Before deciding to try swinging, we read a lot on the web, both positive and negative. We then discussed our desires, fantasies and expectations of each other. At first, it was little awkward and tense, but as we got into it, we found ourselves opening up and getting to know each other on a whole new level. Not to mention how much it intensified our foreplay and love-making.
I can honestly say that the process greatly enhanced our relationship and brought us closer together. What I am interested to know is how other couples came to the decision to swing and what did it do for your relationship? Before and after the first encounter?
Looking forward to your responses.
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Newswc
Over 90 days ago
Straight South Asian Male, 55
Bi-curious Mixed Race
Female, 56
0 km · Gauteng
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This is for the more "experienced" couples here.
When meeting another couple for playtime for the first time, do you prefer to host at your venue, theirs, or a neutral venue?
Normally we prefer a neutral venue, but had a sitiuation where we hosted and decided not to play and the other couple just hung around and would not leave. The husband kept on trying to convince us to change our minds.
It became quite uncomfortable , but luckily they left after we both were very clear that it was not going to happen.
Please share your experiences both positive and negative!
Many thanks
N&F
Thank you all for your contributions and comments. Much appreciated.
Very insightful and obviously coming from a lot of consideration and thought, as well as personal experiences. The idea of swinging is very different to the act of swinging. For us, sharing the the emotional experience is much more intimate and erotic than only having sex.
FB is so freaking vanilla.... its like the good humor factory
We love reading the forums here. Found that the regular contributors do a great job of keeping it interesting and topical.
So I guess we are lurkers.
Sometimes there really is nothing add.
Perhaps the challenge is to lure more contributors like PIB often does with bribes?
Well done to all the regular contributors!
Thanks Strobi for sharing that.
Key words are considerate and for the lady's pleasure.
We imagine that it must be very satisfying for all parties concerned. The men surely, have to be comfortable with close contact with another man and also be able to last long enough. because the sensations Strobi describes must push one over the edge?
What about the couples who indulge? Have you tried DP/DPP and not found it as satisfying as you thought it would be?
The story section has a quite a few DP encouters. but would love to hear more about both good and not so good experiences.
We would like to meet a couple who are turned on by this idea as well, or have experience in it. She is not mad about anal penetration though.
Lets hear from you?
