Single Male Unfriendly Profiles

Had a member complaining that they got poor response to their quickie add for single males. Had a look at their profiles and it said, in bold AND underlined: Single males will be contacted when we feel like it

1. That is decidedly a SMUP (single male unfriendly profile)

2. Who do they think they are, exactly, that single males should clammer all over them just because they placed a quicky add?

 Wakeup call: There are other couples out there! Single males are not desperate, and definitely not desperate for you.

For the past hour this post has been sticking in my side like a thorn . I usually rather keep quiet when I read posts like this but seriously dude ? 

Everyone play this game as they feel comfortable. Everyone has their own preference. I feel with all respect for you especially as a older person that you might be voicing your frustration in a way that just frustrates others .

As you previously mentioned there is lots of single males on SH . And some couples do get frustrated with the amount of male mails they get . Generally couples tend to play with couples. Why should we need a wake up call?  

Hi Midcoup, well we different as a couple, we play with bi men, long story, short version is Mrs get big turn on and I enjoy it plus enjoy watching  her with the bloke later.

On average the males are decent, sadly they dont read the requirements, xtr large peinis is one of them, yes we know how good they are even ifits not that size, but its not what we want so dont ping pong mails trying to convince us......... also dont make your very first mail opening line, only line " moving to that region...may I see wife ###### ", no hullo, not hi, no nothing, as if the person thinks its his right as a single male on the group to meet every couple here as we here for his use.

Pointed out his mails shortcomings, pardon the pun only to get a snotty reply and blocked, as if we care he blocked us.

Some blokes just dont get it, often ruin it for the thankfully many who do and are decent and respectable in their approach.

Thanks chap the point exactly. Less bitching and more effort and respect and the possibilities for single males is endless . 

Yes, just made contact with one a few minutes ago, friendly, polite, meets our requirements in both Bi and fairly large equipped. Maybe something comes of it, maybe not.

I am quite flattered by the publicity that I am getting because of my posts! Thank you.

Now, it seems that my posts are understood to be objections to peoples' rules: this is decidedly not the case, far from it. In my posts I do not criticize peoples' profiles or rules, but rant against the apparent prevalent attitude among SOME couples, that single men are lapdogs that would just be too happy to jump at the beg and call of any couple and that they have no place in the swinging fraternity in their own right. One couple actually went as far as stating that single men are only "allowed" in the swinging fraternity because some couples want a third.

If everyone has the right to play the game as they feel comfortable, why are single men singled out (pun intended) as rogues, as another couple put it?

It will also be noticed that my posts are in response to ADVERTISEMENTS, not to profiles per se. When one places an advertisement, one explicitly invites responses and those responses might very often not be what one expects. If one then gets upset by such response, well then,  is one being defined by the opinion of some arbitrary stranger? 

Just as a last remark, back to the plight of single men, consider the economic viability of this site had it had no single men....