound phenomenal!
A colleague of mine recommended that we go for a sensual taosit massage.
We found a wonderful woman who does taoist and tantric massage, and we each went for a taoist massage.
WOW!
She uses very gentle touch massage, and works with sexual energy.
Your eyes are closed for the duration of the massage. The sensations that move through your body are very intense, and it feels like she has more than 2 hands, as you feel sensations in many places at one time...
What an amazing experience! There were very pleasurable tingly sensations moving around my body from the beginning to the end of the massage. For the Taoist massage, all bodywork is external, and every part of you gets worked on.
Wonderful!
We went seperately a week apart, and both thoroughly enjoyed it! The sex after the massages changed! It is difficult to describe exactly how, but things were definitely more intense!
Since then, we have been back for more taoist massages, and I went for a tantric massage, which involves an internal element. Very pleasurable!
;)
C_
I forgot to mention that after our initial Taosit massages, our masseuse gave us homework:
we were to set aside time for massage. Either massaging eachother in a very slow sensual manner, or to simply give ourselves a slow, sensual massage.
We now give each other regular massages, most of them end in very wild sex!
;)
C
Hi Guys....
@C I have to tell you I do not know *Taosit massage* BUT I know Tantric massage and I frequently DO Yoni`s and Lingam I do incorporate some kink into mine.
Now what I googled and read about Taosit I see that it has Basically the same teaching as Tantric....it has the same background of exchanging energy,it also has the same leanings as what a Reiki master will teach you,about the opening of chakras and it is the sensual slow exchange of life force with your partner.
I am not going to go into the whole thing I jut wanted to say I know what you are talking about.
I am myself a Tantric learner(one can never say YOU KNOW everything).
I envy you and K for having this, YOUR bond surely grows with each exchange .....
I am lucky in the way that my sister,( whom I doubled for for that massage I mentioned what we done 4 handedly)...that she is a Reiki Master.
I learn lots from her ;-)
PIB, I am under the impression that the main difference between the Taoist and Tantric massage is that the Taoist massage remains outside the body, and the energy movement is slightly different.
The tantric massage I went for included a Yoni Massage. WOW! I am going again this week for another session :twisted:
I want to learn more about this stuff. I have been attuned to Reiki 1, so I pick up on certain energies fairly well.
When K went for his second Taoist massage, I was invited to sit in. I could feel their energy movements, it was such a strange sensation. I sat in the corner with my eyes closed, and *felt* their massage. It sounds very strange and *out there* but, it was very cool to experience their energy work without being *part* of it.
We have definitely grown together a lot since we began this massage journey. It has opened us up to many different ideas and possibilities.... and swinging/threesomes is just one of the branches that has opened up since then.
We are planning on having a learning session where our masseuse is going to teach us about expanded orgasms. I CAN'T WAIT! She says it is easier to do expanded orgasms on each other, than to do the full taoist massage...
;)
C
@ Thehollies,
Well please do not be strangers here in Forums,Please participate anytime anywhere.
@ C,
Like I said, I do not know *Taoist* only what I googled most certainly know way more than me.
and If you are open to feel *energy* as you say you are, I would think you going to be awesome when you finished your studies in Reiki and Taoist and then include Tantric to that mix and you are going to be out of this world....
I am seriously envious!!!!!!
As I am in a gay relationship and my lady is very vanilla,it is difficult to really enjoy a Tantric relationship.
Although Tantric sex works best with heterosexuals in mind, and is not suppose to work in same sex partners. This I can refute, because I have experience of it and energy flows strongly even if there is no positive to negative position in two naked bodies. But it has to be a long lasting relationship to achieve this, not only a one night stand or for once a month meeting.
BEST between a hetero sexual married couple.
My own life attitude is always, NOTHING is right nor wrong in any setting,when I am going to do a massage and play.
We as people are goal orientated when we have sex, we go for an orgasm.
Tantra promotes *being*, rather than doing, and anything that happens in a Tantric interlude is okay, trust Tantra. Orgasm or no Orgasm. But often there are longer and Multiple orgasms, and Full body orgasms, and often one's whole body feels orgasmic for days after a Tantra interlude.
Can you see why I am so envious of you C ??? You Lady, are living a dream already!!!!
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OMW, how i wish i could experience the ultimate sensual massage!
Where are you girl who know how to do it?
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Now people seems we have come to a standstill here without anyone else giving their sensual experiences....
Just to name a few that you guys might overlook...and it is actually so sensual and easy!!!! you are most likely doing it with out thinking about it.
kissing and licking someone`s neck...
licking someone`s eyelashes or fluttering your eyelashes over the tip of his penis....
walking down the street holding hands and rubbing your thumb over and over the hand...
walking with your hand in his jeans back pocket squeezing his ass now and again.
See nothing has to be complicated...Sooooooo
once more..
WHAT is your most sensual experience or What have you done for your lover???,What would you like done to you???
Last night we re-discovered the sensual pleasure of ice!
Just running a small piece of ice around your parnter's body. Then licking off the melted ice.
The sensation from COLD to warm is wonderful!
Especially when you get to nipples, thighs, genitals...
We were squirming all over the place!
;)
C
