Hello all,
I have been chatting to a few people on the chatroom.
And the overall feeling of the people is that we are fed up with people being here for the wrong reasons. And not respecting the wishes/needs of the people on this site.
I have now decided to make this forumn to start naming and shaming these people. So that people know who to look out for. And know that people are troublemakers. I do understand that the moderators on this site do try and control them, but myself, being a ex-moderator, know that it is very difficult to control everyone.
I hope that the current moderators will understand the reason behind this forumn, and not insist on deleting this forumn.
Thank you very much
Neil (PsaSexcFun)
Despite being told over and over again that my body is nothing to hide I still have certain parts of myself that I prefer not to parade. I also agree that sometimes a little cover can add to the allure. I have a lingerie fetish and I will wear it. Having said that sometimes the pressure to look and act the part can be huge. I just figure if you don't like the fact that I keep my skin under wraps at times then don't look at me. I will do what I feel comfy with....
Hubby and I are new to they lifestyle and our first few meetings have been varied. I appreciate that sometimes the exprienced folk skip the seduction and head straight for the deed and they are welcome to do that but I think they also need to pause and realise that us newbies aren't as comfy with everything as what they are. I have also found that some experienced couples prefer having a bit of seduction before jumping into bed. To me I stick to the old adage "a little touch can do so much". I feel that taking it slower on us will get you much further then jumping straight into it.
I must agree with some of the earlier posters, I think pussy has no negative connotations in my mind. Refer to my whoo whoo as a cunt on the other hand and you can bet your sweet behind that you aren't getting any from me!
Thanks pussinboots.... we are having a blast on this site! Y'all are so friendly!
Here is the link to the party.
http://www.swingingheaven.za.com/swinger-parties/2789/
Hope to see you there :)
Mel & Neil 
