Real people

Pleease.....where are the cpls that actually mean what their profile says? By that we mean where are the cpls that actually, really want to play?     Grooan!!.. We are so eager but not finding folk who go by what they say!

We a real couple exactly as profile says, but we only play with males. 

But so many who are not even close to ones requirements ask and get offended when politely have it pointed out they dont match our clear requirements.

If 11 years of experience has taught me one thing ..... It is that people generally love the idea of the lifestyle. But when it gets to the next step they are scared to take the plunge. I would assume you have to do with "new" couples ...... ? Many couples remain " new " for months or even years . My advice is to be patient , and then be patient some more. You will eventually meet awesome people. And if you can't wait visit a club , it's the only place you'll find a big collection of " real " lifstylers. Smooches XXX 

That's why we prefer to not meet...defenitely not play with...a newbie couple. Just got tired of holding people's hands through it. Either you want to play... Or not...not rocket science.

Each to his own ... Lol but some of our best play dates ever has been newbies. If you're willing to hold hands and be patient the end result can be better than you think. I like the unsure , nervous tension and awkward silence. But alas hubby feels the same as u @localcouple.... He also prefer serious couples with all their issues years behind them 

I hear ya sexysam69... To each his own. We still meet newbies to validate for parties... But... We prefer to only play after they met at least 3 other couples. That way they sorted out their rules, what they like and don't like. Lol... Had some terrible first plays.