My profile states that I love giving massages and tantra. It also states that I am quite happy to give her a massage/tantra as a turn-on and then leave – if that is her or the couple’s requirements. The real kick that I get from the ‘deal’, is three-fold: I see. I touch. And I experience the response to my touch. When her lower back turns sweaty, I know the touch is working (well). To experience a woman being aroused at the touch of my hands, is a huge compliment for me. And that suffice. It really does. The rest would always be only a bonus. Late one evening, a few years back, I started chatting with a couple on SH. [Let’s call them Tim and Olivia.] The ‘normal’ questions were discussed : What exactly would you do? Are you REALLY prepared to only do a massage and then leave ? What about your arousal ? What is tantra ? We still don’t understand, what is tantra really ? By approximately 23h30 of the same evening, I reported at their hotel room. I could sense they had a few drinks. They were not drunk at all though, maybe slightly tipsy, yet very relaxed. And that always help. I wasn’t nearly at the same level of sexual arousal as them. So I had to buy time….I went straight into the bathroom and started running a bath. Then I walked up to Olivia and starting unbuttoning her half see-through blouse, I asked Tim whether he’s okay with what I am doing. He nodded in fascination. I undressed Olivia and lead her into the bathroom and helped her into the bath. She laid down as I started to soap her in – all over. I could sense that her vulva area wasn’t entirely smooth, which meant that she could hurt when I massage her outer lips. She happened to be a ‘shaver’ and not a ‘waxer’. [I always do ask.] Next I asked whether it would be okay for me shave her. I could sense that Tim was very aroused by now. Olivia was initially a bit tense about the shaving, but when she realized it wasn’t the first time I had shaved a vulva, she started to relax again. She just laid down and closed her eyes – with a semi-smile on her face… I toweled her every inch afterwards. [Heated towels do wonders.] By the time she laid down on the bed, face down, she was ready for her massage. [And I was sexually tuned to their frequency.] I parted her legs gently. The first sight of glistering from her vagina opening or sweat on her lower back would tell when it’s time to turn her over… I heated the grape seed oil slightly [always carrying my gatchet with] and started to work from her lower back upwards, covering the ‘later’ areas with hotel linen. The neck and ears are the upper trigger points. Spending lots of time finger soft touching the neck and shoulders, is essential. The down trigger points are the toes, the buttocks and the inner thighs, with the latter by far the most sensual. I normally start watch the clock when I begin working on the inner thighs. By the 3rd minute, Olivia started responding well to my touch. Every time my hands went up her inner thighs, ever so gently, her butt would lift – either in anticipation of me touching her vulva, or, later in pure begging for it. But, exactly that is the principle of tantra – arouse the body and keep it in a state of arousal for as long as you want or need to…I therefore steered away from direct touching at that point of the massage. By the time the first sweat drop ran from her lower back onto the sheet, it was time to turn Olivia over… [The rest would only follow if there is sufficient request for it…]