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KC_
4 days ago
Pan White/Caucasian Non-binary, 37
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Cis Male, 39
0 km · Edenvale

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Our experience with couples has been mostly frustrating. 

We've only successfully met up with one couple. All the others have gone silent when we ask to meet, or don't show up. One had a really good reason for not showing up, but we haven't heard from them since....so....

We haven't had luck with single ladies. They seem to disappear when we try to arrange a meet,or they stand us up too...

Single guys, we'd say that 1/4 don't show. The rest at least show up for the meet!

There are many different ways to engage with swinging. Often single people are easier to meet and click with than couples are. 

Depends on the kinds of sex you are looking for.

Since we are a couple who has mainly had threesomes, are we not swingers because of the lack of another couple present? 

There are waxing salons that wax any body, regardless of gender.

Waxing is painful initially, but the hair grows back softer and less intense over time.

Laser and electrolysis is good, but success rates depend on your kind of skin tone and hair colour combo, along with the kind of machine being used. I had moderate success with laser, but still have hair that needs to be tended to...

;)

C

I enjoy a nice bout of analingus myself, but that is usually after a nice shower.
We used to use a dental dam for analingus, to prevent the transmission of anything untoward.
But since analingus is something that usually only occurs between K and myself, we have become comfortable without one, after a shower.
If a play partner wants to lick my anus, it is up to them to use a dental dam or not...

As for your concern about licking things that have been inserted into the anus, that is something I am definitely not comfortable with myself.

We even use latex gloves when fingering each other's arses, as neither of us are particularly keen on having fecal matter under our fingernails, BUT gloves also provide a level of protection for the receiver, as any hard edges on the finger is "rounded off" by the glove, and less likely to cause pain.

Must admit, I rarely leave the forum. So I haven't gotten around to seeing these awesome improvements you speak of.

Quote by maturewhiteslut
Just wondering how many white females on here fantasize about having sex with a black man or want to but are to afraid

What would they be afraid of?

For us, if there is an attraction, we're game. Regardless of race. 
There are people of all races that we are attracted to, and people of all races we are definitely not attracted to...

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Also I like to point out to scaredy-cat hetero guys that they don't want to shag ALL women just because they are straight...  So it obviously follows that gay people and bi people are actually the same in that way... in that they actually only want to shag people they are actually attracted to...  and that ... well... probably doesn't include you.. especially because you're acting like a douche, which is super unattractive on any person of any sexual orientation...

I was trying to think of a way to say that, but that is perfect!

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hi leec,
its not that i care, his loss anyway..its when people reply and the tone of it demonstrates disgust, shock...my bisexuality does not negate my hetero side. All it is , is a different sexual experience. I like my prostate massaged and many women dont get that. I also enjoy an erect phallus in my mouth.

I think the fear of Bi guys is similar to the fear of gay guys. 

It's the same homophobia, that a guy who like other guys, wants to have sex with All of them. 

"Oh, you like cock? You must want to jump every man you see?"

I think it might be helpful for bi guys who are looking for "straight" sex here, to specify that if no MM touching is wanted by the couple, then that would be respected.  

PIB and LEE have it spot on. It's about the skills each person has, the situation and the mood.

It's about being able to listen to what the person receiving wants.  

Some ladies like direct clit play, others don't.  I like my whole vulva to be given attention during head, that includes the lips and vaginal entrance,  not just clit play. Which for me, has to be indirect or you get a knee in the face ;)

For me, thickness is definitely preferable to length. The only thing about a big penis, is a personal "challenge" to see if I can fit it inside me pleasurably. That usually involves NO movement from the other person, while they are on their back, and me taking me time to lower myself onto them. Long penises do very little for me, and require extremely skilled Listeners, as I have found the listeners to be the best playmates, as they take direction when it is offered. Men who think they are fantastic at sex usually disappoint. They seem to think they know how to play, and refuse to take direction. Even take it as negative criticism and get all mopey! But penis size is really not that important to me (apart from extreme length, which i avoid...) I have had great fun with different size penises, and great disappointment too.
Firstly, welcome to the forum! What a horrible thing to go through. I hate that other people feel entitled to comment on bodies in ways that are demeaning. If you don't like what you see on cam, close it. It is really that simple. No need to make nasty comments. To aswer your question, from my personal perspective, considering how much pleasure I can get from a single finger, penis size matters less than skill and ability to listen to direction and hints. Many women are less inclined to give directions, as much as hint towards what they prefer and dislike. Also, having an idea of what positions generally have the most benefit for penetrative is always helpful. Once again, for me personally, there really is such a thing as too big. Especially with regards to penis length. C
We almost had a gang bang this weekend smile I went out to watch a sexy male revue show (fantastic dancers, with deliciously sculpted bodies, who take most of their clothes off...) I came home with two of them, but the nerves of the situation seemed to have affected the one lovely man's erection... So we had a threesome with an onlooker ;) ;) C
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I love the change in Ph when she comes. Light acidic to sweet.
I find that depends on how hydrated I am.
The more water I drink during the day, the sweeter my cum is.
However, if I am less hydrated, it can be quite bitter and unpleasant...
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Quote by LeeEC
Quite right Voyeur - KC and I had a conversation about this a little while ago - while she finds that squirting, builds her pleasure, I find it has very little effect at all on my pleasure. Everyone is different I!!

Yup, squirting builds my pleasure, and lately it has been even more pleasurable than before.
Still doesn't happen every time, but when it does.... we have to put down towels smile
I have also had fantastic pleasure without squirting too, so it is definitely not a prerequisite for fantastic sex.
;)
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Thing is, sometimes you are just not in the mood, or just don't have the energy required to direct someone who is insisting that they are good at head... I'm sure it works both ways. I give fantastic blow jobs, to those that like them. I am a bit too rough or teethy for others... If I don't get helpful directions, my head skills will always be below par for some people. But I get how hard it can be to give helpful directions. Sometimes I am at a loss for words on how to improve what is happening with my labia. (hint, going straight for the clit doesn't work for all girls.. me saying stay away from the clit seems to be impossible instructions....) *yes* there is so much more you can do than just lick my clit. In fact, straight licking my clit will get you kicked in the face with a knee *lol* ;) C
Naked Cherry do waxing for men. I see they have a branch in Pretoria...
Quote by Voyer1105
Hi Sheila
Want to fuck
No
Ok do you mind lying still while I do

That's a bit
I am very much a beginner mountain biker... so we usually just do a 10km at Modders on the weekends. ;)
You realise this is a public forum, and anyone (not registered with a profile) can see what is posted here. I am not sure who would share their BBM contacts on a public forum, especially when the person who started the post didn't even share theirs... Oh, and with regards to interests etc... that is what the write up on the profile is for.
Yes, the fear of catching something is what limits a lot of our fantasies from becoming reality....
I have suddenly started noticing the following at the bottom of many profile write ups: WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. What research happened to start this? I am interested to see how this info was used.
That sounds really scary! I am just thinking how much worse it could have been had you been dogging... Really glad that you were not physically harmed. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah, it would be great if that was a tick-box or something, so that it is clear from the beginning. Even though I am white, so I "fit the preference", reading that line is often a turn off. I often sit there, thinking to myself, do I really want to play with people who are racist? Maybe they aren't racist, and it's a simple preference, like toned, athletic bodies, or something. But, with our historical context, it feels racist. Even if that is not the intention. I don't know if I am stirring the pot here, but that is how the line "reads", to me anyway. Every time I read that line, I have a discussion with myself. Every time.
The guy I spoke to had done tons of research into it, and saw that internationally, some men found symptoms went away after surgery to remove the glands that produce semen (prostate gland and seminal vesicle)... Yeah, for him sex is not the pleasurable experience that everyone raves about. The urge for relief is very much outweighed by the allergic reactions. Wet dreams are an absolute nightmare!
Yup, there are cases where they have an allergic reaction to their own semen. For some of these people, the act of ejaculation causes a negative reaction (the semen reacts with the tissue inside the urethra), ranging from a rash to severe flu symptoms. Sometimes the symptoms can last a few days! In comparison, you could say my reaction is fairly mild. But still quite unpleasant!
I haven't read the article, but I seem to have a reaction to semen. Quite uncomfortable really, both orally and vaginally sad Orally, my tongue tingles like I have eaten fermented yogurt... Vaginally, all movement needs to stop, as a chaffing sensation gets really intense - like there is sand paper inside me! Which limits sometimes limits K, depending on if I am done when he is ready to come.... (I have *quite* an appetite.... and often just need a few minutes rest before I am ready for more stimulation....) (That's what makes the tag-team threesome such an appealing idea :twisted: )
Playmates who are enthusiastic and willing to take direction are the best! It becomes problematic when they think they are good at giving head, but don't listen when advice on how to make it enjoyable for the other person is given...
Kitty, that is the worst! It's part of the reason I have logged off this site on all devices (Also android). Yes that means i have to log in if i have a comment to make, or to check my mail. But I am no longer logged in for general browsing of the site. Admin didn't consider the adverse affects that button, placed where it is, could have on the users of the site.
I agree with SDMR Rather have a conversation about why she doesn't want to, so YOU can get a better understanding of her position. Not to convince her to do something she has clearly stated she has no desire to do. p.s. I love giving head, but I despise swallowing. When it is time to come, I get my mouth away as fast as possible. Try tasting your own cum, if you think that is an issue. Cum tastes gross, regardless of what fruits you eat. But my objection isn't to the taste, it is because I don't like it. simple.
I was talking about this with friends, and one of them mentioned that they had read it wasn't from a donor. They had grown the penis using his tissue... I haven't had the time to investigate this claim, but I thought you guys would find it interesting smile C