My phone blinged at 12h28 today. The WhatsApp message read :” How spontaneous are you ? Can you take the rest of the day off ?” I work in George and stay in S. She lives in K. And I had a management meeting scheduled for 14h00. I simply could not…And then came the mail: ‘meeting cancelled.’ I quickly texted her back and 5 minutes later I hit the road to K. From the moment I entered through the kitchen, it was clear that w...

On my way to work, I have to drive passed the Deloitte office block. Could someone please tell me how many gorgeous women is in the employ in the local office of this company ? [And perhaps a reason why I should pay a visit to the Deloitte offices…] It has happened multiple times to me now, and this morning was just a repeat. The 3 lane traffic was brought to a standstill by someone using the pedestrian crossing. I could...

Olivia is always short of cash. Always. It has frustrated me to death. And it has lead to interesting scenario’s… Sitting in a dead serious and boring meeting this morning, I noticed an incoming whatsapp from her: I need cash. (That part I have been familiar with.) You can buy 2 video clips off me. Hugh ?! (and dugh..) I have never (not what I can remember of in any case) bought video clips or dvd’s or similar. Why on ear...

By the time Olivia turned around, there was a wet spot on the sheet where her vulva was – normally a good sign... This position (face up) could be slightly tricky at times. You first need to decide whether you are going to cover her eyes. Open eyes and blind-folding both have pro’s & con’s. Women generally get turned on much better and easier when blindfolded. But...some women, when turned around, have that ‘please-fuck-m...

My profile states that I love giving massages and tantra. It also states that I am quite happy to give her a massage/tantra as a turn-on and then leave – if that is her or the couple’s requirements. The real kick that I get from the ‘deal’, is three-fold: I see. I touch. And I experience the response to my touch. When her lower back turns sweaty, I know the touch is working (well). To experience a woman being aroused at t...

I have recently watched the movie “the Intern”. It put a big smile on my face as I have experienced the advantages of carrying a handkerchief first-hand. More than once. [For those of you not familiar with the movie...a retired man is placed as an intern under a yuppie woman as part of an experiment by the young management of a vibrant modern company. She first hates him….and then learned that his life experience could be...

When I was at varsity in the middle 80’s, we were well beyond the true hippie era, but some of the best ‘glimpses on history’ that I have, are the occasional ‘hippie’ scenario’s that I experienced. 1986. I was invited to spend the first week of the summer holiday with a friend in the Still Bay area – Jongensfontein to be exact. Me and Andre had quite a few common interests, amongst which surfing and spearfishing featured...

The farmhouse where I spent most of my Sub A to Std 5 years, had a very nice lawn in the front. Many ‘serious rugby matches’ were played there – mostly Northern Transvaal vs WP. :-) Due to the chronical shortage of boys, the girls were inevitably drawn into those ‘matches’. The rugby was rough at times, and stupid, naïve farm boy that I was, I was largely unaware of the need to handle the girls differently – gentler. That...

At reading Nancy Friday’s 3 books on the sexual fantasies of women (now she is an Aussie that has mastered the trick of scratching your balls…), a seedling was sown. The seedling’s name was ‘a controlled walk in the mall’. When I first mentioned my fantasy to her, she turned dead silent. No comment, no further thoughts on the topic, no expressed views. Nothing. And then she phoned me one day. “Remember that controlled wal...

Ultra marathons, and preparing for them, is not just hard work. They have their lighter (and brighter!) sides too… There once was a 65km race from Knysna to Wilderness, inland, called the Two Lagoons. Entry levels used to be pretty low – around the 200 mark. Which meant that you could easily find yourself in an isolated running position, only seeing other athletes in the far distance – or not at all. Those of you that hav...

Our hedonistic group has grown in an unexpected direction during the last year or so. Officially our female members are now in the majority – something we could never foresee when the group started off with 2 members and no females a few years back. There is an element of ‘ownership’ in this life style – yet, due to the average profile of our male members, our modus operandi is pretty much one of complete respect towards...

I met her in cyber world (yes, right here), thereafter in real world. She is very real. She is sexy (as per my definition). She is extremely responsive. And, like all of us, she has limits. Sometimes limits need to be put to the test – either deliberately, or, sometimes co-incidentally. One Friday afternoon the following words let themselves out of my mouth without prior permission from the owner of my mouth : “Ms, do you...

There is a difference between what women say and what they actually mean…a rather big difference. E.g. she says (it is actually say and not ask…) : ”You still love me, darling?” means: You are not giving me sufficient attention, lately (…and it should come to an end soonest…). These kinda statements are still rather easy to manage as a man. E.g. you don’t have to answer her. I mean, after all, it was a statement and not a...

I sat in an open-air restaurant the other day when she came passed - probably straight from the beach, as there was still sand on her feet. And she was wearing the tiniest of denim shorts. She must have turned the heads of all hetro-sexual men that saw her. It was like pulling a magnet through fine iron particles… The effect was something to see… and something to appreciate. I am fairly certain, though, that it was more h...

I was in Stellenbosch during the “Woordfees” a couple of weeks back. There was multiple debates at the festival about a so-called “rape culture” at the campus. And then there was the “slut walk”. Semi-naked, half dressed and flimsy dressed women took the streets of the student town to “re-claim” their freedom and sexuality. The sight of all these half-dressed women is not an offending one. Perhaps the opposite. However… W...