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Chappie
6 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Male, 60
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 57
0 km · Meyerton

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So far yes its a total waste of time, maybe they can do away with the anon advert to make this site work, who would have an intimate moment with a person person who you know as Mr Anon who posts I am looking for a ####!

Adventurous and desperate are worlds apart.

What do people think about anonymous adverts, especially those with zero background to them.

So far we found the ones in the dogging section without profile names a waste of time.

Wondering what others think?

Actually read most of the posts you have made, well looks like most of us come her for sex and fun, you seem to be here for who knows what........... 


The Hedonist, how can you say it was " ;;;;;; single men dont call us" as we a couple who only play with men, prefer them bi as made clear on our profile, at this stage we dont play with couples or females.

We have never had a "single men dont call us" on our profile from day one as finding a bi man would be slightly difficult if we excluded men, or not?

We dont hold it against  you as you will never play with us because you dont meet our requirements, even if you were not rude.

Suppose from what you say we were your punching bag as you were pissed off with others.

Just some advice , let this subject rest as you will chase people away from you as this is about fun not a self examination.

Yes, just made contact with one a few minutes ago, friendly, polite, meets our requirements in both Bi and fairly large equipped. Maybe something comes of it, maybe not.

Hi Midcoup, well we different as a couple, we play with bi men, long story, short version is Mrs get big turn on and I enjoy it plus enjoy watching  her with the bloke later.

On average the males are decent, sadly they dont read the requirements, xtr large peinis is one of them, yes we know how good they are even ifits not that size, but its not what we want so dont ping pong mails trying to convince us......... also dont make your very first mail opening line, only line " moving to that region...may I see wife ###### ", no hullo, not hi, no nothing, as if the person thinks its his right as a single male on the group to meet every couple here as we here for his use.

Pointed out his mails shortcomings, pardon the pun only to get a snotty reply and blocked, as if we care he blocked us.

Some blokes just dont get it, often ruin it for the thankfully many who do and are decent and respectable in their approach.

The Hedonist, apology accepted.

But sure you will understand we will never enjoy any play time together.

We chose to make it quite clear as to what we looking for out of respect for peoples time, but you not the only one who was outright rude, check our profile out to another person who was politely rejected, did not delete his comments but chose to leave it there as a warning to others of what he is like.

As I said , we try to reply to every message we get, sometimes its not possible, but we try, plus we always friendly even if its a no thanks, which most of our replies are due to the specific thing we looking for.

A quick question, why are people especially single men allowed to post a question here why they dont find fun here and you reply attaching the disgusting mails they send as their first message they allowed to duck our of responsibility by blocking you.

This destroys the site and those victimized by them are left powerless. And such individuals continue as they please.

The Hedonist, in reply to your question 

Do you recall the unsolicited mail you decided to send us as an opening line?

Most likely not so let us refresh your memory, you in your very first message sent us 17 days ago

" Too many fucking rules!!!!!??"

Yes maybe so, we posted those what you term rules so no one wastes their time, we respect peoples time as well as our own plus we as a couple have rules as its not simply a free ride with either of us as our requirements are fairly specific, so why waste peoples time if they fall outside what we looking for. In fact many message over and over, even with those we try be polite, when that does not work we are forced as a last resort to block them.

We told you exactly what to do in response to your nasty message.

But that leaves a unanswered question of why send such a message in the first place as you destroy the pleasure we get from this site and honestly you give single men bad reputations by your actions, ok you not single you married,  we try to answer messages, sometimes we fail, but most we try do, we try be polite, but we never contacted you, you by choice decided to contact us with amounts to a rude message, so answer why did you send it to start off with, not a way to find a playmate?

But if that's how you treat us as totally random strangers who have never contacted you, offended you or even till then known about you we both understand why you not coming right here.

Your message has been screen shotted in case any admin asks for it.

Admin if our post is inappropriate kindly remove it as we don't wish to complicate your life, nor do we wish to this hard done by post go unanswered. We hope you understand. Also we hope this will not trigger more abuse from The Hedonist.

To end, we guess around 99% of the single or married males we dealt with thankfully have been decent.

Yes, that is why we here,  Mrs is a lover of huge male members.

We prefer married as simply less hassles and understand that to us its purely about sex, nothing else.

But either way married or not we do not play with rude or demanding men.

Thankfully they just blocked us, also thankfully we did not mention names as then we seen as hassling them. 


Why must a couple become sarcastic after contacting you without reading what we are looking for, if it says Mrs is into extra large equipped males members, then thats what she wants, trying to sell your partners medium sized one does not change our requirements, then making sarcastic comments re my male member is, well you show total ignorance as the requirement is about the other person we seeking, plus when we in a friendly manner point out they not what we looking for, get insistent, then after saying sorry still not for us, get bitchy and sarcastic......... sort of ruins this site.

Long ago I lived with a lady who was at her kinkiest while having a period, she washed out and up before we played. Was some of the hottest sex we had together.

Well it amazes me at some of the comments one gets in replies to adverts, and even more those used in adverts, seems like saying what you want in a non crude way is a lost art.