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Have any non white couples and or men ever met any white couples and or ladies for an Encounter?
Warming the Bed
I have hooked up with both white ladies and couples with satisfactory results, but it don't happen often
Warming the Bed
For some reason I have not been lucky with any woman on this site, only chatting with one female from this site
Quote by Vee1
Have been with a few white ladies. It was all great experiences.
However not from this site. People are scared.
Vee how many have you met from this site? i would guess zero, i get upset wehn i see people on their profile say we dont cross the colour line and we stick to a same race, hate it
I beg to differ guys. I am not white and have met up with quite a few couples and one Sihle lady on this site.
I have had quite a few great experiences directly from swing heaven.
And the couples that I have met up with, I continue to see regularly, when schedules permit.
I find its more about the approach and how people click. In actual fact, more than one couple has sent me messages saying that they would like to have their first experience with a non white.
It maybe I'm just lucky.
I think it's still a very big problem in South Africa.
It's like we cannot shake the color thing.
You have to prob be something exceptional to the eye, like the Brad Pitt of non-whites, or extremely lucky.
Many moons ago, we tried to get threesome going with ads places on gumtree (bad idea - so many fakes).
We then resorted to having a phone call before actually wasting time sending mails and pictures , just to be sure you for real, cause the scammers will string you along to a point you believe they for real.
One white female called and as soon as she heard we colored, she said no thanks.
No idea of our looks, personality etc.
It's not a general norm though as we did meet with a white couple , but never went ahead, as it was our first time and got cold feet. So it's just you luck of the draw I guess.
Quote by jack99
I beg to differ guys. I am not white and have met up with quite a few couples and one Sihle lady on this site.
I have had quite a few great experiences directly from swing heaven.
And the couples that I have met up with, I continue to see regularly, when schedules permit.
I find its more about the approach and how people click. In actual fact, more than one couple has sent me messages saying that they would like to have their first experience with a non white.
It maybe I'm just lucky.
I would suspect you were lucky and the exception more than the rule, but hey was not meant to judge but too give hope to the other non white couples and men in here...
Quote by likklad
I think it's still a very big problem in South Africa.
It's like we cannot shake the color thing.
You have to prob be something exceptional to the eye, like the Brad Pitt of non-whites, or extremely lucky.
Many moons ago, we tried to get threesome going with ads places on gumtree (bad idea - so many fakes).
We then resorted to having a phone call before actually wasting time sending mails and pictures , just to be sure you for real, cause the scammers will string you along to a point you believe they for real.
One white female called and as soon as she heard we colored, she said no thanks.
No idea of our looks, personality etc.
It's not a general norm though as we did meet with a white couple , but never went ahead, as it was our first time and got cold feet. So it's just you luck of the draw I guess.
See thats where i have a problem.
I suspect the solution would be to create a swing heaven group for non white poeple and hope white couples or females which like the idea can join, just a thought?
Quote by Dogging
I beg to differ guys. I am not white and have met up with quite a few couples and one Sihle lady on this site.
I have had quite a few great experiences directly from swing heaven.
And the couples that I have met up with, I continue to see regularly, when schedules permit.
I find its more about the approach and how people click. In actual fact, more than one couple has sent me messages saying that they would like to have their first experience with a non white.
It maybe I'm just lucky.
I would suspect you were lucky and the exception more than the rule, but hey was not meant to judge but too give hope to the other non white couples and men in here...
Well i would like to hope its not luck. As i have had met up with over 20 white couples from various sites since i discovered this lifestyle. And throughout my life, i have dated many women, all of whom have been white. And a number of them had never been involved with a non white.
I would like to have faith that its not luck, but a case of people not recognising race. Interestungly enough, the couples i have been with, the more open minded ones are the afrikaans couples.
I would like to believe that it all has to do with chemistry.
Maybe im just an optimist or otheres would say have tunnel vision
Quote by jack99
I beg to differ guys. I am not white and have met up with quite a few couples and one Sihle lady on this site.
I have had quite a few great experiences directly from swing heaven.
And the couples that I have met up with, I continue to see regularly, when schedules permit.
I find its more about the approach and how people click. In actual fact, more than one couple has sent me messages saying that they would like to have their first experience with a non white.
It maybe I'm just lucky.
I would suspect you were lucky and the exception more than the rule, but hey was not meant to judge but too give hope to the other non white couples and men in here...
Well i would like to hope its not luck. As i have had met up with over 20 white couples from various sites since i discovered this lifestyle. And throughout my life, i have dated many women, all of whom have been white. And a number of them had never been involved with a non white.
I would like to have faith that its not luck, but a case of people not recognising race. Interestungly enough, the couples i have been with, the more open minded ones are the afrikaans couples.
I would like to believe that it all has to do with chemistry.
Maybe im just an optimist or otheres would say have tunnel vision
Jack, lucky you , i have also had loads of experinces and have been out of the lifystyle for a while, Read my story Interracail Experience.
Agree Afrikaans people more open to this idea, and suspect you right with regards to chemistry as i have never failed when the couple or women has seen me face too face.....
i wish i had discovered this site sooner.
I see I'm amoungst people who share my vision of a truly rainbow swinging nation. 
But I suspect there is many white females / couples out there who are open to crossing the color line. let's not paint everyone with the same brush. Take the guy we all love to hate, Jack99. He is an inspiration to us all who have never been with a white woman. 
But I suspect there is many white females / couples out there who are open to crossing the color line. let's not paint everyone with the same brush. Take the guy we all love to hate, Jack99. He is an inspiration to us all who have never been with a white woman. Quote by Dogging
Have been with a few white ladies. It was all great experiences.
However not from this site. People are scared.
Vee how many have you met from this site? i would guess zero, i get upset wehn i see people on their profile say we dont cross the colour line and we stick to a same race, hate it you are quite correct. Also couples will string you along until a certain stage and then drop you. That is bad. Some also use you to find out further information and then its over. Communication ends. I have been on this site for quite long and I see the race issue happening everytime. One other thing to ponder, and maybe why jack has much success. This race thing varies according to your location. It will vary from town to town and province to province. Say for instance, mpumalanga as an example. The smaller towns, it is more prevalent. Due t fear of anyone finding out or also the small town old mentality is actually causing that.
Quote by Vee1
Have been with a few white ladies. It was all great experiences.
However not from this site. People are scared.
Vee how many have you met from this site? i would guess zero, i get upset wehn i see people on their profile say we dont cross the colour line and we stick to a same race, hate it you are quite correct. Also couples will string you along until a certain stage and then drop you. That is bad. Some also use you to find out further information and then its over. Communication ends. I have been on this site for quite long and I see the race issue happening everytime. One other thing to ponder, and maybe why jack has much success. This race thing varies according to your location. It will vary from town to town and province to province. Say for instance, mpumalanga as an example. The smaller towns, it is more prevalent. Due t fear of anyone finding out or also the small town old mentality is actually causing that.
As much as i would like to believe that luck has nothing to do with it, i have to agree with vee regarding the area. I live in edenglen, and spend most of time in the east rand and northern jhb suburbs. And i have to admit people are more open minded in comparison to other less populated areas. There is one couple from this site, that will regularly look at my profile and send me messages and the will say they dont play outside of their own race group. Personally i think they are curious, and not sure if they want to go through with it.
I have been with alot of couples and women who i was the first interracial experience. To some its a fantasy, and i find most realise, that after the play time, the race is irrelevant. That its about the person and how well they can satisfy the moment. I myself find no difference at all when it comes to a womans race, its not like they taste different, of shag better or worse depending on race.
When i am told racial lines r not crossed, i let it roll off my back, and dont take offence at all, but thats me personally.
Quote by jack99
Have been with a few white ladies. It was all great experiences.
However not from this site. People are scared.
Vee how many have you met from this site? i would guess zero, i get upset wehn i see people on their profile say we dont cross the colour line and we stick to a same race, hate it you are quite correct. Also couples will string you along until a certain stage and then drop you. That is bad. Some also use you to find out further information and then its over. Communication ends. I have been on this site for quite long and I see the race issue happening everytime. One other thing to ponder, and maybe why jack has much success. This race thing varies according to your location. It will vary from town to town and province to province. Say for instance, mpumalanga as an example. The smaller towns, it is more prevalent. Due t fear of anyone finding out or also the small town old mentality is actually causing that.
As much as i would like to believe that luck has nothing to do with it, i have to agree with vee regarding the area. I live in edenglen, and spend most of time in the east rand and northern jhb suburbs. And i have to admit people are more open minded in comparison to other less populated areas. There is one couple from this site, that will regularly look at my profile and send me messages and the will say they dont play outside of their own race group. Personally i think they are curious, and not sure if they want to go through with it.
I have been with alot of couples and women who i was the first interracial experience. To some its a fantasy, and i find most realise, that after the play time, the race is irrelevant. That its about the person and how well they can satisfy the moment. I myself find no difference at all when it comes to a womans race, its not like they taste different, of shag better or worse depending on race.
When i am told racial lines r not crossed, i let it roll off my back, and dont take offence at all, but thats me personally.
Remeber what i was trying to find out what % of non white couple and or non white men have been successful meeting white women and or couples on this site?
Hi all
As you know (wave for dogging) I have commented that I don't know what the big deal is. But then I come from a very "non-racial" background, and while colour isn't a "thing" for me - I really couldn't care less about the colour of your skin - I do find that I am more attracted to people who share my way of thinking - and therefore behave/or approach me in a way I find acceptable and appropriate, so for me the issue of cultural compatibility is probably more important. However I know this is something of a thrill for my hubby... I know he secretly would like to do a black chick... Guys don't reallly know how observant we can be 
On the other hand I also know that if you try and "sell the idea" to me based on the "interacial thrill" I'm already put off, I want to be desired because I'm sexy and good at it and tasty and desirable not because I'm white. That's a bit random for me. So maybe try not to make such a big thing about it, perhaps assume that everyone else might not actually be into it because you're a particular colour but simply because you're hot.... or sexy or charming and since you are they will get the hot, sexy, charming and you get your white chick fantasy...
Also - tried to post this earlier after Jacks first comment, but my connection bugged out; I think a lot of singles set themselves up for diappointment; because you are single it doesn't factor into your process that couples often have families and children and two schedules to try and arrange play around. Propositioning people more than 200kms from you often means it will simply never happen even if you all want it to because logisitcally it's just too complicated.
Singles should particularly indicate their willingness to travel to their intended playmates, their willingness to make long-term connections (most couples are looking for long-term playmates - which is obviously a lot easier if you're in close proximity) and keep in mind the difficulty in terms of short notice meets for people with children.
hope my comments are helpful :)
On the other hand I also know that if you try and "sell the idea" to me based on the "interacial thrill" I'm already put off, I want to be desired because I'm sexy and good at it and tasty and desirable not because I'm white. That's a bit random for me. So maybe try not to make such a big thing about it, perhaps assume that everyone else might not actually be into it because you're a particular colour but simply because you're hot.... or sexy or charming and since you are they will get the hot, sexy, charming and you get your white chick fantasy...
Also - tried to post this earlier after Jacks first comment, but my connection bugged out; I think a lot of singles set themselves up for diappointment; because you are single it doesn't factor into your process that couples often have families and children and two schedules to try and arrange play around. Propositioning people more than 200kms from you often means it will simply never happen even if you all want it to because logisitcally it's just too complicated.
Singles should particularly indicate their willingness to travel to their intended playmates, their willingness to make long-term connections (most couples are looking for long-term playmates - which is obviously a lot easier if you're in close proximity) and keep in mind the difficulty in terms of short notice meets for people with children.
hope my comments are helpful :) Quote by MattLeeEC
Hi all
As you know (wave for dogging) I have commented that I don't know what the big deal is. But then I come from a very "non-racial" background, and while colour isn't a "thing" for me - I really couldn't care less about the colour of your skin - I do find that I am more attracted to people who share my way of thinking - and therefore behave/or approach me in a way I find acceptable and appropriate, so for me the issue of cultural compatibility is probably more important. However I know this is something of a thrill for my hubby... I know he secretly would like to do a black chick... Guys don't reallly know how observant we can be
On the other hand I also know that if you try and "sell the idea" to me based on the "interacial thrill" I'm already put off, I want to be desired because I'm sexy and good at it and tasty and desirable not because I'm white. That's a bit random for me. So maybe try not to make such a big thing about it, perhaps assume that everyone else might not actually be into it because you're a particular colour but simply because you're hot.... or sexy or charming and since you are they will get the hot, sexy, charming and you get your white chick fantasy...
Also - tried to post this earlier after Jacks first comment, but my connection bugged out; I think a lot of singles set themselves up for diappointment; because you are single it doesn't factor into your process that couples often have families and children and two schedules to try and arrange play around. Propositioning people more than 200kms from you often means it will simply never happen even if you all want it to because logisitcally it's just too complicated.
Singles should particularly indicate their willingness to travel to their intended playmates, their willingness to make long-term connections (most couples are looking for long-term playmates - which is obviously a lot easier if you're in close proximity) and keep in mind the difficulty in terms of short notice meets for people with children.
hope my comments are helpful :)
Extremely well said. It's like you took the words out of my mouth. Those are some of the points I was trying to verbalise.
